What do I do? Does he like me?

Question

There is this guy that I like a lot. Only two problems. First off, he lives in a different town so i don't get to hang out with him very often, but when we do we have so much fun. We still talk, even when we aren't hanging out, over the phone, aim, etc. Second off, I don't know if he likes me the same way. I think I see signs that he likes me, but I mite just see them b/c I want him to like me. When we do hang out, we usually hang out with other friends, too. We will go to the mall or the movies, etc. I have caught him looking at me, and then he would quickly look away. He would walk real close to me- bumping into me several times. If I go outside when we are waiting for a ride home from the movies (b/c I am hot, etc.), he would follow me outside, even though everyon else was staying in. When we talk it is either flirty-make-fun-of-eachother... or serious stuff, like stuff you don't tell just anyone. So am I seeing things that aren't there? Should i tell him I how I feel?

i am 15, 16 in less than a month, not 12. and the guy that i like is shy about things like this, at least i think he is........

Answer 1

I think he most likely feels the same way. It may be he thinks you're just close friends, but he might feel the same way. The next time you hang out with him, tell him how you feel, but ask him to keep it a secret in case you don't want your friends to find out. Ask him to also promise to stay friends even if he doesn't feel the same way. What do you know, you might not be alone for Valentines Day after all. I hope this helped, and good luck!

Answer 2

I think you are reading into his every move and taking it the wrong way because you want him to feel a certain way. He may be into but I doubt he is showing like you describe. Usually when someone likes you, they will tell you. They are not going to go out there everytime with undertones. I say go slow with him. He may see you as just a friend and you might not want to do that. You can tell him you are maybe having more than friend feelings for him and see how he reacts. You need to be careful with this situation so you don't get hurt. Rejection is painful, but it is part of the dating process and everyone goes through it. You can't let it bring you down.

Answer 3

How old are you here? I mean, no offense but I see so many 12-year-old's ask this question on Yahoo Answers daily that it isn't even funny. If you like the guy, ask him out. If you want to wait to see if he likes you and see if he asks you, then do that. Just don't sit there and fret about it. If you like the guy, go for it.

Answer 4

i think you should tell him that u luv him and maybe he mite say the same to u! u have to take chances, before someone else does it first!i hope u go and do it. so good luck and i hope u both get together.

Answer 5

well it's clear that he likes you however I'm not sure if he likes you as much as you do ,so my advice is to let him know that you care for him ..maybe you have to show how you feel at first then when he reacts the same then tel him..

Answer 6

He probably does like you. You should be able to pick up vibes. Just go for it.

Answer 7

oh yeah he likes you girl!!!! just ask him if you can go to the movies alone sometime so you can really see

Answer 8

yep he likes u an dyes u shoul tell and if they werent there u wouldnt see them

Answer 9

yes, you should tell him how you feel. I think he likes you too, but is either to shy to tell you or afraid you will reject him.(?)

just tell him.

Answer 10

If you don't take the chance then you will never know.