Family & Relationships - 30 January 2007

Let me start out by saying that I have been cheated on many times int he past. I am going to be marring the most amazing woman that I have ever met. I know that I want to spend my life with her but when she talkes to her ex's I get jellous. I try not to sound upset or act it but she can tell. I dont want to tell her that she cant talk to her friends. I dont want to be jellous but I am. Any suggestions?

Oh by the way leaving her is not an option.

Thanks in advance for the opinions.

2007-01-30 14:51:54 · 30 answers · asked by emt_aj 2 in Singles & Dating

haha ok well in movies, strangers go up to a person they like in their school or whatever and ask them out and the other person says yes...

how often does this actually happen? how many people would actually say no?

2007-01-30 14:51:51 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i can't understand why I am jealous. This girl at work and I have become close friends. I really like her. Yes, I really like her more than a friend and she doesn't know it. I don't think she likes me more but I don't know. I dont want to ruin the friendship. It started out great. I was laid back and easy going, didn't have a care. Now I feel like I've turned into this raging maniac who gets jealous everytime she talks to another girl or coworker. I hate these feelings. It's not me and I don't want them. How do I get rid of them and be me again? I think my jealousy is pushing her away to others. Help, I don't want to lose her. What do I do?

2007-01-30 14:51:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like my mother's doctor and he like me to but because of his profesion he was affraid i thinck now my mother she's dead what can i do to have him fall in love with me and another think is that his iranian and i am african but it seem like he doesnt care so do i but how can i show him that i am also interested please help he like me i know it and i do to but he never ask me can i ask him for a diner or may be i dont know

2007-01-30 14:51:12 · 3 answers · asked by queennashiba 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-30 14:51:03 · 10 answers · asked by The Shoe 2 in Marriage & Divorce

started to holler at me. he was like "hey sexy girl where's ur boyfriend". dont u girls hate when they do that? man some guys have no respect whatsoever. i mean if they like a girl why dont they approach them like a decent man. Do they really think girls are going to respond to that kind of behaviour? Guys why do u do that? and girls has this ever happen to u and what did u do?

2007-01-30 14:50:34 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what should i do when this Mexican girl slightly pushes me and like dont talk 2 me like that!!
what should i do should i really fight back because if i would all of my make up which is a lot would be all over the place and.. she is truing to show off in front of this huy that we both like
HELP!!!!!!!!

2007-01-30 14:49:13 · 9 answers · asked by sweetie 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-30 14:47:47 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Thiz girl and I have been goin together for the past 6 months, and i REALLY care for her! We have ran into a HUGE problem, and that obsticle iz that she iz either moving to a different state (i live in ohio and she iz moving to kentucky) or she iz goin to join the air force... basicly either way im being left behind. I Feel as if i love and care for her much more than she cares for me. She wont marry me bcuz she doesnt feel she iz ready, but i strongly feel she could be "the one". She says she wants to take a break and see how that goes (jes being friends). I am really confused about the situation and needs answers! please give honest, explanitory answers please. Thanx.

2007-01-30 14:47:30 · 20 answers · asked by Mr.XXX 2 in Singles & Dating

I don't know what to do anymore. I have supported my husband through some darkest moments, He mislead me in so many ways in our 12 years we have known each other. He lied about money a lot it's a long story. I adored him and i wanted to help but by doing this i let my life go. He works all over the world and we are appart a lot but i follow him when ever i can so we can be togeather. I made him get help and told him unless he did it was over. We would not have survived and i feared for his life as he was talking a lot about killing himself. He finally got help and although i wouldn't change that for anything in this world now he is a very cold unemotional person to the point of he seems so angry at me all the time. The smallest thing i say he is upset. I feel i have been with him for 12 years and i supported him through everything but now that he has got help i feel so unloved. He says he loves me but he doesn't show it. Sure!! he is good a good man deep down but i'm so sad i need more

2007-01-30 14:47:13 · 15 answers · asked by angel 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a college guy looking for a birthday present for my mom. I wanna get her something both awesome and unique. money isnt a huge issue. I was just wondering what kind of present would you like? What are some of the best presents your kids got you? Thanks!!!

2007-01-30 14:46:34 · 17 answers · asked by Chris 1 in Family

When you fell from heaven did it hurt. If you have a better pick up line than that let me hear it.

2007-01-30 14:45:39 · 17 answers · asked by Pretty_Bad_Logic 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm in college, just your typical average joe. I got out of a very serious relationship over a year ago and have since become more involved with my studies.

Anyway, in my government class, some girl sits next to me. I've engaged in random small talk with her (like I do with people in all my classes), and today I found a friend invite from her on facebook AND myspace.

Now here's the thing, I never told her my name.
The only way she could know it is if she looked over my shoulder when I signed it on a test or something.

Plus, I noticed she followed me (at a distance) to my next class, and was conveniently in the hallway when that class let out.

I'm not interested, but I want to let her down easy, without living the movie 'Fatal Attraction'

I mean seriously, I don't even know her...

Eh, I may sound like a creep, but name a single person who enjoys being stalked.

2007-01-30 14:45:31 · 11 answers · asked by Jim 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-30 14:45:22 · 12 answers · asked by crazy c 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-30 14:45:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Right well , i've known my best mate for 12 years and we really get on well. last year we both got drunk and we kissed, and have done 4 times since then, but its always when we are drunk, and we have never spoke about it.Ive started really liking her, well actually alot she is always on my mind.she has started seeing this guy(not going out with) and im really jelouse. basically i don;t know what to do should i tell her or not. do u think this could reck our relationship? im really having troble making up my mind ... i know im the only one who can deside what to do... but any advice would be great. if anyone has been in the same situation how did it work out? and thanks

2007-01-30 14:44:57 · 14 answers · asked by samatha s 1 in Friends

2 years ago, my "best" friend made it look like i didn't do any work for a group project and after that, noone wanted to work with me for almost the rest of the year. its still affecting me and i really hate her, but i don't like to hate people. i tried to forgive her, but that didn't work. can anyone give me some advice?

2007-01-30 14:44:44 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My husband and I have been separated for 9 months now and up until a few weeks ago (he just started seeing someone) we had a friendly relationship as a separated couple (even though he has never offered me any help other than watching her while I work and he gets to stay home doing nothing!). Our daughter's birthday party is coming up soon (I planned it and I'm paying for everything!) and I don't feel it is appropriate for him to bring the new gf to this party. It is a family event (his family and mine) and she is no one special to be at my child's party, my question is, am I being unreasonable for refusing to allow him to bring her?

2007-01-30 14:44:30 · 20 answers · asked by Sassy_Girl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

In other words, i don't want to get rejected, but i want to see if she likes me back. how do i test her?

2007-01-30 14:44:23 · 28 answers · asked by rubickmaster 1 in Singles & Dating

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How can I stop myself from dating interracially?
I am 3/4 white 1/4 black and look like Vin Diesel. How can I keep from dating interracially?
I heard it was wrong but how can I stop

2007-01-30 14:43:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I feel very Doubtful at times with my Girlfriend and I have no idea why. I feel doubt when she brings up she wants to hang out with friends (sometimes). I feel doubt when she wants to go back to her hometown and meet some old friends and see old places (sometimes). I feel doubt when she's with me in another city and her mom wants to talk to her, she phones and they talk like best friends, In a way I wish she talked to me like (sometimes). I just feel doubtful when she wants to do her own things. I know I sound so clingy but I try my hardest to get rid of the feeling, that's why i wrote "(sometimes)" because it's every now and then I feel doubtful and it depends on my mood. that "(sometimes)" is when I feel understanding. Damn Yahoo Answers, I can't type exactly everything for you to understand but I tried. Is there anything anybody can say about this? Anything?! I do have Faith, Hope, and Trust in her but I just feel Doubtful sometimes, I don't even understand myself sometimes.

2007-01-30 14:43:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm a senior in high school but i'm going to do ROTC in college so i'll be an officer in the Army when I graduate. Do girls like to date guys who are planning on going into the military?

2007-01-30 14:42:54 · 23 answers · asked by DJ488 1 in Singles & Dating

In general, do you think its better to pursue a romantic relationship before you are on the right path career-wise, or is it better to have a significant other while you are chasing your career dreams?

2007-01-30 14:42:50 · 10 answers · asked by Scott 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I get two rings right. And i don't know but i fill all rings are too much alike. How do you get a good difference. If i do need to get two rings, What should one have difference color jewel in it

2007-01-30 14:42:45 · 19 answers · asked by newman_zachary 2 in Weddings

i know this one guy likes me and he stares at me. but why do his friends stare at me too? did the guy that like me tell his friends about me and thats y they stare at me?

2007-01-30 14:42:32 · 4 answers · asked by uknowwhoiam68 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend Ashley and I both got engaged around the same time and her and i decided to go to look at dress together and she picked out a dress that wasnt that nice but she loved it so i just supported her, well she brought the dress home and her fiance happened to see it and i was at their house with my fiance while my Ashley was at work and her fiance saw the dress and went "what the hell is this!!??" and i didnt say anything, he looked like he was going to be sick and he went in the kitchen and got scissors and STARTED CUTTING THE DRESS!! i couldnt believe it but i didnt say anything, well my friend got home and her dress was all cut up. she started crying and her fiance said "you arent wearing that thing to our wedding, its ugly". i felt so bad....i dont know what to do or tell her what to do. i'm at a loss for words. anyone have any advice on what she should do, cuz i told her that she shouldnt marry someone like that..but i dont know....help!

2007-01-30 14:42:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-01-30 14:42:19 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what should i do? i mean, it's just so frustrating.

2007-01-30 14:41:45 · 3 answers · asked by pinkyjoecurlytail 1 in Singles & Dating

I am trying to go to a marriage counsellor with my husband, but i am worried that the therapist wont see the real him. My husband seems to have an abiity to have a cool calm and reasonable front that is anything but what he is really like to to live with. So many people believe he is like this all the time. I am worried that a marriage councellor wont see this and will only see me who fumbles with her words whenever she gets upset. So many friends and family only see this side and only a few have seen glimpses of another side when he gets mad. Has anyone had experience with this?

2007-01-30 14:41:11 · 12 answers · asked by Miz_Jasmine 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Please?

2007-01-30 14:41:02 · 3 answers · asked by shutuptwelvetimes 2 in Singles & Dating