Is he trying to give up on us?

Question

My boyfriend feels I need so much more and deserve so much better than him. Is he trying to tell me it's time for me to move on?
He says he doesn't know how to change anymore, and what to change into, but he knows to make me happy he needs to change.


( He feels that way because we have had a few arguments and he felt he hurt my feelings. Also, he let me down once -a major disappointment . He said he was not used to letting peope down especially when it was someone as important as me. )

He still tells me he loves me.

I told him he didnt need to change. I never wanted him to change!

Answer 1

Just give him his space for a while. Let him know that you still care for him and that you already have the best guy in the world. He really seems to care about you. Now, I don't know what the big let down was, just let him know that he is human, and everyone is entitled to make mistakes. Every good relationship has a few arguments to where you think you dont wanna talk to each other, but it is healthy.

Answer 2

it sound like he trying to justify the fact that he looking for a way
out of the relationship with you so he say he cant be the person
that you want. etc etc. but just talk to him and let him know how
you feel and if he want out then be a man and handle his
business.

Answer 3

ok let me get this right... you met a guy...you liked the guy...you expect him to change almost everything about himself to please you??? Maybe your boyfriend has decided there isnt any pleasing you...hes tired of you and wants to be himself...the way he was before he met......you....
now go look in the mirror and tell us what it is about you that he would like to change....

Answer 4

why do you want him to change ????? you like the guy because you like his character,charm,wit & looks!!!! now you want to change him for the rest of yours????? LIFES FULL OF UPS & DOWNS GET USED TO IT!!!!!