I found a personal ad that my boyfriend made. It said, "male seeking male". I hate to think that he is bisexual. Is there a possibility that he could just be looking for friends. he is very lonely where he lives, cause he just moved. He always complain that the guys at work are married and are on a leash and cant' go out. There is one guy that is single at his job that he can hang out with, along with a few female co-workers. should I be worried? This is the first time I've ever seen anything like this on his email. He hasn't set up the profile yet, but he did start it. the description says, that he is looking for some friends. What should I do?
2007-02-04 03:16:23 · 15 answers · asked by YaYa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sorry, i know mature males. but how about a mature female?...it is possible he wants friends, but to put an ad in the personals!? that isnt a "friend" reason, its a "partner" reason. talk to him and find out what is up. any straight male i know would find some friends with the same intrests at the sports bar or something, not in the personals with an ad stating "male SEEKING male" !!!
2007-02-04 03:21:47 · answer #1 · answered by Ash 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I've never know a straight male that posted an ad seeking other males. You need to ask him what motivated him to place the ad.
You can locate other males to BS with etc. at the local bars and other places. I also doubt that all the married males at work are on a leash - bet they wouldn't agree with that statement.
For your health and his, get this issue well understood in the near future.
2007-02-04 03:28:36 · answer #2 · answered by jack w 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may think the site is for finding friends but what he's going to find is a gay web site. If he is just looking for male friends to hang out with he can get involved in some activities at local places like sports or music that will introduce him to other people. Otherwise, he is exploring some feelings of bisexuality and you need to determine which it is so I say confront him. You would be protecting yourself if it turns out he is gay or bisexual. Good luck.
2007-02-04 03:23:17 · answer #3 · answered by cinsingl83 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Male seeking male??? cmon... hes definitely a fruit. No straight guy in there right mind would put that on a profile. Depending on the site it sounds like he should be more on myspace looking for "friends" then adult friendfinder, or another site of that sort.
2007-02-04 03:22:10 · answer #4 · answered by Jasmine 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do not get into ideas that will break your relationship. He is quite a normal guy as you have mentioned that he is not able to get along with a single guy who is with him in the job. He is probably trying to get some acquaintances so that he can pass time. He is not involved with the girls because he is sincere to you.
You are lucky to have him.
2007-02-04 03:27:04 · answer #5 · answered by Tony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything could be going on.. But I think you should ask him and tell him to be completely honest with you.. From the things you said about the guys at work, etc. I'm sorry but I'm getting the hint it may be true.. BUT don't run to any sudden conclusions, just ask him.. That's what may be the best way to save you from your misery..
2007-02-04 03:22:05 · answer #6 · answered by Kenneth W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe talk with him about it, and he is probably just trying to find friends, but you can wait till the profile is finished. SO you can ask now or wait. But if you wait you will find out th e truth about the situation.
2007-02-04 03:28:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you wanted a man to answer but I thought I might be able to help. He may not be bi, but be what's called on "the down low". this is straight men that are not gay, love their girlfriend/wife but have gay sex. I don't know all the details, I would try asking about this in the gay category, the guys there might be able to explain the whole deal to you. sorry!
2007-02-04 03:28:37 · answer #8 · answered by Shellie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe he thinks it's funny that he is going to see gay people but you should really just go talk to him
And also why doesn't he just join a Yahoo Chat room?
2007-02-04 03:21:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him find some male friends, if you feel so uncofortable than talk to him, let him socialize, don't put him on that leash!
2007-02-04 03:20:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋