ive liked, okay loved, this one guy for three years..well ive liked others too but no matter who ive liked and dated these past couple years my heart is with him. he knows how i have/do feel about him...well right now he thinks that its not the same as it has been but it hasnt changed much. he has my heart. and i love him. weve grown to be best friends..but ive wanted more than that since the day i met him. is there anyway i could get him to see me as more than the girl who eats lunch with him and laughs at his stupid jokes all the time? because all i want is a chance to show him how id do practically anything to be an amazing girlfriend.
2007-02-03 17:32:51 · 5 answers · asked by little lizzy lou lemon 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My goodness... Let me tell you something. It's not easy. It's chance, luck and timing mixed together. My girlfriend right now liked me for two years with my knowledge, but I didn't like her. I chased after one of her best friends for most of that time then dated another one of them for three months. The thing is that I spent time with her and as she started flirting I started flirting back and it blossomed and I started to really like her. With guys, there's really no way to make us like you... you just have to open up, be friendly and flirty, and kind. Maybe you could try to ask him. Women taking charge is fun. *hint hint*
2007-02-03 17:40:11 · answer #1 · answered by Eugene Zappier 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're already an amazing girlfriend without the job title.
Realize that whatever move you make could jeopardize the integrity of your friendship. I don't mean to freak you out by this; it's the simple reality of changing anything.
HOWEVER, if you fail to act and regret it for the rest of your life (I doubt you would, but in a poetic, romantic, ethereal, sense....) then you'd always have an emptiness which couldn't be settled with other men. Definitely, tell him how you feel, but do it in an honest manner when you feel the situation is most appropriate for it.
If you are goofing off and say "hahahah.. Yeah, wanna be my boyfriend?" he'll probably be a bit shaken and confused. You want to make sure you're sensing similar feelings from him.
2007-02-04 01:43:53 · answer #2 · answered by tercellulite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is what you have probably done and that is talk to him and tell him the truth about your feelings.
He sounds like a person who is just going to use you and never give you what you want.
If this is the case it is time to move on.
Good Luck
2007-02-04 01:38:59 · answer #3 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do things together just the two of you. You know movies, dinner, walks. He will soon see that you are in fact going out on dates and that maybe you are his girl.
2007-02-04 01:37:53 · answer #4 · answered by smilingtalker_au 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry to say this but you need to move on. if he feel as
you did he would have made the move a long time ago. he
really sound like he cherish you as a good friend but i dont
believe that it will be anythiing more.
2007-02-04 01:38:46 · answer #5 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋