Hi,
There is a shy guy that I have liked for about a year now.The first time I met him,he e-mailed me and we had a very nice e-mail exchange for a time. But in person, we never talk. I have only found out until recently that he was always waiting for me to "say something" and I told him that I was waiting for him to say something as well. We haven't exactly had long conversations with each other - the longest I've had with him has been about three minutes.Anyway, about a month ago he sent me a strange e-mail saying he was "rethinking everything, relationships in particular." I thought this was strange for a guy to say, but I can't be quite sure because I tend to be ultrasensitive. He ended the e-mail with "Yours", and not "Yours truly." Is he giving me a sign?
2007-01-30 14:27:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe. I'd let him know your feelings.
2007-01-30 14:34:34 · answer #1 · answered by Danny S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe. This could go either way. He may be saying that he wants to belong to you, especially since you guys had the "I was waiting for you!" exchange.
Unfortunatly for you, this means you'll have to be the go-getter, and if you aren't that sort of person, this may not be an awesome match. (It doesn't look like it'll go anywhere unless you make the moves.) Perhaps if you make the move first, he'll eventually get more confident in it all. This happened for me, as I was once shy too.
As far as "rethinking relationships?" I personally don't know his stand on them before, but it could swing either way. Maybe he wants to become a go-getter, or maybe he just doesn't want a relationship. It wouldn't hurt to make a move: all he can do is say no.
2007-01-30 22:33:19 · answer #2 · answered by Lyssepoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to tell you the truth i'm not sure , maybe you should wait for another sign, or call him on the phone ask how he's doing try and start a conversation , ask him wats his favorite food and talk about funny times you had in your life and see what happens you'll never know whats going to come just be ready
hope that helps!!
2007-01-30 22:34:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you could get him to open up and talk about his feelings about you it would be a great help. As far the e-mail, thats just too vague to try and make an opinion on
2007-01-30 22:32:43 · answer #4 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes...it is very clear to me that both of ya'll are not the agressive type of both fear rejection from the other, probably because you care so much. He seems to be reaching out to you.
2007-01-30 22:32:02 · answer #5 · answered by leanne_13212000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋