i can't understand why I am jealous. This girl at work and I have become close friends. I really like her. Yes, I really like her more than a friend and she doesn't know it. I don't think she likes me more but I don't know. I dont want to ruin the friendship. It started out great. I was laid back and easy going, didn't have a care. Now I feel like I've turned into this raging maniac who gets jealous everytime she talks to another girl or coworker. I hate these feelings. It's not me and I don't want them. How do I get rid of them and be me again? I think my jealousy is pushing her away to others. Help, I don't want to lose her. What do I do?
2007-01-30 14:51:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Back off for awhile or you will seem like a maniac. Actively seek out other people at work to talk to--not to "get even," but so that you can make some other great friends at work that you don't feel this way about. Unrequited crushes can make you act like a total weirdo if you're not careful.
2007-01-30 14:57:47 · answer #1 · answered by sarcastro1976 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are jealous because of the way you feel towards her. You won't be able to resolve this until you come out and confess how you feel. If you are unwilling to tell her how you feel, be prepared to deal with the feelings of jealousy.
2007-01-30 22:55:09 · answer #2 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, is she straight cuz if she is, then let it go.
2007-01-30 22:54:58 · answer #3 · answered by pinkyjoecurlytail 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
say you are bicurious
2007-01-30 22:54:56 · answer #4 · answered by Dave ! 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋