well actually me and her are not going out because the situation she is in with her parents makes it nearly impossible for us to see each other (she does not live in same town as me but only about 15 miles away) so we decided to stop seeing each other until we were able to see each other more. its been a very long time now and nothing has got better and i think me and her are losing hope along with our love. we used to get to talk on the phone all the time but now it can go like 3-6 days till she calls me and its usually not even that long on the phone. this is my first girlfriend so im still trying to get past the awkwardness but im real insecure and shy. how can improve our talks on the phone to avoid the long silences and make it more fun so i dont feel bad all the time thinking that im not good for her and alway nervoud that she could be doing stuff behind my back when she doesnt call me for a lon time.
2007-02-03 17:38:20 · 6 answers · asked by Shadowlord 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Iono. I'm getting the vibe that it's time to move on. At this weak point, it's usually too far gone. Something has gone on and unless BOTH of you fight for it, it's not gonna come back on it's feet. She is the first girlfriend, and unless you grew up with your parents telling you how a relationship is supposed to be and how to live your life, I have a feeling that you still have some more experiencing to do. I know it sucks that you 2 have drifted away, but this kind of fighting puts alot of weight on your heart and hers. I say figure out whats going on her end. If there's a spark or flare at all, you can go ahead and fight for it if she's willing to do the same. If not... it might have to be time to call it quits.
I wish you luck.
2007-02-11 16:29:57 · answer #1 · answered by grizzlygurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st G friends are the hardest to get over. She may be thinking exactlly what you are. Then again there's two sides to every coin. She may be having a hard time telling you it's over. You have to ask yourself or her right out.
Am I bothering you.?
I have feelings for you but don't want to feel like a stalker.
If you say so I'll wait as long as it take's.
If you say so, I'll walk away.
You tell me what I can do to make you happiest.
Thats really all I want is to see you smile and know that I'm the one who makes you happy..
I don't want to seem pushy... And I hate feeling awkward or think I'm being a negitive influace in your life.
Whatever it takes to make you happy. That will make me happy.
Maybe schedule a Time or date for the phone call. This will keep you looking forward to something instead of waiting for something that you never know will or wont happen. Don't keep thinking about it. Give your mind a break.
2007-02-03 17:53:36 · answer #2 · answered by Grand Eminence 1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure how old you are -- but I really think from what you wrote you need to focus on your education at this point -- particularly English, writing and spelling. I truly think this would serve you best for your future in all that you do. Please realise something that we all have too -- we must learn, grow and develop our own lives before we can be a true contributor to another person's life.
2007-02-11 11:11:12 · answer #3 · answered by brenwein777 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The more time you are away from a person the more you will have to talk about. I don't know how old you are but if you are an adult and you are both serious about each other maybe leaving the nest is an option?
2007-02-03 17:42:28 · answer #4 · answered by trinity082482 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe it's time to find the next girlfriend?
2007-02-10 05:04:37 · answer #5 · answered by billyjoemikey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay the next time you talk to her, try to come up with a conversation with her, about her day, or something. or get right to the point. what is she doing for those long periods of time, and where is your relationship going. hope that helps ya.
2007-02-03 17:43:20 · answer #6 · answered by Jessica O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋