my boss is really a nice guy..very hard working and caring..but i caught him once flirting with a client.. then i have another boss who does that too..except its not with a client but with a coworker of mine.. i also have a coworker who is married but sends cookies and flowers to one of our clients all the time..
im wondering, are all married men in america like this? i mean, these men that im talking about are really good people. they are educated, very respectful, sincere..i mean really really good people. except that, i know for sure that they cheat.. question is.. are all men like this????????
2007-01-30 15:58:26 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
im not stupid not to know if theyre really cheating or not..its obvious.. even my office mates think so.. and im not trying to butt in in their lives, im just asking if all men are like this??? its so unpredictable, because these men are really good people..
2007-01-30 16:08:02 · update #1
okay..first im not judging them.. second..i just cleaned up the question a bit so that it wouldnt sound so vulgar..sending flowers and cookies every 2 weeks with hearts and a note that says nudge.. 3...im just stating the fact and worried that if i get married, would my man be doing this as well??
2007-01-30 16:14:54 · update #2
okay..first im not judging them.. second..i just cleaned up the question a bit so that it wouldnt sound so vulgar..sending flowers and cookies every 2 weeks with hearts and a note that says nudge.. 3...im just stating the fact and worried that if i get married, would my man be doing this as well??
2007-01-30 16:15:19 · update #3
Well they are getting worse & worse all the time. Not like it use to be years ago..
I hope they are not all like that I am married but you never know.. Be careful.
Don't discuss it with him !!!! Act like you don't know a thing or you'll get cought up in DRAMA!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-30 16:01:07 · answer #1 · answered by char__c is a good cooker 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm confused. Are these "really nice, caring, hardworking" men just flirting or are they cheating? Many people flirt which doesn't mean they're being unfaithful to their spouses. It's rather human behavior. Flirting doesn't necessarily mean they've crossed the line to cheating. And sending cookies and flowers to a client may be some sort of goodwill gesture between businesses. You seem to sitting up there on your high horse and judging an awful lot of people while you mind everyone else's business. I doubt you have all of the facts and, even if you do, you are a busybody and shouldn't be judge and jury.
2007-01-30 16:10:42 · answer #2 · answered by Yo' Mama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirting with a client, or sending cookies and/or flowers to a client is one thing. Maybe he's just trying to stay in their good graces, and good for business. Its not necessarily cheating in the narrow sense of the word. However, yes, men... some men, not all, do cheat. Especially those that think they can get away with it... but, sadly, are least able to cover it up. When it comes to business though, there is a measurable margin of what is doing whats good to keep the clients happy, and what is morally wrong.
2007-01-30 16:06:46 · answer #3 · answered by bakfanlin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirtting isn't jumping into bed with everyone. Flirting is just a friendly banter between people and can be very good for business. Just because a man (or woman) flirts doesn't mean they are cheating on their spouse. Since all you've witnessed is flirting you don't know for sure that they cheat...where is the evidence?
2007-01-30 18:24:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be so quick to judge. There are lots of reasons to cheat on a spouse, whether you're the husband or the wife. I am a lousy husband and my wife would have every reason in the world to cheat on me, but she'd never do it because she isn't that kind of person.
2007-01-30 16:08:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mrs Cravits, is this you ??
You seem to know WAY too much of WAY too many people's business. You haven't given proof of any of it ... I think you could be making too much out of things. SO WHAT if a person sends cookies and flowers to one of their clients. That's what a good salesperson does.... Doesn't mean they are sleeping with them.
2007-01-30 16:03:50 · answer #6 · answered by ValleyR 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Statistics show that 33 % of all men and 25 % of all women have cheated at least once in their life time.
2007-01-30 16:02:02 · answer #7 · answered by kenneth h 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not all american men are like this.
Not many men ( maybe 20-30% ) cheat on their wives or girlfriends.
Men can be scumbags, but they can also be the sweetest people on earth, just like women can be b*tches or romantic and kind.
It really depends on how you are raised and who you got caught up into.
Hope I helped,
TigerLily
2007-01-30 16:05:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-13 05:03:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not all men are cheaters but I would say that is more than 60 percentage
2007-01-30 16:04:51 · answer #10 · answered by dtmc542006 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋