I generally like this guy. I thought of us as potential friends, but never thought of much more because of the "girlfriend" issue, who he has been known to cheat on. We had hung out before on occasion, and then coincidentally had a class together. We've been sitting together, and within the past month hung out twice. Once we almost slept together, but not quite. Since then I've been searching for the authenticity of his other relationship and there are no answers. Then, he started sitting by some other girl in the row ahead of me. I asked and he said they had the same major so had taken other classes together. I'm offended even if I shouldn't be that he practically ignores me in class, and then is all talkative at work and other places. Player, yes. Should I care about it at all anymore? Also, is it worth sending a message by moving to the back of the classroom so I don't have to feel inferior to their little conversations in the row just ahead of me? PS- I hate being played.
2007-02-03 17:39:25 · 7 answers · asked by micha 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He doesn't even deserve your time let alone your respect.
Don't move to the back of the room just to avoid him, he'll know you are bothered.
My advise, ignore him. Pretend like he isn't even in the room. Give him a taste of his own medicine, not that it would bother him. He sounds like he doesn't care about anyone but himself anyway.
2007-02-03 17:48:08 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 00:04:25 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u dun have to write a note to change place, this makes the guy think that u are "weak" and ignore u further. Juz ignore him and continue sitting at the same place.U can go out with other guys u like and make he old 1 jealous :P Am i bad??
2007-02-03 17:46:09 · answer #3 · answered by a s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The world is full of other really great guys. forget this one and find one that is really hot and nice and will treat you great. This guy is a shmuck and doesnt deserve you. Have fun finding the guy of your dreams. You are young and gorgeous and you have your whole life ahead of you. Good luck and dont waste your time on that gigolo.
2007-02-03 17:47:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for one, from what i gather he is already in a relationship, so shouldnt he already be off the market for you? and for two, if he is trying to holla at you WHILE in the relationship he is currently in...then dont you think he would do it to YOU, if you were in a relationship with him? bottom line, you know already how he operates, so luv, i suggest you leave him be, theres plenty of us guys out there, who will give you the attention you want. take care.
2007-02-03 17:46:17 · answer #5 · answered by Yahoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You hate being played so why are you letting him play you. This guys seems like he is looking for the bigger better deal and it's not you =(
2007-02-03 17:43:27 · answer #6 · answered by trinity082482 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what goes around comes around... The same thing you did to his girlfriend is happening to you! Now move on! This guy has no respect for you or his girlfriend, you should have seen this coming!
Shame on you!
2007-02-03 17:48:01 · answer #7 · answered by Linger 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋