Family & Relationships - 30 January 2007

Well, here's the thing.. ive been in this rollar coaster of a relationship, if u can call it that for the past 2 years. I want to end it, but can't help myself because im really in love. But the thing is when I try to distance myself from the said person and concentrate on other aspects, he keeps calling, leaves messages etc etc. Now for the past week it was all good and week (this is the best stable time period of our relatonship, since we're normally back on square one after 3-4 days tops) Now seeing as how i dont want out, im trying to make it work but now it's him whose gone all weird on me. Saying, he'd rather be alone. No response to my messages, won't call. Now when i stop doing all this, he starts it up. Im kind of tired of all of this, but i dont know what to do?

2007-01-30 15:36:28 · 17 answers · asked by Kevin M 1 in Singles & Dating

i mean like, if a daughter is spoiled then what would be another word for spoiled or bad?

2007-01-30 15:34:01 · 23 answers · asked by surina g 1 in Friends

So I am very involved with music- I am in all the concert bands at my school, and I taught myself how to play guitar by myself. I have paid for all my own instruments and I really don't ask my parents for much when it comes to my music. Anyway, I mentioned to my mother that I want to work as a musician when I am older (as a part time thing) and she FLIPPED OUT. She said that I will make no money and that it is really hard to make it in that business, and that I should be a lawyer or something instead. My mom thinks I am wasting my time with music- she doesn't go to my concerts very often and she despises every aspect of my passion for music. I am a great student in school and an all around well behaved kid. I don't really understand what her problem is... but how can I make my mom accept the fact that I want to be a musician? Is there anything I can do for her to stop lecturing me about this?

2007-01-30 15:33:44 · 8 answers · asked by Polygonia 3 in Family

If possible, how does one accomplish this? (This is hypothetical, I'm happily married.)

2007-01-30 15:33:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-30 15:33:13 · 19 answers · asked by troy d 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I did it twice Sat night. We tried to do it Sunday morning but he couldn't finish after 30 minutes or so, so we stopped. Then we tried to do it again later but he lost the hardness. What is going on? Are we just doing it too much? Is he not excited by me? He seems like he is, at least he loves to kiss me for hours. Thanks for your help!

2007-01-30 15:31:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been together for quite a while. He used to tell me he loves me every day but lately he hardly ever does. It's been like that for a few months and we haven't spent much time together either due to his busy work schedule. He just got back home from working overseas for a month. I thought we would get to spend more time with each other now that he was back. But he went to visit his friends whom he hadn't see for a few months last weekend. I confronted him yesterday and asked him why he never told me he loved me nowadays. He said he had been very busy and as a result tired, but his feelings hadn't changed. He said sorry if i felt neglected.

It shouldn't take much time or engery to say those words. I feel he has lost interest and was just using some lame excuse.

Am I worrying about nothing?

2007-01-30 15:31:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

All the girls at my school think I'm plastic and that I care about nothing other than how I look, and it's completely not true. I'm kind, forgiving, outgoing, and generally a really nice person. And I do know that they know this, but they continue to hate me for no reason at all, I mean, girls that I don't even know/seen/talked to, hate my guts. I don't have this problem with guys, just girls. And this problem got even worse when I bleached my hair out! It's only a hair color for frig sakes! The girls think I am a bimbo, wear too much makeup, plastic, preppy, a whore, slut, etc. And they want me to go "die" for it. I don't get it! I'm nice to everyone... yet they all hate me, except the guys :( I just turned 16, and I'm really nice, and I've never had a boyfriend before (by choice), and they all call me a slut!

2007-01-30 15:30:30 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My parents are having their 50th Wedding Anniversarry this Summer.

Is it typical for the parents to pay for this or is it appropriate for the kids to pay?

2007-01-30 15:30:24 · 16 answers · asked by ? 4 in Weddings

Living "south of the line" for all my life, i take pride in my dixie self. I AM SOUTHERN LADY FROM MARYLAND, like it or not, i AM southern. I talk with an accent and im used to braidin' my daughters hair on the porch! I love cookin' fried chicken, maccaroni, and creole favorites! I love showing great hospitality and a great accent. and i Am from the MD. Just because Maryland is very advanced in areas such as baltimore and DC, doesn't make us northern. Im about as southern as a broke back lady from mississippi! haahaha. i also have GREAT humor!
My point is, we're south of the line. GET USED TO IT. i just wanna know...
why do people call us north???

and this includes Kentucky, Maryland, Missouri, Florida, West Virginia, and Virginia(dc too)

2007-01-30 15:29:50 · 9 answers · asked by sisi 1 in Singles & Dating

and then some of us cant get a break? i mean really i know people who could actually fall into a pile of poop and come out with a handful of gold.. i work my butt off every day i am a sweet person i am always thinking of others and give every thing i can to others. i try to always do what is rite. i love my kids my husband and my family but yet i am always on the loosing end y is that? how do you people that have it all every day do it? and how do the ones like me who struggle each day find strength to go on? real answers only please this isnt a joke i am being serious. and i am not putting anyone else down for having it all i think thats great i just want a little of what you have.

2007-01-30 15:29:48 · 1 answers · asked by crazyme 5 in Friends

I have a situation. There is a guy that has been hitting on me for about 2 weeks now and he is in a relationship and so am I. He wants us to be friend with benefits even though we are both seeing someone else seriously for quite some time. I am leaning toward it because my boyfriend is not very physical with me sometimes when I want him and I think this guy will be. I haven't done anything yet, but what do I do with my boyfriend. We have been through alot and we have been together for about 2 years now and he is not thinking about a serious commitment anytime soon. Do I see if the grass is greener on the other side or do I be true to him?

2007-01-30 15:28:53 · 8 answers · asked by missmozee 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-30 15:28:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-30 15:28:33 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-30 15:28:28 · 12 answers · asked by flounder 1 in Marriage & Divorce

She's huge from being pregnant....and i mean HUGE she must have like 7 kids in there.

2007-01-30 15:28:13 · 9 answers · asked by tylerthedrummer 1 in Family

I like this guy at my skool, but i dont know him, and want to figure out his name and maybe get to know him, but Id become shy if i just went up to him randomly.Also i dont want to seem pushy etc.

Any advice?

2007-01-30 15:27:53 · 9 answers · asked by little_razorblade 2 in Friends

The parents are basically kind of traditional and conservative. Also the engagement has been on for awhile and plan to have the wedding in about a year and a half.

2007-01-30 15:27:29 · 13 answers · asked by Crazypinay03 1 in Weddings

Girl 1
Tall, slim, light tan, brunette, blue eyes

Girl 2
Tall, slim, tan, blonde, blue eyes

Girl 3
Average height, curvy, blonde, brown eyes

Girl 4
Petite, slim, dark skin, black hair, brown eyes

2007-01-30 15:26:07 · 29 answers · asked by ~angel under cover~ 1 in Singles & Dating

I was wondering if all men went crazy over womens under wear? Do Bras turn you on as well?

2007-01-30 15:24:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

would you go out with someone who only called you once or twice a week? if so why? im asking because alot of people i know say i should go out with this guy and give him a chance but i dont think he deserves it.

2007-01-30 15:23:43 · 13 answers · asked by aleah2515 1 in Singles & Dating

OK. Im 13. My bf 15. He moved. : ( FAR. So we only talkin on da phone. Textin. And on IM. We just got together. We been friends and I had a mad crush on him. Hes the type you never know what his reaction gonna be. Good or bad? You always wonderin. Lately I been wanting to be really affectonate and ask him stuff like do you really like me? And stuff like that. Because I'm really unsure. And I have so many questions. But the biggest is how can I get closer to him without him gettin mad or somethin? And it bugs me how he always talkin bout his ex. When Im sick he talks me through it but he always worryin about her. HELP! PLZ!

2007-01-30 15:23:35 · 5 answers · asked by santacruz_soccer_chik 2 in Singles & Dating

I went through a marriage from Hell. It's been two years since it ended and i met this wonderful man. We have been dating for three months and last night, he said 'I love you'. I love him too. But I couldn't say it back. It scares me. How do I know if I am ready? I really don't want to mess this up, but I am really scared of getting as close to someone.

2007-01-30 15:22:36 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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2007-01-30 15:22:03 · 10 answers · asked by ☺ 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Love Question...?
I moved from my town in italy to Australia around week ago. There i left, family, friends and boyfriend. I came to study interior design. When i told him i leaving, he seemed ok. But when i left he got all upset at me, cried and walked away. I talk to him yesterday but he seem distant. Does he still love me? or have i made a big mistake coming here?

2007-01-30 15:22:02 · 12 answers · asked by isabellla_piorachio 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I met this guy.. weve been talking for like, a month I guess... He is gorgeous... But like, the other day he came back from Taebo, and he had the worst B.O. I have ever smelt in my entire life!!! It turned me off bigtime... now, Im rethinking if I even like him anymore... That just really ruined it for me... is that bad?.. should I even care?..

Like, he didnt act like he noticed...

2007-01-30 15:21:58 · 11 answers · asked by Chris L 1 in Singles & Dating

She mostly just lies down, kisses me, and lets me do all the work. I would like to switch roles every once and awhile but she simply goes too limp to do anything. While I always try things to make her happy I would like her to return the favor and be more active. I don't care for freakyness but just want to be able to for the bot of us to experiance more with eachother.

2007-01-30 15:21:54 · 14 answers · asked by rezruf 3 in Singles & Dating

There is this girl I really like, I treat her right and try my best to make her feel comfortable around me. But there is a problem, I am leaving Miami in about a week, for personal business. Should I even try to be with her? Me and her have been so close in the past week, ah im so confused. Any suggestions would be welcome. Sorry for the multiple questions.

2007-01-30 15:21:41 · 5 answers · asked by Dathletez 2 in Singles & Dating

its taking me a lot longer then i thought to get over a man and its driving me crazy and making me want to drink...what do i do? there are so many things that i hate about him but i don't know what it is..i just can't get him out of my head...its like obsessive its weird and i hate the person i become when i complain and complain about him! i know that i can do better but why is it so hard??

2007-01-30 15:21:28 · 9 answers · asked by annette1911 1 in Singles & Dating

I need to start my life over and begin fresh im 16 and i have 4 friends but 2 of them are getting on my nerves and the other 2 are my best friends and i dont want to loose there friendship but i have been in love with one of them but she is 18 and she knows how i feel. Right now im depressed and trying to act more mature about 3 weeks ago i dropped out of school to get my GED and i think i made a right choice on it bcz i hated school and couldnt stand goin there everyday and im getting a job but i want to be more independent bcz i rely on the 4 of them to much i really want to start breaking out and hangin out with more ppl without losing the 4 of them can someone give me advice on wat i should do

2007-01-30 15:21:26 · 4 answers · asked by zach 1 in Friends