i'm in love with two women how do i choose?

Question

i'm in the u.s. one is from the philippines been knowing her for about 3 months, the other is from ghana, been knowing her about 2 months. i talk to both of them on the phone and computer

Answer 1

Choose the one who is in love with you.

Answer 2

For a real man, he'll want both. I know of a guy who has 3 wives under the same roof. He's the man.
But if you have to choose, take the one with the biggest boobs and perkiest a**. Sounds abit shallow but sadly this makes alot of sense in the short run.
If u looking for long term thing, you dun make a choice now unless u have to. Understand them more b4 u decide. And yah, you should give more details the helpful souls out there who wanna help. Else u get pple like me giving u shallow answers.
Life is truly a boomerang, what u give, u get.

Answer 3

How can you be in LOVE with two women? Do you even know what love is? Your case is likely to be lust. Until you're sure about your feelings, there's nothing out there that says you have to choose now. And besides, love is not a feeling. It's a DECISION. You CHOOSE to love that person. So just keep it light for now and don't get too serious with either one until you can learn to listen to your heart.

Answer 4

If you have to think twice about the one you love or like the most than maybe you are not truly in love.Their should be no guestion if you truly love someone.. maybe you should take your time before you hurt either one of them. And consider their feelings before you act on your own.

Answer 5

This happened to me with 3 guys once. This is what i did i secretly spent time with each of them and got their interests. I literally took note on what they said. well here was the problem 2 of them were still my type this is What i did i decided to go to the nearest form of a friend to help it worked. My girl Christina said that brad was my type and he was . We got married and have to girls. The other guy i was gonna go with is a part time worker and lies on the couch all day trying to find his 15 day old nachos. All i am saying is go with your gut instinct.

Answer 6

where ever your heart is because i was loving two men
but i had to let one go and the other understand one was in jail
allso we been together for a long time so the one that was out
here he new where my heart was at but we are still friend
but not haveing sex are seeing each otherps, love candy

Answer 7

first step back and think if you really loved either one of them would you be asking yourself let alone anyone else this qeustion.
dont get me wrong its ok to ask advice but for matters of the heart i beleive you know things in your heart no matter what your head wants to beleive and vice versa

second is it lust
third do you love them or aree you in love withthem
and last are you ready to choose

Answer 8

Neither, if you love someone; then no one else should compare. Since you can't seem to figure out which one does that, you probably don't have strong enough feelings for either.

Answer 9

You are in love with two women because you haven't matured enough to be ready to settle down with one.
I don't mean that in a bad way. I mean that you shouldn't choose unless you are already married to one of them.
Just accept that you aren't ready to settle down, & don't stress yourself over it. (Unless as I already said, you are married, then you ought to get stressed).
As long as you are honest with the women you date, then nobody will have anything bad to say about your not being able to settle down with only one woman.
So relax.

Answer 10

I think that since you're having to ask US who to pick out of two women, then that means neither of them are for you.

If one of them was for you, then you would be able to choose one that stood out.