I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 12 months and now he says he needs to 'take a break' to re-evaluate what he wants from life and our relationship.
He does have some commitment issues - which I know about - but now he says he needs time to work out if he can fully commit to me (he says he's never felt this way about anyone else).
Am I being a fool to let him have this time out? Am I looking at the world through rose-tinted glasses by hoping that he comes back to me?
2007-02-04 03:01:39 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think so. Sometimes you need a break to find out that you really do want to be with a person. From your question you're already prepared for the worst, his not coming back. Now you need to realize that there is also a good possibility that he's going to realize how good he has it, and come right back! Good Luck!
2007-02-04 03:15:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i dont understand the points of breaks to me it just sounds like a guy wants to go and have fun with other girls and doesnt want to cheat on you but still have you at the same time. I could be completley wrong about this but you shouldnt be begging to him to come back to you and if you do then you would just be wasting your life. He could just be going through a lot and need time to think about it all. I would ask him.
2007-02-04 11:12:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep take the glasses off.
He does not want to commit so he is off.
Dont wait for him to mess you about tell him it is over he is free to wander the clubs and bars testing all the women and getting none of the benefits of a stable relationship.
2007-02-04 11:08:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best bet is to let him have time to think about things. If you dont hear from him in a week I would contact him and see what is going on and take it from there.
Good luck.
2007-02-04 11:04:14 · answer #4 · answered by moo shell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The break he wants to take is in between another girls legs. He will come back after she gets boring.
2007-02-04 11:04:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ooooooooooooh....That's a tough one... I'd say maybe 3-4 weeks just ask him straight up what's going on and if he's still interested. Hope that helps and good luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-04 11:06:46 · answer #6 · answered by étoile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea when a guy says that..he just wants to go out and bang other chicks..with letting you down softly...he kinda wants to keep you on the backburner in case he gets horny he can booty call you...peace
2007-02-04 11:04:25 · answer #7 · answered by Answeroni-TheGreatRevenge 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
whnat you shoud do is to ask him out and then he will have to say yes.
right back
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2007-02-04 11:08:00 · answer #8 · answered by Makenna J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋