Me and my ex broke up last November.. She wasn't completely happy with me so she went with another guy. She gained love for him, and basically cut me off completely! I was very hurt and depressed during the first 2 months but I had to reach for closure.. But finding interest in other females seemed impossible.. I wanted ONLY her!
Just recently she started feeling unfulfilled with him and basically half of her still wanted me.. Now, I don't wanna share anybody love and she thought by me feeling like that, that I didn't love her and I do but its just that I want her to MYSELF!
So, lately I started talking to this other girl who's nice, good personality etc. But I'm not ready to start another relationship.. My ex and her boyfriend just broke up 2 weeks ago and she wants me back, I don't know if it took the guy breaking up with her to help her realize the love she still has for me but she wants me back and is jealous about the girl I'm talking to now.... Should I give is another try?
2007-02-04 03:29:02 · 15 answers · asked by Kenneth W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no. if you are not completely sure, don't go back to her. I think that it would be like reading a book and knowing its end.
2007-02-04 03:33:48 · answer #1 · answered by deana m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She only wants you back because the other guy is gone!!!
Come on you've been miserable all this time and now you have a chance at what could be the real thing, because if your ex and you would have been the real thing? you wouldn't have met this new person because you never would have broken up don't go back, remember she was not happy with you before now she is wanting a second go at your heart? don't do it... if you are not ready for another relationship then you shouldn't even consider it. Good luck looks like you have everything going for you, girls interested in you, your pick...enjoy
2007-02-04 03:37:23 · answer #2 · answered by Neptune2bsure 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From my experience, why go backwards? Just move forwards. It is most likely that your EX is the one not ready to settle down and be with just one person. If you can handle the same situation happening again, then give it another try. But if it hurt too much and your just now starting to move on, let her go. Its hard on the heart but you would be saving yourself more heart ache and mental torture later.
Give the nice girl a try....you never know what you can have with her or another girl. You already know what you went threw with your ex.
Remember the phrase "Been There Done That....Aint Going Back"
Good Luck!!!!
2007-02-04 03:38:08 · answer #3 · answered by ShannonsJoy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to be a buzzkill, but I'd strongly suggest no. No matter how hard you try, a lot of the trust is gone and it won't be the same. Besides, it sounds almost like she's trying to use you as a fallback guy because her last relationship didn't work out. Maybe I'm just cynical, but I really wouldn't.
Good luck in whatever you decide.
2007-02-04 03:32:20 · answer #4 · answered by Justin V 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Her new guy didn't work out, so she wants you to tide her over until she can find somebody more interesting. She already proved she wasn't that interested in you by her actions, so don't fall for this again: she knows where your buttons are and how to push them, so she's a potential danger to you moving on.
Tell her you're not interested in another relationship with her, but you'd like to thank her because you learned from her what you do not want in a relationship.
Next.
2007-02-04 03:35:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow tricky Hun bun my ex did this to me very hard if u think u Kan b happy then yes and she Will not wonder off again then go for it , but my experience is they do this to u over and over again because u take them back,
so NO leave it she had to b with another guy to release she wonted u what she so like my ex bad news y dint u chat b 4 she went she nasty self centered u devser better she no u hurt and sad so to take her bk Will b brill but in long run she Will do this again if u tk her bk now she Will fink she Kan always go off coz u will always tk her bk pls don't i had done this took my bf bk 4 times in 2 years and now im not having it he has hurt me 2 times and is bk in touch now after 6 weeks saying how am i ples chat then meet up etc and all ha-pens again move on good luck the pain Will get easier i find i Kan move on after 4 months and see in other people comes naturally wen ready xxx xxx Jess
2007-02-04 03:37:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not! Don't do it man! She treated you like a second fiddle to this guy she just broke up with now. You are probably her fall back guy until she finds someone "better". You don't deserve to be treated the way you were. Find a new girl that is worth your time.
2007-02-04 03:32:56 · answer #7 · answered by tannedknight45 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! what makes you think that she wont dump your @ss like she did once and she did to her current bf after you? She has a pattern of getting rid of guys like she does to gum that isnt tasty any more..Move on unless you want 2 be depressed again for someone who isnt sure of what she really wants, or your going to be hoping and waiting until she makes up her damn mind?Dont let her step all over you, you do it once she will keep ding it
2007-02-04 03:34:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This girl has way too many issues, so unless you are the " I want to rescue her" type of guy, go on with your life. Ask your self this...Why can't she spend 5 minutes without a guy?? Is her father not there for her?
2007-02-04 03:35:00 · answer #9 · answered by stacia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Insecure little idiot. She will just dump you again the next time a guy with a bigger cock, wallet, or better car comes along. I would act like I wanted to get back with her, then pump her, then dump her, and ask her how it feels to get dumped.
2007-02-04 03:35:24 · answer #10 · answered by mycatsdead 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋