My friend had invited me to go skiing on this friday last friday. She is mad at me because she in fact meant that we would be staying friday night at a lodge and go skiing saturday and I thought that she meant we would only ski on friday. I had already made plans on that saturday thinking I would be free. Now my friend is saying that she told me all along that we were going to be staying the night but I remember her clearly saying that we would be skiing on friday and that was all I remember. Then she hung up on me. Is she in the right to be angry?
2007-01-30 16:04:41 · 4 answers · asked by Maureen 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well, I don't think that she should have been childish and hung up on you, but she could have said that you would be staying the night and you just did not hear her.
If I were you, if you can get out of the plans on Saturday just go ahead and try to, and apologize to your friend, and ask her to communicate with you next time, don't hang up on you that is just rude. If you can't get out of the thing that you are doing on Saturday, either cancel with her or compromise and go ahead and do both. This will pass and she will get over it, it is not the end of the world, whether you misunderstood or not, you did not purposely set out to ruin her day and certainly did not sit there and say, well if I tell her this, then she will hang up on me, so I think I will tell her this.
Apologize, try to fix, if you can't do the best you can and just let it go. If she holds a grudge she is difinately wrong.
2007-01-30 16:53:07 · answer #1 · answered by trhwsh 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that's what you honestly believed, and what's done is done. Say you're sorry things turned out like that, and ask if there's another time you could go with her. If she still doesn't talk, leave her. She isn't a real friend.
She does sound a little selfish though...
2007-01-31 00:10:14 · answer #2 · answered by Nova 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
neither of you are right to be angry with each other, its a clear misunderstanding...call your friend back and explain that its a misunderstanding...tell her what you really thought of the situation and ask her if she can postpone the trip...or maybe to patch up real quick with her, postpone your plans for another day (it may be a solution)
2007-01-31 00:28:48 · answer #3 · answered by angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well no, it's a misunderstanding.You can't force her to understand and neither can she.The best thing to do is try to make it up, expressing your remorse.
2007-01-31 00:14:56 · answer #4 · answered by pvy_crazy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋