Family & Relationships - 30 January 2007

everyday i think about it, there will be a oint in life where i wont exist anymore...thats just weird, im so scared of death, i dont want to get burned and i dont want to get buried wit maggots all over me and eating me, i know ur dead but what if u can feel it?

2007-01-30 16:09:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i wanna a girl who is capable of loving me a lot and taking care of me and my heart

2007-01-30 16:08:07 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

im 40 and i'd love to meet new friends.

2007-01-30 16:07:47 · 5 answers · asked by tu 1 in Friends

I have this man that I've been with for almost a year now..
I tell him I love him a lot, but then I just told him.. I feel guilty for loving him because, and here are my reasons:
I see so many women when I go places..and I just see them and feel that if I was them, I would have more for my guy..Just more in general, like..Taller, or older.. (he's older than me so..)
It's not that I think I look bad, cause I think I'm fine..it's just that, I feel like I wish I was them..because he could love me different, or more than he does now..so that's why I say I feel guilty to love him.

Is this make sense to any of you?
If you know what I'm talking about, please give me some help..
I know this is hard to understand, or complicated , I'm not sure if I explained it right..but I tried.. It's hard to explain to..
But, if you've gone through this before, and can help me..then please do..
thanks.

2007-01-30 16:07:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This guy and I have been friends for about 1 1/2 years. When I met him I was dating someone. He and I became very close. He always said that if I was single he would date me. Well now I am single (for about 3 months). I spend ALOT of time with him and his little boy, I've slept with him several times(when he didn't have his son for a night) and he kisses me goodnight/ holds my hand etc even when his boy is there. Yet when he introdues me I am just a friend and he sometimes talkes like I am his best friend whom he just sleeps with!! It's driving me crazy! I can't tell what he wants. I love him to death and want to be with him. But I don't want to push him to define anything, he may just be giving me time to be single after my last relationship (which I am over) Also he works with my ex, could that be a reason he is hesitant to call me his GF? What should I do? I don't want to push things, I just want to know where I stand.

2007-01-30 16:07:05 · 6 answers · asked by Erin B 1 in Friends

I never go up to random girls but... there is this girl in a class next to mine that I see in the hallway every tues/thurs. I want to say something super bad but I have no idea what to say! I'm in college and this shouldnt be that big of a deal but... help pleaseee

2007-01-30 16:06:29 · 7 answers · asked by Paul R 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-30 16:06:16 · 10 answers · asked by Twigz 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay, maybe not all men but some..

Why do some of you go to strip joints when you have a hot sex hungry girlfriend at home that happens to look a lot better than those strippers, then when we ask you if we want to strip for you, you look at us like we're crazy? or say things like "Thats not necessary"

I already know you go because you want to look at a little T&A every now and then but heres my real question:

You have no problem looking at them flash their goodies but with us its different, you either tell us no or make a joke out of our strip show, we're doing it behind closed doors and we're hands down hotter than those strippers...Why??

2007-01-30 16:05:26 · 16 answers · asked by ~Love is Blonde~ 1 in Singles & Dating

Would you care if the boyfriend are truly in Love with was Skinnier than average? I'm 5'7 and weight only 120lbs. Sometimes I'm self-conscious. My girlfriend and I love each other very much, but I just want an opinion from other girls.

1. Would you care of the boyfriend you Love is skinny?

2. Would you look at other guys and say "Ugh, I wish he was as built or as full as that."

3. Would you View him as Less of a Man?

Thanks A lot

2007-01-30 16:05:13 · 20 answers · asked by Johnny_Jurassic 1 in Singles & Dating

In order for sex to still be good, what is the limit of children a woman should have?

2007-01-30 16:04:56 · 6 answers · asked by nena 1 1 in Singles & Dating

if you had to choose one of the two

2007-01-30 16:04:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she doesnt clean or cook hardly at all any more. she stays up all night reading books or is on the internet. what is going on? we have been married 10 years. we used to watch tv together, she doeasnt watch tv at all anymore. i buy her expensive gifts. i spent $1000 on these llando porcline figurines for her bought her new furniture in the living and dining room, a new ring 1 ct princess cut something another. i did all her laundry for her. 6 loads of it. she has sex with me about 2-3 times a week, we used to have sex almost everynight. what is going on. i love her. she only leaves the house on saturdays if i take her to diner or shopping. she never leaves the house, she wont except phone calls even from her mom, she doesnt do her hair or make up anymore. she doesnt need it, but she used to love doing that. it was fun to her. what is wrong with her. she goes days without sleeping. sometimes she doesnt shower. she skips a day. says she's not going anywhere anyways, so why does it matter

2007-01-30 16:04:48 · 12 answers · asked by trooper (canine bad citizen) 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend had invited me to go skiing on this friday last friday. She is mad at me because she in fact meant that we would be staying friday night at a lodge and go skiing saturday and I thought that she meant we would only ski on friday. I had already made plans on that saturday thinking I would be free. Now my friend is saying that she told me all along that we were going to be staying the night but I remember her clearly saying that we would be skiing on friday and that was all I remember. Then she hung up on me. Is she in the right to be angry?

2007-01-30 16:04:41 · 4 answers · asked by Maureen 2 in Friends

Ok this is strictly to find out what woman would say about a guy like me, I'm not trying to get a date. I'm about 6'2, 245 pounds could trim about 10 off. Redish blonde hair, brown/hazel eyes. I love to make people laugh, practicaly anything outdoors, I like to play sports, I know how to cook lol, I don't smoke, drink, do drugs or sleep around, and I try to be as caring and respectful as possible. And I am interested in furthering my education as an architect or US Marshal. So ladies, what do you think, and please be brutally honost cuz I'm man enough to take it.

2007-01-30 16:04:28 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-30 16:04:21 · 11 answers · asked by luis r 1 in Friends

example: he doesnt kiss me, doesnt hug me that often, holding hands is fine, and so is puttin ghis arm around me. so i dont knw whats wrong with him, im giving him one last chance. how can i make him realize he needs to treat me more gf-ly than like a friend?

2007-01-30 16:03:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know its hard, especially for guys, but they would be really strong if they did. Are you or do you know of any?

2007-01-30 16:03:09 · 21 answers · asked by genuine♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

i would do ne thing for her

please give me sum help!!!!

2007-01-30 16:03:02 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Simply Put:

I like this guy and we were good friends before. He has a girlfriend but he doesn't seem happy. Any suggestions for a course of action?

2007-01-30 16:00:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I dated this guy after I was divorced. We dated for 8 months then just kinda quit talking for a while. I am still not sure why. I was scared to ask him why. He found out I was having surgery and called brought me home afterwards and made sure I was okay. I have talked to him every couple weeks since then, but I have only seen him once since November. I had to change my phone number because of my ex and did not tell him yet.

Yesterday I saw him at the store and we talked for more than an hour. He knew my phone number was changed and wanted my new one. He said to give him a call and have lunch with him.

I really, really want to, but I am scared to now. I really like him and my daughter tells me that even her dad never looked at me that way when we were married.

I don't know if he still like me and wants to get together again or if he is just playin me. My ex played me so bad that I am scared to find out here.

How do I know if he is just playing or really likes me, too

2007-01-30 16:00:10 · 6 answers · asked by wyldfyre 3 in Singles & Dating

I was dating this girl who I recently found out that the reason why she broke up with me was because she was talking to this other guy over the internet that she really liked. She was doing this while we were dating, of course, without my knowledge of it. Do you consider this a moment in which she was cheating on me?

2007-01-30 15:59:41 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

phone him and tell him to met me somewhere then go for a bite to eat then go back to my place and watch a movie with candle light then make a snack for him and gift him a love poem i wrote and a card telling him how much i care and love him?? how does that souds or should i do soemthing else??

2007-01-30 15:59:09 · 10 answers · asked by shellywhellyz 1 in Singles & Dating

How do i knw tht my gal luvs me ?
She talks to me over ohone 4 long hrs but she even talk to her other frnds 4 sme long hrs. She goes out 4 a movie wth me & also joins me 4 lunch or sme other outing. Smetmes she says she dnt wanna get committed & smetmes she says she wanna hve sme1 in her life. She talks to me everythng abt her family & even her ex - bf. But wen i talk 2 her smetmes regarding sme of my frnds who r girls she wud kep mum as if she is not listening 2 me. I also told her tht i met a girl online who is frm my caste. But she was happy wen i told her tht now thr is no msngr in my office....

Pls help out 2 knw tht shud i propose this gal ?

2007-01-30 15:59:05 · 3 answers · asked by tejas_mjoshi 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-30 15:58:33 · 17 answers · asked by gayle j 2 in Marriage & Divorce

phone him and tell him to met me somewhere then go for a bite to eat then go back to my place and watch a movie with candle light then make a snack for him and gift him a love peom i wrote and a card tell him how much i care and love him?? how does that souds or should i do soemthing else??

2007-01-30 15:58:30 · 3 answers · asked by shellywhellyz 1 in Singles & Dating

my boss is really a nice guy..very hard working and caring..but i caught him once flirting with a client.. then i have another boss who does that too..except its not with a client but with a coworker of mine.. i also have a coworker who is married but sends cookies and flowers to one of our clients all the time..
im wondering, are all married men in america like this? i mean, these men that im talking about are really good people. they are educated, very respectful, sincere..i mean really really good people. except that, i know for sure that they cheat.. question is.. are all men like this????????

2007-01-30 15:58:26 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

An old art collage buddy and his family stops by around Christmas most every year. We always enjoy there company. This year he ask to perches one of my paintings. I was flattered and because wear friends offered to drop the price a little and take payments, so much a month until it's payed off. He assured me that, that wasn't a problem so I let him take the painting with him when they left. I didn't take a down payment because he didn't have his check book with him. He said he'd cut me a check once he got back home. After a few weeks went by I called to inquire about payment. He acted shocked that his wife hadn't already cut me a check. A couple weeks later I called back again and told him If there was a cash flow problem he could forget about the $200.00 down payment and just pay me what we had agreed monthly installments shooed be. He agreed and another few weeks went by. It's now January 29th and no payment or call have I received. It's only $750.00 but a 20 year relationship. (?)!

2007-01-30 15:57:55 · 4 answers · asked by grstroup2000 2 in Friends

And...
Do we choose to be in love or does it just happen?

2007-01-30 15:57:26 · 15 answers · asked by Navulam 3 in Singles & Dating

Of getting married at a young age?

2007-01-30 15:57:15 · 6 answers · asked by baby_princess_melissa 2 in Marriage & Divorce

k I'm a girl 4'11, 16 yrs. old, lately this past year I HAVE really become REALLY SELF-CONSIOUS of my height, and I doubt that I'll grow more, (even though I reaaally want too)

And my dad keeps saying..

"Drink milk, so you can grow more.."

"Exersize so you can grow more..."

"Sleep early so you can grow more..."

"Next year hopefully you will grow to 5'4 or 5'5...
just sleep more"

"Take vitamins so you'll grow more..."

And my mother is like....

"Did you grow more?...wow your almost as tall as your father"

WHEN in reality i was wearing 1 inch slippers, and my father is literally a COUPLE of inches way taller of me.


THEY ASK THESE QUESTIONS EVERY other day or week, they are basically giving me false hope and just making me more self consious...

my relatives are also like...

"too bad your not as tall as your father..."

or..

"ur short"

THEYRE COMMENTS , AGGRAVATE ME SO MUCH!
I tell them to stop saying that, but they don't listen...

2007-01-30 15:55:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family