Here it is. The knowledge that you have been missing all these years. Now use it, and take control!
Ego! That is the key to a man. women listen up.
Have you ever seen a great looking man with a nasty looking woman???
Just how you can tell a millionare, he is the dork with the hottie, You can also tell the woman who figured out the man's ego.
So how do you become the woman who has the key to any man's heart? that is really a very simple thing. first do not give men as much credit as you do. we are very simple animals. every man has his thing. some it is sports, others it is cars, still others it is music. you have to find that thing that he likes, and enjoy it with him. do not be afraid of talking to him. do not be shy. just start talking, once he thinks that you truly have something in common with him, the door is open.
back to the EGO.
compliments, compliments, compliments.
something as silly as telling him how good he looks, will have a lasting impression on him. those compliments should never end. Soon, he will be thinking he is king of the world while he is with you. And that will go much further than anything else. you will be the addiction he seeks.
for your knowledge...the men who are here saying how awful their relationships are, the men who cheat, the men who want to divorce their wives and leave their 5 children all have a woman who has traded his EGO! for her need to nag!....never forget his ego...he will do anything you want if you always stroke his EGO
so go out and start stroking the EGO!
2007-02-04 03:03:15 · 10 answers · asked by gibson_slayer 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Your answer is right on. I think you have the right idea!
If I could give you kudos you'd get 30.
2007-02-04 03:57:55 · answer #1 · answered by bsufanforlife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're awesome! That's a great answer for a lot of these teenage girls who don't know what to do! I would add to that, though. Always stroke the ego when you're WITH him. When you're not, don't be the girl that calls all the time or stays on the phone for hours. Let HIM call YOU and never have the phone conversation last more than 10 minutes. This way you ensure two things: a)you can always be sure that he is giving you his full attention because he called you when he was thinking about you and b) you always leave him wanting more........Good luck ladies, men are fun!!:)
2007-02-04 03:10:35 · answer #2 · answered by answergrrl3 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't agree with this philosophy at all. I do agree that men are simple beings and it's very easy to get our hearts and get us to do whatever you want, but I believe those ways are just, lots of lovemaking(sex) and don't try to change us. Follow those two simple rules and you will have very few problems. If you go feeding a guys ego, you'll create a monster. Yes he will think he's king of the world and act accordingly. You better be ready to be very submissive to a tyrant if you build up a guys ego as suggested here. Everyone is entitled to their opinion, and this may work for this gentleman, but believe me....not for most......guys who have the egos built this way usually become over agressive, abusive and act as if you no longer matter, they could have any girl in the world if you don't comply. Seen it happen hundreds of times. Sorry just my observation during my experiences.
2007-02-04 03:21:53 · answer #3 · answered by flashpro 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
mmmm I hate to say it but... how come you all don't do that for us?
I think it would be reciprocated if you all initiated it.
"I like your dress. You look fabulous tonight." .... start with that and you'll soon be hearing from us "Wow, thank you. You look great, too!" Why? Because you've just told us that its ok to comment on things like that.
MANY girls, especially ones raised in conservative homes, feel uncomfortable being too liberal with their affections and attentions. Getting a girl to be forward about her attraction or feeligns towards you can be hard - best thing to do is lead by example.
2007-02-04 03:17:07 · answer #4 · answered by kerrisonr 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok i get all this, i'm curious to why they care so much about egos if we love them for the way they are why do they have to have the world love them? aren't we enough?
2007-02-04 03:13:06 · answer #5 · answered by seasons.change.but.people.dont 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes!! You are so right, I couldn't have said it better myself. What you'd do to get a man is the same thing you should do to keep him!
2007-02-04 03:09:08 · answer #6 · answered by Candie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's a two way street, us girls like our ego's stroked too. I do stroke my man's ego and he loves it...
2007-02-04 03:09:57 · answer #7 · answered by Martini Babee 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Look hot, men notice. That may not get you a relationship though.
2007-02-04 03:10:41 · answer #8 · answered by Sam 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Too much work. Wouldn't it be more rewarding to just get a dog?
2007-02-04 03:07:30 · answer #9 · answered by ginger 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I feel pretty. Oh so pretty.
2007-02-04 03:33:16 · answer #10 · answered by Jagger Otto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋