Family & Relationships - 30 January 2007

2007-01-30 14:05:10 · 7 answers · asked by its me! 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a husband of three months. We dated about 1 and 1/2 years. For me it was dear love and I told him so from the moment I knew. He was the kind that took time but eventually he fell for me. We married in October. He was the one that suggested it, last January. He asked to elope in October (my preference too)

Since that time, I have focused on the relationship. He has been loving but changing. He is Russian with all that goes with it. But all has been ok till the past couple of weeks. Things are escalating to moody and mean. No matter what I do, he is critical or sharp. He calls it nice when I complain. It is a sudden turn.

Now I have attributed to stress with work and immigration issues. I have suspected depression. I have thought many things...but it is not going well.

He is suddenly changing his behavior towards me one day or the next. When I say he has changed,...he says if I have, you made me. He is not drunk during these times, if that enters your mind.

2007-01-30 14:04:23 · 13 answers · asked by kishoti 5 in Marriage & Divorce

If i want to have the wedding in october when should i have an engagement party?

2007-01-30 14:04:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

But I cant find any other guys who believe in it to what should
I do?

2007-01-30 14:03:50 · 4 answers · asked by ChristFirst00 2 in Singles & Dating

I have recently hooked up with a beautiful n sexy girl. She is active in all sort of things (Sexually speaking). She has told me that she had sex with someone who was bisexual, also she had been with couple of guys at the same time. I have been single for last 8 months and haven't had any sexual partner since then. I am having a hard time making a decision if i should get involved with her sexually or not? Considering the fact that she is very attractive n i haven't had any sex in last 8 months, what should i do?

2007-01-30 14:03:38 · 13 answers · asked by loverboy10108 1 in Singles & Dating

being a curious person, I'd like to know what everybody thinks about these statistics of single parents

Single parents account for 27 percent of family households with children under 18. 1


More than two million fathers are the primary caregivers of children under 18,
a 62 percent increase since 1990. 2


One in two children will live in a single-parent family at some point in childhood. 3


One in three children is born to unmarried parents. 3


Between 1978 and 1996, the number of babies born to unmarried women per year quadrupled from 500,000 to more than two million. 4


The number of single mothers increased from three million to 10 million between
1970 and 2000.

2007-01-30 14:02:38 · 6 answers · asked by Namaste 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

okayy so i like this boy and we might hang out this weekend but im not sure and he is from my old school that i moved like 45 minutes away and i really like him i cant stop thinking about him and we used to be best friends before i moved and i think that this boy is amazing and i would but i really wanna be more than friends with him but i dont wanna ruin what we have and we talk all the time on aim and i was also wondering that if i asked him to semi formal at my new school as a friend than that would screw everything i am going for up? please help me i really need help!!!!

2007-01-30 14:01:36 · 3 answers · asked by Amanda 1 in Singles & Dating

Do FWB usually kiss each other deeply for a really long time? Even when it is after sex and they are no longer turned on but just cuddling? Do FWB usually cuddle for hours and look deeply into each other's eyes? Thanks!

2007-01-30 14:00:35 · 20 answers · asked by bellyyo62 1 in Singles & Dating

I am anticipating several kiddies at my daughters wedding... it is an adult event....but thats another story. My own kids are grown and its been a long time.....ideas for puzzles, novelties that would be appropriate and inexpensive as a "favor" to be handed out at the guest book table. The idea is just to give them something to do while we are at the table....I think the hour and half for dinner is just a long time to expect them to be still. Ages 6-12. Nothing that flys, chimes, rings or buzzes. Make separate girl/boy bags? or have ideas for generic items?

2007-01-30 14:00:22 · 23 answers · asked by Sweetserenity 3 in Weddings

My gf whom I have known 4 a year is mixed (chinese america). We live in different states but tks to her, she has had a strong determination to make things work, and so far they have worked great. She has gone as far as introducing me to her family and they r all excited about me. the problem is that I'm afraid my g/f may have to wait a little longer than i think she's ready for, b4 we can get married. I have a major commitment on my part that I must meet that will certainly push our marriage at leat a year back. we have talked, and she seems to understand, but I am not convinced she grasps the magmnitude of the sacrifice (decision) that I am preparing to make, that will likely change our lives drastically. We have talked about moving overseas together, and she is already making plans to precede me. How do i tell her to put things on hold without giving the impression that I am stepping back, because i am not? I love this lady like I have loved no other, and she is a wonderful mate.

2007-01-30 13:59:04 · 6 answers · asked by cram 2 in Singles & Dating

I understand that it's getting to be that time of year, and everyone will be asking the same question, but I'm really stuck here. My boy and I will have been together for two months on Valentine's Day, and I just can't find any ideas for a gift that I think he might like.

He's almost twenty-two, and he's big on music. He loves guitars. He's crazy about Van Halen, sort of the rocker type. But he's also a big sweetheart and loves to goof and play around when things get to be too serious. I don't know if that helps in thinking of any gift ideas, but I put it out there just in case it strikes something in anyone.

Any suggestions or advice would be extremely appreciated. It's getting closer to that day and I'm really starting to realize more and more that I have no idea what I should give him.

Thank you very much for any help.

2007-01-30 13:58:29 · 8 answers · asked by Kaylin 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm crying sooo hard..No one understands me.I have 2 much pressure in school.I feel like my parents don't understand me..my friends don't treat me a like best friend.They make mean jokes to me.And I know they're jokes....but they hurt my feelings.I have no one to talk to

2007-01-30 13:58:09 · 6 answers · asked by flip flop freak :) 3 in Friends

2007-01-30 13:58:03 · 11 answers · asked by kycatfan2004 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-30 13:57:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We were out with a group of people, and I was really really really hungry. I was so hungry that I could feel like my stomach eating itself- no kidding, I mean I was like dieing. Everyone wanted to get Asian food, so we did. They could all use chop sticks, but I can't...its something I struggle with, because I don't have good manual dexterity. I didn't eat because I didn't want to look ignorant in the group, most of which I was only fairly acquainted with. She got very angry with me later, which I don't entirely understand. She acted like I had done something to embarrass her. I feel this is wrong of her, what do you think?

2007-01-30 13:57:03 · 14 answers · asked by fslcaptain737 4 in Friends

or like dude or yo dude or represent you...i dont get it.

2007-01-30 13:56:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i moved to a new school this yr and i hav alot of chick friends and i play sports and stuff but i cant get a guy to admit he likes me for him life!what do i do??

2007-01-30 13:56:58 · 19 answers · asked by Nikki DV 1 in Singles & Dating

my younger sister came to stay with us for a few weeks...i heard her talking on her phone about an "8 ball"...i thought it had something to do with drugs..does it?

2007-01-30 13:56:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am an asian girl. So of course asian love will be appreciated.

2007-01-30 13:56:50 · 10 answers · asked by fly_103 2 in Singles & Dating

need to know

2007-01-30 13:55:11 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-30 13:54:51 · 22 answers · asked by R10- Barca4Ever 3 in Singles & Dating

When I was chatting to him, by mistake i told him "what the hell" so he was very angry with me and he didn't want to talk to me and I kept apologizing but he doesn't want to chat with me.......
plz help me.........

2007-01-30 13:53:53 · 15 answers · asked by Natasha 2 in Friends

Okay, it'll only be one month the day after her birthday, but we've been "close" friends for about 6 months. I need a cute gift idea. She doesn't want anything "Store bought", and she says that something homemade would be so much more personal and special to her. Any good ideas?

2007-01-30 13:53:45 · 12 answers · asked by Mark B 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-30 13:53:35 · 7 answers · asked by Andrew S 1 in Singles & Dating

See, I've known this one boy since I was in diapers and we were really good friends. Then my best friend told him I wanted to go out with him because I was looking for a boyfriend. Then he called me and asked if I wanted to go out with him. I told him I would call him later and never did. I don't want to go out with him. I don't know what to do if I see him! Please help!

2007-01-30 13:53:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i hate hate hate hate hate hate, absolutely HATE this dude and i really really really really really really want to kill him right now...

so how do i show that i really really hate him without looking like i want to show it? we go 2 da same skool and pass by each other thru halls, but i have no idea how to show it at all.

2007-01-30 13:53:22 · 3 answers · asked by marie 1 in Friends

we r about 15 and we r going shopping for my sweet 16 dress!!
suggest as many as u can think of!! thanks

2007-01-30 13:52:43 · 4 answers · asked by MRP 4 in Friends

I have a crush on a younger man. I don't even see him as a man, but more like a little boy. He's eighteen years younger than me and was a colleague for awhile. Now everytime I hear his name or talk to him or see him I get this tingly feeling. He always says the right stuff. For example, I had not spoken to him in a few days and he called tonight. He said, first of all I want you to know that I am having major withdrawals. I said, from what, and he said , from you. He is such a suck up and he makes me feel so good. I think there's a question in here somewhere.

2007-01-30 13:52:21 · 4 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so when i started dating this guy, he acted like he was all into me, always all over me and even said i love u once. then asked me why i wasnt the same way, so now that i am acting that way, he is totally different and acts like he doesnt care? i am so confused because when i ask him about it, it just ignores it or says he still likes me. what or how do i talk to him about this? i dont know where to begin?

2007-01-30 13:52:08 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am not asking this in a way that I am forgetting in the relationship, but its just that I have a problem forgetting stuff all the time, I am a forgetful type of person and tonight my girlfriend told me that my forgetfullness is too much for her to handle, yet after talking to her on the phone she still says I Love You, I feel that true love is when you can overlook a flaw of another person, I feel she don't love me by making the comment that my forgetfulness is too much for her to handle, and yet I want to try to remember stuff but its a flaw that I almost have no control over, any girls on here if you had a boyfriend that had some flaw such as forgetfullness would you be able to overlook this one flaw because I feel if any flaw can be overlooked no matter how bad it is then the other person truly has love for you, or can a problem be way to much of a problem to handle?

2007-01-30 13:50:53 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating