2007-01-30 15:58:33 · 17 answers · asked by gayle j 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sometime you don't know what you miss until you lost them.
2007-01-30 16:02:19 · answer #1 · answered by Speck Schnuck 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on the people and the relationships. Some people get back together after a longer period of time because they have grown up a little and view things differently. They know that their was a strong connection but were not dealing with things the right way at the time. So they try again.
Other times people break up and get back together on and off because it is more of an addictive type of relationship. You may have had great physical attraction to each other but other things were not right. Also some people do it because they dont want the other person to be with someone else and try to hold on to things even though their personalities clash.
Its hard to say or realize why this happens to lots of us at the time it happens but later down the line we can usually figure out what it was that made it happen.
Of course the first reason is the best because we grow up a little and look at ourselves and change what we can to make ourselves be a better partner.
2007-01-31 00:06:36 · answer #2 · answered by Pinky75 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes break-ups are caused by things out of each others control, and sometimes break-ups are a tough love last resort. I divorced my husband because he was a very bad alcoholic, and I couldn't do anything to help him no matter how hard I tried.....he needed to help himself. We have been divorced for 3 years now, and working on a reconciliation. He is a wonderful man under all the drinking. He's a recovering alcoholic now and has been sober for a year, and that's the only way I will stay with him. We are both taking it very slow, and someday may remarry. If we don't, I know that now....I can live without him. It wasn't easy finding that out the first time. I never fell out of love with him.
2007-01-31 00:35:02 · answer #3 · answered by ksgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think a part of them "hope the person changed" in most people that i have seen it doesnt its great again for a month and goes back to normal again..the nit picking and fighting.Also i think they get lonely and want the comfort of each other again some people just dont like to be alone and would rather be unhappy
2007-01-31 00:08:47 · answer #4 · answered by amanda 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because absence makes the heart grow fonder, or something like that. you know the saying: if you love something let it go and if it comes back it's your then lock it up so it never gets away again..
2007-01-31 00:07:46 · answer #5 · answered by Castro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because the other person that they dumped the girlfriend for turns out to be worse then the original girlfriend.
2007-01-31 00:07:44 · answer #6 · answered by lisa s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they are insecure and it seems that peope cannot handle being alone. They think they will not find anyone else and they like the "comfort" they feel with their ex. People are much better off not seeing their ex again and being alone for awhile. Alone does not mean lonely.
2007-01-31 01:00:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Masochism.
2007-01-31 00:22:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because time away is some times underated for some poople.
2007-01-31 00:15:01 · answer #9 · answered by Jay-V-Dub 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they miss each other and realize they still love each other so they want to try it again and give it another shot!
2007-01-31 00:15:06 · answer #10 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋