Men, Why Do You Do This??

Question

Okay, maybe not all men but some..

Why do some of you go to strip joints when you have a hot sex hungry girlfriend at home that happens to look a lot better than those strippers, then when we ask you if we want to strip for you, you look at us like we're crazy? or say things like "Thats not necessary"

I already know you go because you want to look at a little T&A every now and then but heres my real question:

You have no problem looking at them flash their goodies but with us its different, you either tell us no or make a joke out of our strip show, we're doing it behind closed doors and we're hands down hotter than those strippers...Why??

Answer 1

I can not answer for your man but I think he is making a major mistake by not staying at home! I should have it so good.

Tell him to invest a little time with you. I know it would pay dividends.

His ship has come in and he is standing on the wrong pier!

Answer 2

Send me a pic and "Show me What U Workin Wit"!!!

Just kidding. We see our girlfriends and strippers as different. Strippers are the fantasy, and you are the genuine article.

Don't mean to objectify anyone here, but just using an example. Think of driving a rental car. They look nice on the outside, and you drive the heck out of it (if you have rental insurance), but you would never want to own one. How do you treat your personal car? Usually, you treat it much better than the rental. You don't want to wreck it and you want it to last for awhile. You definitely look at the 2 cars differently. The rental is cool to drive for a short while, but you really want a nice car that's yours and only yours to keep for a long time.

Answer 3

When younger yes but not for many a year, probably it may go like this for some ( When you drive a corvette, you go looking for new features on newer/different ones, if you have a rifle, you shop to see what the new ones look like, but all in all, you would not take either for public display, only private then you come home in the same corvette, to the same rifle and admire them, and I don't know ehy other guys would want to be so distracted, guess me the odd ball , but content and happy.

Answer 4

Ok, brutally honest here about this; most guys are SHALLOW and superficial, they're too busy looking for the next thing that they don't realize that they have THE best thing waiting for them at home. . .if your b/f or hubby is one of these, there's probably some serious issues in your relationship that need to be worked out, and furthermore, there are a lot of good ones out there who would give their heart and soul to have a good woman.

Answer 5

Honestly, i guess they do this coz they are selfish.They watch strippers and masturbate on them later at home or make love to us and imagine the stripper, men watch porn and enjoy strippers exactly as kids watch cartoon and enjoy, you cant stop them.

Answer 6

Maybe its just your man.Because if my honey tells me she's going to strip for me I'm all over it.Maybe he'll like it more if you stripped for him when all of his friends are present like at the bar!

Answer 7

Men don't go to stripclubs alone, they go there with their buddies and if they don't go their buddies will tell them "You're such a p*** whip.". And men hate to look like a loser in front of their "cool" buddies.

If your guy going there alone, well, then he has some issues.

Answer 8

i can't speak for your boyfriend but i would not stop you from showing me your goodies, and another thing there is only one way to prove you are a real blonde

Answer 9

they are affraid, girls at strip joints are paid and cosider the activities work. girl friends at home means one on one and commitment.

Answer 10

Maybe you're not that HOT after all.