OK. Im 13. My bf 15. He moved. : ( FAR. So we only talkin on da phone. Textin. And on IM. We just got together. We been friends and I had a mad crush on him. Hes the type you never know what his reaction gonna be. Good or bad? You always wonderin. Lately I been wanting to be really affectonate and ask him stuff like do you really like me? And stuff like that. Because I'm really unsure. And I have so many questions. But the biggest is how can I get closer to him without him gettin mad or somethin? And it bugs me how he always talkin bout his ex. When Im sick he talks me through it but he always worryin about her. HELP! PLZ!
2007-01-30 15:23:35 · 5 answers · asked by santacruz_soccer_chik 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The great thing about relationships when you're young is that there's no pressure to do the right thing. Dating when you're younger is the time to experiment and learn. So do whatever feels right and enjoy the ride. You'll learn from the outcome whatever happens.
2007-01-30 15:31:07 · answer #1 · answered by Nonny D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ooh bad news...the X factor! Take it from me...any guy who still freely mentions their ex without you asking or inquiring about them in the first place is a RED FLAG. I would just refrain from putting any more energy into this so-called "relationship" and start trusting your inner instincts. If it bothers you that much and you're not very comfortable with him, it's going to pose problems for you later. A year from now, you'll probably look back and say "Why did I even bother to waste my time?!" It only gets better as you move on!!
2007-01-30 23:37:17 · answer #2 · answered by kakolikapiha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, to be honest, I think you're spending too much time and effort on this. You're only 13. A long distance relationship is not right for you right now. You should focus on school right now, and if you must, a guy who is at least in your city or town or whatever.....
2007-01-30 23:28:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
All I can say is young couples usually turn out screwed up. Good luck to you. Don't ask him anything like that because you'll seem insecure.
2007-01-30 23:31:38 · answer #4 · answered by FeverLust 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh dear....ok you're 13. drop this and find someone you can talk to face to face, you're not mature enough for a long distance thing.
2007-01-30 23:29:25 · answer #5 · answered by holyitsacar 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋