Do u think that pre marriage sex is a sin or just a time pass?

Answer 1

Sex without love might be a sin. People who love each and have sex do not need the social construct of marriage to make their act and their commitment legitimate.

Answer 2

Yes it is ( According to the Bible). This is called fornication .This is the act of committing sexual relations between two unmarried people before marriage. The reason God ordained marriage is for people to avoid fornication. As we all know our society and culture's view toward this issue had changed a lot. During the olden days specially in 30"s or 40's people were more conservative, more cautious and sober.pre-marital relations was considered to be morally wrong so there is no question why they get married at an early age. Now, it is totally different, younger generations are getting more & more aggressive but less and less committed and responsible. As a result, there's a widespread of STD's, unwanted pregnancy, unwed mothers & fathers, more illegitimate children were born into this world because of self-willed & selfish desires.
On top of that, some might even go all the way just to have fun .How I wish our world would change for the better.
Anybody out there, think twice before doing it.

Answer 3

No Indian Law (e.g., Indian Penal Code enacted in 1860 & being amended periodically) terms pre marriage sexual intercourse as an offence or punishable if girl is 16+. Even if proved or admitted, it cannot be a ground for seeking divorce in India. Some people (commonly known as fundamentalists or orthodox) believe it a great sin and crime to be punished both by lashing/death by pelting stones. It is their belief and faith which they practice voluntarily and abstain from it even in dark or behind any/all. They show such teachings in their holy book terming it a great sin. A sin is a violation of the religious teaching. If there are such commands which are violated by pre marriage sex, it is sin for those who believe in those teachings and commands. Non believers cannot be forced to believe it a sin. Such time pass my invite STD and AIDS and create post marital dissatisfaction among the couple. Personally I believe it a great sin. ZAFARULLAH HYDERABAD INDIA PH: 9247173741

Answer 4

I don't believe in "sin" as most often described in the bible. As far as premarital sex...why would you ASSume that everyone on the planet WANTS to get married? Would not wanting to get married mean they would not be able to partake of the joys of sex? Sex isn't just for procreation it is also a form of recreation. No CHILDREN should not partake until they are mature/emotionally/financially prepared to face the responsibilities and ALL of the consequences that come with being sexually active....but I don't think marriage should be a prerequisite of sex...or having children for that matter.

Answer 5

Marriage is only a procedure. It's a procedure that you are ready to announce the message to the world "I am ready to having sex with a girl".
If you love a person with full of heart then you can go ahead having sex with that person. That should Improve your relationship. You no need to tell that to the world. It's not sin. Marry the same person.
But don't try to foolish that person. If you foolish the person that should be a sin.
O.k

Answer 6

Nobody likes to think in terms of damning themselves, but the Christian faith as well as most other of the major religious signify that pre marital sex is a sin.

As a Christian, I am abstinent for that reason. I believe that God's instructions about these things are not arbitrary and have a purpose. And sex can definitely be a stressor in life that distracts you from achieving your potential and just really gets you caught up in general drama. If you paraphrase all the verse about the riches and happyness God wants for you, you can see that He knows nobody needs that extra drama and is just giving ways to live the fullest happiest life you can have.

Answer 7

Let me start off with history classes. Primitive man didnot follow the conduct of marraiges. They used to follow what we call live-in relationships in modern world (are we running back in time - reduced clothings, live-in relationships, trying to devastate nature?). but later when man started researching his own socilogical behaviour he decided that a pair needs to be more responsible for each other and hence designed the concept of marraige. So that anybody not abiding those set of rules would be outcasted from the human race.

However there's a bit of technology involved in the modern age. We have the technology to avoid STD and to avoid babies. This makes one feel that pre marraige sex is safe.

But friend we have no technology for our conscience. A humna being has very intimate feelings towards sex. However one is rarely able to dadicate himself/herself to a person if he/she is involved in sex with some other just for fun. Being a virgin is kind of a taboo it seems. I believe pre marraige sex is not a problem unless you are ready to take up all your responsibilities and ready to accept the other person for you life. Else, it's a problem to you, a problem to the other person and off course problems to the person with whom you are going to spend your life. The reason is simple. You on't be dedicated as even after marraige the devil inside you would provoke you to look for someone apart from your partner. Devil does provoke you in different manners. It's upto you how you overcome it.

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Answer 8

Did you see the man in this section a week or so ago, saying his wife told him he was not "as good" as someone else she had known. Now she was not very nice saying that but.... had neither of them never done it before that, that could not have happened, and yes the bible says it is sin and I think with good cause.

Answer 9

I think its a MUST. I mean hell would you want to marry someone and find out they suck in bed?!?! Its not a sin and its not a pass time. Passing judgement is a sin but I bet you do that so why worry about sex?

Answer 10

having sex with anyone that you are not married to is most definately a sin, adultery to be exact. God intended for sex to be between a man and his wife.
when wondering about things like this get yourself a Bible and read it. you can't always trust what people say, but you can always trust God.