is this a good idea to do for my boy friend??

Question

phone him and tell him to met me somewhere then go for a bite to eat then go back to my place and watch a movie with candle light then make a snack for him and gift him a love poem i wrote and a card telling him how much i care and love him?? how does that souds or should i do soemthing else??

Answer 1

excuse me but some ware in all that awwww are you going to screw him

Answer 2

It honestly depends on your guy. Is he into the romantic stuff? What does HE enjoy doing?

For example, for most guys out there the candlelight deal PLUS a poem is a little too much mushy stuff, others will absolutely love it. Also, if you get it going as too romantic and personal the guy will think that you're going somewhere with this, so if after all this stuff you just send him home, he'll probably be a bit confused and pissed. So if you are not planning on spending the night together, I'd say don't finish the date at home, this way he won't have any unreasonable expectations.

One last thing - all this stuff sounds great, but it still sounds as just an extra romantic but pretty average date. Isn't there anything you can do together besides movies and food? Go check out an expo you'd both enjoy? Take him to his favorite store and have him pick out something he likes as a present (you DO plan on giving him somethings besides the poem, right?). Or take him dancing and request his favorite song. Or make your own mix CD that you would both enjoy, bring a boombox and dance in an unusual place, like on a roof or something. Try to think outside the box a little bit and try to come up with something that not only you will think is romantic and fun, but he also. By the way, please TRY to make it fun, not just romantic, in fact fun and romantic should go close together. I think it's more romantic to go to a comedy show together and then go dancing then to sit at home all night watching a chick flick and eating with candles on the table.

So, to sum things up, make sure you guys do something fun together, if he's not spending the night, do not finish the date at home, and try to do something together you don't do as often, like go to a comedy show, or dancing (IF he enjoys dancing), etc.

Good luck and have fun.

Answer 3

That sounds fine, don't overwhelm him though. It doesn't need to be a sexual thing. But keep in mind that your boyfriend probably doesn't watch corny chick flicks or feel the need to be super romantic. Don't overdo it. Guys are simple so keep it simple. Bite to eat, watch a movie, tell him how you feel instead of just giving him the poem & card. Read your poem & card. Don't overwhelm him, since this might make him think your expectations for him to match up to your thoughtfulness are too high. Make him feel valued whether or not he does something like this for you in the future. If you want him to then ask him to plan a romantic night, don't just expect him to do it on his own. Men aren't psychic, ask for what you want & you'll get it. Good luck.

Answer 4

That is VERY sweet and it doesn't include sex. Show him a powerfully good time without the physical stuff :)

Answer 5

its sounds like you got everything covered!!! if you feel like you need to do move than you go a head it just shows that you really do love him!!!!

Answer 6

I think it sounds like too much! What does he get to do for you??

Answer 7

You'r on the right track, but else include SEX

Answer 8

I would say that it couldent hurt.

Answer 9

that's good! i'm sure he would like that! it's sweet!

Answer 10

very good if i was ur bf i would screw you