Family & Relationships - 30 January 2007

The guy I am dating for 6 month will be on business trip to another city in the states and would like me to join him for the trip and he paid for my airticket. It's nice of him to offer that but I just don't feel 100% comfortable, feeling that i owe him and should be nice to him. I have been so independent financially and never receive sth. like this before. so a bit panicing. What's your opionion? Should I pay for dinner on the trip

2007-01-30 15:55:27 · 4 answers · asked by 1001Questions 2 in Singles & Dating

On a video we watched in psychology today it said that men think of sex once every minute while women think of it only a few times a day....

I beg to differ! On both, especially for WOMEN

What do you think?











PS-dannnnng.... they really make men sound so, so, so simple and primitive!

2007-01-30 15:54:54 · 11 answers · asked by BUD 3 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend feels I need so much more and deserve so much better than him. Is he trying to tell me it's time for me to move on?
He says he doesn't know how to change anymore, and what to change into, but he knows to make me happy he needs to change.


( He feels that way because we have had a few arguments and he felt he hurt my feelings. Also, he let me down once -a major disappointment . He said he was not used to letting peope down especially when it was someone as important as me. )

2007-01-30 15:54:36 · 4 answers · asked by hhfe 2 in Singles & Dating

O.K., so ive had this guy friend and ive known him since early 2005 and I have a huge crush on him. about 7 months ago he told me he had a crush on me and dini't call me for 7 months until we met up at a concert and became close again. That night we talked on the phone for 5 hours a day for the next 3 days. Then, I asked him if he still likes me and he said yes and I told him I liked him to. But, when i asked him if he wanted to be my boyfriend, he changed the subject abruptly. So, does he really like me or is he just teasing me?

2007-01-30 15:53:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wedding colors are black and white. I was going to have white roses but I think maybe they would blend too much with my dress. Does anyone have any suggestions?

2007-01-30 15:53:01 · 41 answers · asked by Wondering 2 in Weddings

What to do about an unclear relationship?
This guy and I have been friends for about 1 1/2. When I met him I was dating someone. He and I became very close. He always said that if I was single he would date me. Well now I am single. I spend ALOT of time with him and his little boy, I've slept with him several times(when he didn't have his son for a night) and he kisses me goodnight/ holds my hand etc even when his boy is there. Yet when he introdues me I am just a friend and he sometimes talkes like I am his best friend whom he just sleeps with!! It's driving me crazy! I can't tell what he wants. I love him to death and want to be with him. But I don't want to push him to define anything, he may just be giving me time to be single after my last relationship (which I am over) Also he works with my ex, could that be a reason he is hesitant to call me his GF? What should I do? I don't want to push things, I just want to know where I stand.

2007-01-30 15:52:52 · 13 answers · asked by Erin B 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

aprecciatable, horrible, suicidable, perfectness, the best, prettty normal/average, etc.

2007-01-30 15:52:43 · 9 answers · asked by BrunnettE B 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

What she wants, and not afraid to say it or show it?..... do some men find such a woman to be too in your face so to speak, or do some men find her intimidating? or is this an attractive trait for we women to have? i like when my man is upfront, and straight forward, and tell it like it is.... why shouldn't i be the same? that way ther ar no misunderstandings right?.....do we women who are comfortable in our own skin, and body, who know what we want scare men off?.... let me know your views?

2007-01-30 15:51:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you feel that it is possible to provoke a man or woman to react in a violent way or just to become very mad? Or do you believe that every individual is responsible for their own actions?

2007-01-30 15:50:46 · 7 answers · asked by shay80800 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-30 15:50:15 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-30 15:49:42 · 19 answers · asked by tejas_mjoshi 1 in Singles & Dating

is it bad to not be friends with someone because other people would judge you?

2007-01-30 15:49:12 · 3 answers · asked by sarah l 2 in Friends

2007-01-30 15:49:06 · 4 answers · asked by assaulted79 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I live together and the I am trying very hard to get used to his family, and lately boiling to a point. His parents live in NY and we reside in MD, but every 2 weeks, him mom comes to our house and cooks, cleans and washes everything possible. She calls him about 6 times a day to see how he is and calls me only to talk about him. Tonight, my boyfriend went to the hospital because he had flu-like symptoms. We called his mom to tell her and she freaks out and his dad drives all the way from NY to MD to be here. We were in the hospital a whole 4 hours (mostly waiting and hes fine). Now, his dad is spending the night and as I try and clean out kitchen, he keeps telling me to go to bed like Im some child! Im 22 and my guy is 25! I have talked to him about this and he gets defensive thinking that I am being rude to his family. I feel that they are overbearing and need to understand that he is grown with a fiance now. I feel less of a woman sometimes. What can I do?

2007-01-30 15:47:44 · 21 answers · asked by Shana 2 in Singles & Dating

I wish to find some articles and tips on break- up issues. I am looking for sensible advise.

2007-01-30 15:47:38 · 8 answers · asked by assaulted79 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok well there's this girl I really like. I see her a lot during the day, but I don't know what to say. I don't want to come on too strong by saying the wrong things or things too early. What can I do or say to just become friends for now? Everytime I try to talk to her, I end up not doing it or some of her friends come up to her (and I don't want to talk to her in front of all her friends unless there's like only one of her friends there). I just don't know what to say. I'm afraid I'll say something that will ruin it all.

We've talked on AIM a little bit, but she's usually not on or only on for a little bit, so I don't count that as talking to her.

What are some ways I can talk to her? What should I say exactly?

2007-01-30 15:46:39 · 12 answers · asked by DaClint 5 in Friends

2007-01-30 15:46:26 · 7 answers · asked by S.T. 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-30 15:45:54 · 16 answers · asked by smile for me =) 1 in Friends

2007-01-30 15:45:47 · 24 answers · asked by sathi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

how to get over your first love thats a compleat asshole, made me have a slight bit of anxiety, makes me want to drink more then usual and blames all of his hook ups with so many other girls on "o i was drunk..so it doesn't count"

2007-01-30 15:45:40 · 1 answers · asked by annette1911 1 in Singles & Dating

I got married about 1 year ago with my husband, he does not speak good inglish and he is always blaming me saying that If i had tought him he would know how to understand inglish. today he bought a new mp3 player i am not good with these things anyway he blamed me for not teaching him how to use it but I swear ireally dont know how to use it. He hurts my feelings really bad?

2007-01-30 15:45:10 · 9 answers · asked by ♥*´`*•. mommy♥*´`*•. 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-30 15:44:57 · 19 answers · asked by grandview.prosser 2 in Family

2007-01-30 15:44:10 · 7 answers · asked by Keana P 3 in Singles & Dating

when you clearly know, not just think, but know you have been the giver, supporter, communicator, and fixer in a relationship, why might the partner criticise, downplay, accuse and find all the wrongs in your rights?

2007-01-30 15:42:33 · 9 answers · asked by degroove 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-30 15:41:49 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and it's really confusing.one minute he'll say he likes me then to my friends he says that he has a girlfriend somewhere out of state.then he says that he is going out with me but then he denys it to other people. does he like me or not and why is he denying stuff to my friends and other people? we both are really shy and don't talk to each other a lot i really need help!!!

2007-01-30 15:41:15 · 7 answers · asked by GaBbY 2 in Singles & Dating

answering questions and asking them I think that is kinda dumb now what am I supposed to do?

2007-01-30 15:40:41 · 2 answers · asked by hilo 2 in Singles & Dating

my name is mamta and my educational qualification is ma . b.ed.

2007-01-30 15:40:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

it seems that evertime iam with a different guy they are always talkin about sex every time we meet is like they have nothing easl on thier maine but sex..........

2007-01-30 15:40:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My brother is graduating high school in a couple of months and I want to get him a ton of gifts. I just have no clue what. Theres really no budget;;;just nothing ridiculous like a corvette..whatever. Nothing over 10K$. I dont want to give him just money, because he's sort of irresponisble and i dont want him to waste it...any ideas? Im pretty lame at this. God Bless, Rennnnn.

2007-01-30 15:36:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family