Family & Relationships - 30 January 2007

Hi,
There is a shy guy that I have liked for about a year now.The first time I met him,he e-mailed me and we had a very nice e-mail exchange for a time. But in person, we never talk. I have only found out until recently that he was always waiting for me to "say something" and I told him that I was waiting for him to say something as well. We haven't exactly had long conversations with each other - the longest I've had with him has been about three minutes.Anyway, about a month ago he sent me a strange e-mail saying he was "rethinking everything, relationships in particular." I thought this was strange for a guy to say, but I can't be quite sure because I tend to be ultrasensitive. He ended the e-mail with "Yours", and not "Yours truly." Is he giving me a sign?

2007-01-30 14:27:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-30 14:27:35 · 12 answers · asked by honey1 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-30 14:26:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met a guy at a doctor's appointment (he is the doctor). He is about my age, and I really am attracted to him. I don't know anything about him. How do I meet him outside the office, find out if he's taken, and let him know I'd like to get to know him. He's very friendly, not at all taken with himself. We are not kids, I am 58.

2007-01-30 14:26:02 · 3 answers · asked by nanlwart 5 in Singles & Dating

I have a problem that has been weighing on my mind a lot lately...

First of all - I am an only child. I have a mom and my dad - my dad had been disabled since before i was born - he has also had 8 heart bypasses, 2 artificial knees - one artificial hip. He is set to have his second hip replaced in March. He is also bipolar and has other mental problems.

My mom was a teacher for 36 years - she fell while at work - hit her head and got brain damage. Her balance is very bad and some of her memory was lost. She also had a lot of heath problems - kidneys i think are a main problem and other issues. My mom is actually in the hospital right now - since 1/23 she has an pneumonia and her kidney function is low. They are both overweight and have diabetes as well - they are on insulin. My mom is 59, my dad is 61 and I am 21.

The problem -- I go to school over 2 hours south of where they live. I have an apartment down there and live with my boyfriend of 5 years.

2007-01-30 14:25:56 · 11 answers · asked by doubt133 2 in Family

I took into thought how you told me that I don't say as many sweet things as I used to...and I think it's because I just don't know how to explain how I feel about you anymore. I try to put it into the perfect words, but I can't find any words good enough. It was easy when those words just rolled out of my mouth, but I've never felt as in love as I do with you. I don't know how to explain it. I can try and try but it's never going to sound good enough to me. I want you to know how I feel about you in the greatest way possible. With the perfect words and everything.
I could tell you you are beautiful, that you have to be an angel, that your voice is the most beautiful thing I have ever heard. I could tell you exactly how far I would go to see you, how much I would do to make you happy. I could tell you everything I have told you before. Sure, it would be the truth, but you are so much more than that. I can't find the words to explain it right now...but I can tell you that I love you

2007-01-30 14:25:47 · 26 answers · asked by destroyerofchaos 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-30 14:25:45 · 8 answers · asked by bb48 1 in Friends

My dad has had bypass surgery and he has sputum in his lungs/pneumonia,his name is Jim/James.I am heartbroken everytime i go see him in the icu,he is/has always been the strong one in our family and to see him helpless in that hospital bed is overwhelming to me.He was able to take my wrist and shake it(i think he was telling me to be strong).I dont show him my anxieties while near his room,but when i leave the hospital i break down hard.I'm so scared.Please pray with me. >>>Love<<<

2007-01-30 14:25:21 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

who she claims to be "in love" with. Well, now she doesn't speak to me at all. I didn't tell her to stop seeing the guy. I didn't threaten to tell her husband nor did I speak ill of the guy she was cheating with or of her. It's just that I didn't approve and didn't offer my support. I miss her now that we're not talking, but have learned that she is friends only with people when it is convenient for her. I guess that makes her a user of sorts. Was I wrong for not offering her support in cheating on her husband? Should I have joined the team of supporters and cheered her on as she broke her marriage vows or was it okay that I stood firm for what I believe is right?

2007-01-30 14:25:16 · 3 answers · asked by CyndiDrum 4 in Friends

my cusins going out wit 2 boys at a time should she consider her self a cheater?

2007-01-30 14:25:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do girls really not care about how they look , how much they way and what their wearing when they have sex or is it just mee? I am a virgin but if I were to have sex with someone I would want to be confident with my body, be nice and fit and be wearing something sexy, ya feel mee? but most girls / women don't seem to care now'adays.. maybe it's just mee ? Idk .

2007-01-30 14:23:54 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so i broke up with this guy and haven't heard from him in 2 months do you think he went back with his ex yet or how long will that take. he is very needy.

2007-01-30 14:22:46 · 6 answers · asked by elliepenelly 3 in Singles & Dating

This guy and I have been friends for about 1 1/2. When I met him I was dating someone. He and I became very close. He always said that if I was single he would date me. Well now I am single. I spend ALOT of time with him and his little boy, I've slept with him several times(when he didn't have his son for a night) and he kisses me goodnight/ holds my hand etc even when his boy is there. Yet when he introdues me I am just a friend and he sometimes talkes like I am his best friend whom he just sleeps with!! It's driving me crazy! I can't tell what he wants. I love him to death and want to be with him. But I don't want to push him to define anything, he may just be giving me time to be single after my last relationship. Also he works with my ex, could that be a reason he is hesitant to call me his GF? What should I do? I don't want to push things, I just want to know where I stand.

2007-01-30 14:22:32 · 2 answers · asked by Erin B 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-30 14:22:21 · 4 answers · asked by mandypants2006 2 in Weddings

He hasnt seen her in 7 years and expects me to be her mother now that she will be coming here thursday,i have an 18 yr old that is out of the house and dont care to be the mother to another although i will love her like my own,we are in New York and she is coming from TN.she is nervous and he wants my son to show her around but he has a life and doesnt have time to babysit,so was i wrong to tell Marcus he fought for her he got her and now it is time for him to be responsible ,she isnt my child ,but i will be there for her even when i move? thank you all and enlighten me on your thinking please

2007-01-30 14:22:13 · 2 answers · asked by redneckwoodman 6 in Singles & Dating

Without being too obvious.

2007-01-30 14:21:43 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

feelings for me?
I don't mind jealousy...it's kinda cute!
The situation is I was touching my crush...who I hope has feelings for me.
A second guy told me not to touch my crush...touch HIM.
I told my crush...it was him on my mind.
My crush said "It better be!"

He won't come out and say he wants to start a relationship with me. He does tell me he loves me, but doesn't take it to the dating level. Do you think he's interested in me? Why would he take so long to tell me anything?

2007-01-30 14:21:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

MY husband has mentioned that all P***y feels the same. That it is just more enjoyable with the one he loves. Is this true, or does it feel different?

2007-01-30 14:20:46 · 15 answers · asked by Jackie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-30 14:20:08 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have not been told at school and my parents wont tell me iam in 12grade

2007-01-30 14:19:39 · 18 answers · asked by dededee 1 in Singles & Dating

Please share truelife experience. Do you know of someone who got what they desereved for hurting you?? Or did you get yours for hurting someone else??

2007-01-30 14:19:33 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Every bridal shower I have been to, the groom has been there. Even non-couple showers. My groom doesn't want to go. What do you think- should a groom attend the shower?

2007-01-30 14:19:27 · 23 answers · asked by justjen 2 in Weddings

alright i am 15 and going to be 16 in a bit... i am pretty shy when it comes to relationships but i have been in plenty of emm... how should i go further in my relationship when i dont got the courage to give a kiss... i mean i know how to kiss and all but still i am shy.. and feel ashamed if i mess up... my major question's are..... how do i go further with my relation ships and where can i get condoms if ever needed.... not saying imma pressure her into it.. and why am i ashamed to hold a gurls hand when walking around in school... it could be with the hottest gurl but still i would turn red..

2007-01-30 14:18:38 · 6 answers · asked by delavan_guy_53115 1 in Singles & Dating

serious answers only please.

2007-01-30 14:18:33 · 6 answers · asked by Big_Willis 1 in Friends

Why is it that so many husbands/wives stay with a spouse that has cheated on them..Are they really that naive and stupid to think that their spouse really loves them..Just my opinion but if a person cheats on their spouse then they really and truly doesnt love that person cause if they did they never would have cheated..There are other ways to solve problems in a marriage..Cheating is NOT the answer..I have read that a lot of people stay in a marriage after a spouse has cheated cause of their kids but why stay with someone that has made a fool of your and broke ur heart..I think the non-cheating spouse and their kids deserve better then living with a lying cheating untrusting person..anybody agree with this.

2007-01-30 14:18:25 · 15 answers · asked by lauren l 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm writing a paper so your opinion would help =]
"he would rather suffer anything than entertain these false notions and live in this miserable manner"

Do you agree with this quote?

Ex) If your spouse cheated on you but you two have a good marriage..would you want to know and deal with the pain or never would want to find out and be happy?

2007-01-30 14:18:24 · 11 answers · asked by =) 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My partner left me a couple of months ago. Since then we've slept together a few times and recently went away together even though we weren't going out. The night before we were due to come back we had a huge argument. I started it over something stupid because I was stressed and felt like I wasn't being treated as even a friend, let alone having any sort of relationship. I asked him to leave and he wouldn't, then when I wanted to talk he wanted to leave so I tried to stop him. I know I shouldn't have. I pushed him around, put myself in the way of the door and tried to hold onto him to stop him leaving. He ended up choking me and stepping on me and throwing me around to try and get me off him. It eventually came to a standstill and he left in the morning. He's not talking to me anymore. I really want to be able to be his freind and heal the hurt I've inflicted. I know it's my fault. Has anyone managed to ask for forgiveness for physical abuse or forgiven someone for it? Is there a way?

2007-01-30 14:17:40 · 2 answers · asked by SophieJulien 2 in Friends

2007-01-30 14:16:45 · 8 answers · asked by nicola 1 in Singles & Dating

My gf has one breast considerably smaller than the other ( B vs A). I tend to spend more time on the bigger one (naturally). She tells me that she gets more pleasure when I play with the smaller one. She says that she has the same number of pleasure sensitive nerve endings on both. And so, she has more them per square inch, on the smaller one. What has been your experience?

2007-01-30 14:16:19 · 7 answers · asked by kenneth h 6 in Marriage & Divorce

some one harrased me and he is still doing the same thing until this moment. I got frustrated and depressed cuz of him. I hated everything in my life because of the false rumors he spreads about me . I even don't know this person very well. what i know that he is really envious. I even hated the university he studies at, and i wanted to change the university because of him . everybody knows me because of what he is saying about me. so, please, help to choose effective words that i can write to the dean of the students. i really will be appreciated and so happy.

2007-01-30 14:15:41 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships