Family & Relationships - 3 February 2007

3 days after valentin's day is our anniversray and i dont know what to get my boyfriend. im getting him a watch and a card for valentin;s day but i dont know what to get him for our anniversary.....any ideas..... no sex comments im only 15,and he is 16

2007-02-03 17:50:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do men get attached to women they have sex with? I've been FWB off and on with this guy for about 6 years... recently we have been getting together again, about once a week on average. Last time I saw him, he was telling me how much he loves me, and how I'm his 'dream girl'. He was talking about how in some ways he wishes we had been together 'exclusively' from 6 years ago, but how we both needed to experience some life before converging paths again... he was also saying he wants to make a point of seeing me a lot more, and how i'm his 'girlfriend'.

I'm not sure if he actually means all of this though, or if he just thinks he is being romantic for the moment. How common is it for a guy to fall for his FWB? I'm not particularly attentive to him, and I don't really go out of my way for him, so i'm not sure why he is feeling so attached to me. The sex is very very good, so maybe he is just attached to the sex?

2007-02-03 17:49:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-03 17:49:13 · 1 answers · asked by vincentnorthington 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi i have a bit of a problem, i love a very special someone to me, they mean more then the world to me.
But they said I was distant, and i feel sad because i would do anything for them, what should i do?
also could someone tell me any ideas on finding a great valentines present.
sincerely brie.S.A.G.R

2007-02-03 17:49:11 · 2 answers · asked by buzzlightgirlinfinity 1 in Singles & Dating

We have been going out for 3 years and he has a particular set of friends which I believe dont like me. I have metioned it before but he says I am being silly. They are very rough alpha male immature guys that have never really had a proper girlfriend. They go out with the remaining girls in the town who are still in high school! We are all around 20 - 24 age group. I have always tried to be nice to them and it was OK in the beginning but has gradually gotten worse over the years. The situation is we all grew up in the same small town, now my bf and I live in the city 3 hours away. Our parents still live in this town so I have to go up there regularly, and I am forced to deal with them. All my friends from this town have left (the smart people do this). So I dont really have anyone that is on my side. I dont particuly like them never have really but I am always nice when I am around them and I try to avoid seeing them. But I feel bad because they are his friends. How do I handle them?

2007-02-03 17:48:38 · 12 answers · asked by f_jayce 5 in Friends

just missing him !!!

2007-02-03 17:48:26 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I told my bf how i felt about him and he said he felt same way but not ready for relationship How can I make the love I have for him go away with out having to stop talk to him

Check out my other question How long do you wait for love

2007-02-03 17:47:35 · 10 answers · asked by jen 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-03 17:46:45 · 2 answers · asked by DAVID M 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I hv talked to this guy a few times. He talks 90% of the time. He is interested in a lot of things like photography and music. He goes on and on. And then he asks me that hope he isn't boring me, and I say no, and then he starts again. This guy is interested in me, but he has already turned me off. I hv been the only one, as a good human, asking him q's about his day and giving him feedback and encouraging comments on everything he says. He is so engrossed he has forgotten to ask me q's. Hell, he even forgot to congratulate me on my new job. In my opinion, he is out-the-gate already.

PS: Guys, please dont ever do this to someone u want to date or are dating. Get interested in her life, likes, and dislikes too.

2007-02-03 17:46:20 · 2 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

ive been wit this guy for 3 years on feb 23 and i live with him....im 17 but i still get jelous...what wrong with me?????????

2007-02-03 17:46:10 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-03 17:45:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-02-03 17:45:50 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I had a fight with my girlfriend because we were spending to much time togheter telling me that im controling but i didnt want it to seem that way ... i just love spending time with her and we are dating for only 2and half months and im not in that place where i jsut need time apart .... I asked her... Do you still want to make this relationship to work? She said " i dont know what i want" and then i asked her-Are we on a break and she said " i dont know what are we on i just need some time to myself to figure what i want" She says that she still loves me ( but i dont know if she knows that for a fact or is she just thinking that ).......... i hope i get positive answers :)) cause i love her a lot and this waiting thing eats me inside and its killing me :(

2007-02-03 17:45:38 · 4 answers · asked by mircea b 2 in Singles & Dating

My friend doesn't talk that much. She usually lessens and answers questions, but I want to know more about her and her interests. When I ask her for Ex. where do you want to go? or what do you want to do? she says I dont care, where ever you say.

How can I make her talk?
What should we talk about?

2007-02-03 17:45:35 · 1 answers · asked by B.N 2 in Singles & Dating

i asked a question yesterday and someone said that he wants to get in your pants? i don't get it. does it mean what i think it means?

2007-02-03 17:45:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

How many of you would stay married to your husband had you found out that he fathered a child, during the marriage? And why?

2007-02-03 17:44:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i am really close with these people ( 2 girls and 2 guys) and we all knew each other since we were really young (8 years we've known each other)..we were a group and did so much exciting thing together.But last week, one thing led to another and i ended up having sex with one of the girls. It felt weird but, yeah we did it in the end with condoms ofcourse. Now, she wont talk to me or won't , kinda shoot a look at me or whatever you call it. I dont quite want to start anything serious with her but why wont she speak to me anymore? While the rest are getting suspicious, im running out of excuses to keep things secret at all. I desperately need someone to talk to about things. Can someone tell me how to start? apologise?

2007-02-03 17:44:06 · 12 answers · asked by YneshWasHere 1 in Friends

Been married 11/2 years, he didn't smoke when we married but now he feels the need. He doesn't smoke in the house but I smell it on him and it's in his breath. Brushing doesn't help and I find it hard to be intimate with him b/c kissing really gets me there and I find his breath repulsive. He keeps saying he's 'trying to quit,' but his smoking seems to be never ending. I always refused to be with a smoker and now he's my husband and I just can't seem to get over this. It really bothers me. WHAT SHOULD I DO??? And I definately don't believe in divorce.

2007-02-03 17:43:48 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

do you think eight years apart is too big of an age gap? Or could it work?

2007-02-03 17:41:59 · 26 answers · asked by rockin_my_rattail 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay! Well i have A Boyfriend, Justin Well he Sayes He didn't Do this but I'm not Shur... See theres this roomer goin around that he skrewed this girl, Jessie.... I mean I want to bealive him, But She even wrote on her myspace why Won't he admit it was I that Bad.... I mean I'm A girl And I wouldn't Put that on my myspace unless It Was really Botherin me..... Shes Is hes X and All and She Still Likes Him Soo I was Just thinkin That she was sayin that soo we would dump and she could have him.... But I don't Know.. would Some one help me......???

2007-02-03 17:41:27 · 16 answers · asked by I Love Him..... 1 in Singles & Dating

ive recently met a guy and have become very interested in him. i dont see him very often and am too shy to ever make a move to improve the proximity situation.. what should i do, or is this just a hopeless situation..

2007-02-03 17:40:22 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I generally like this guy. I thought of us as potential friends, but never thought of much more because of the "girlfriend" issue, who he has been known to cheat on. We had hung out before on occasion, and then coincidentally had a class together. We've been sitting together, and within the past month hung out twice. Once we almost slept together, but not quite. Since then I've been searching for the authenticity of his other relationship and there are no answers. Then, he started sitting by some other girl in the row ahead of me. I asked and he said they had the same major so had taken other classes together. I'm offended even if I shouldn't be that he practically ignores me in class, and then is all talkative at work and other places. Player, yes. Should I care about it at all anymore? Also, is it worth sending a message by moving to the back of the classroom so I don't have to feel inferior to their little conversations in the row just ahead of me? PS- I hate being played.

2007-02-03 17:39:25 · 7 answers · asked by micha 3 in Singles & Dating

My bf and I have been going out for about 4 months. We are both in 8th grade. He is really funny and isn't the most romantic guy, he is kind of the class clown. I need a light-hearted kind of funny gift.Under $25. Any ideas?

2007-02-03 17:38:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well actually me and her are not going out because the situation she is in with her parents makes it nearly impossible for us to see each other (she does not live in same town as me but only about 15 miles away) so we decided to stop seeing each other until we were able to see each other more. its been a very long time now and nothing has got better and i think me and her are losing hope along with our love. we used to get to talk on the phone all the time but now it can go like 3-6 days till she calls me and its usually not even that long on the phone. this is my first girlfriend so im still trying to get past the awkwardness but im real insecure and shy. how can improve our talks on the phone to avoid the long silences and make it more fun so i dont feel bad all the time thinking that im not good for her and alway nervoud that she could be doing stuff behind my back when she doesnt call me for a lon time.

2007-02-03 17:38:20 · 6 answers · asked by Shadowlord 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I are both 25. We are about to celebrate our first year as a couple; what should i get him?

2007-02-03 17:37:07 · 6 answers · asked by Shantha_ 1 in Singles & Dating

Im already ticked off by Valentine's Day.
The only guys I am interested in have either gone MIA or have suddenly started ating brand new people.
Im a girl, but Im wondering if guys suddenly want to shack up before Valentine's Day ?
The same cycle happened back around Xmas/NYE. Guys I was kinda interested in suddenly got serious dating new chicks around the Holidays. Im picky so I guess I took too long to show interest.
I know Im going to have a rough time dealing with Valentine's being single. Do men get the men get the same way ?

2007-02-03 17:36:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok so my "ex bf" now was like the world to me now he broke up with me because he believes my friend that said that I hated him and that I just go out with him so I can have a bf But I really LOVE him...And i want him back but he wont take me back plz help me I told him how i really felt about him but he wont believe me wat do i do?? btw that girl isnt my friend anymore

2007-02-03 17:35:21 · 8 answers · asked by Brittany C 1 in Singles & Dating

ive liked, okay loved, this one guy for three years..well ive liked others too but no matter who ive liked and dated these past couple years my heart is with him. he knows how i have/do feel about him...well right now he thinks that its not the same as it has been but it hasnt changed much. he has my heart. and i love him. weve grown to be best friends..but ive wanted more than that since the day i met him. is there anyway i could get him to see me as more than the girl who eats lunch with him and laughs at his stupid jokes all the time? because all i want is a chance to show him how id do practically anything to be an amazing girlfriend.

2007-02-03 17:32:51 · 5 answers · asked by little lizzy lou lemon 2 in Singles & Dating

I was told today by a friend of mine who just came to town (its a very small town, 600 ppl) that a bunch of people here think Im stuck up. I work as a bouncer, but Im not huge or anything, I could still woop your butt. Im not good at talking to people I dont know, my mom was very protective so I got screwed into homeschooling. I dunno, I suck at talking to people, and in my line of work, its not always good to be well known. Anyways, Im the strong silent type, that and I almost always smoke a doob right after work, so Im pretty docile. Anyways, peace out.

2007-02-03 17:31:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have told him I want a divorce, asked him when he's leaving, moved out of our bedroom, we dont talk except when we have to...I am running out of things!! Help. I have kids so it cant be anything wild.

2007-02-03 17:31:08 · 29 answers · asked by Stephanie F 1 in Marriage & Divorce