I have recently hooked up with a beautiful n sexy girl. She is active in all sort of things (Sexually speaking). She has told me that she had sex with someone who was bisexual, also she had been with couple of guys at the same time. I have been single for last 8 months and haven't had any sexual partner since then. I am having a hard time making a decision if i should get involved with her sexually or not? Considering the fact that she is very attractive n i haven't had any sex in last 8 months, what should i do?
2007-01-30 14:03:38 · 13 answers · asked by loverboy10108 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go for it, she sounds amazing in the sack! :)
2007-01-30 14:07:01 · answer #1 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well use protection of course and if it bothers you alot that she has been involved in different sexual things if you guys are close, tell her that maybe you guys could go get tested before you have any sexual contact. She may feel offended, but you have to look out for you too. Tell her you don't feel any different about her know that she has done these things, but just to be on the safe side. Know not having sex for the last 8mo, don't sweat it....its like riding a bike, you don't forget how and if your worried about not lasting long because you haven't done it...well I have heard that J-off before you go to see her will help you last longer.
2007-01-30 22:13:20 · answer #2 · answered by jessdjnick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely use a condom if you do decide to do anything with her.
If you are thinking about a serious relationship with her, ask her to get an AIDS test at minimum. Make it a little easier on her by telling her you will get one too so that it doesn't seem like you are being judgmental with her.
2007-01-30 22:10:35 · answer #3 · answered by SwimsALot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If in the states, there is usually a county public health clinic. tell her you want to prove to her you are OK and suggest both of you go down and be tested for STD's.,. Better safe than sorry.
2007-01-30 22:10:10 · answer #4 · answered by pocbr 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is this just a booty call?
If this gal is flaunting her sexual history in front of you, she's probably not interested in anything more than sex.
Just wear a condom, or two!
2007-01-30 22:10:05 · answer #5 · answered by Ella 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should go together to get std tests ..if shes clean go for it if not you know befor you catch something..and you can say that befor you take it to the that level ,this is what you feel would be best .
2007-01-30 22:10:12 · answer #6 · answered by tiffanyh2323 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i'm sure if you go out with her,she will make it up to you,what you didn't have for eight long months and then some.lol
just go for it,you are attracted to her,maybe you can tame her down some.
2007-01-30 22:09:57 · answer #7 · answered by smiley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to find someone with some morals. Looks are not everything. Find someone with some class.
2007-01-30 22:12:26 · answer #8 · answered by devinshell 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
mate the things she can teach you! if your concerned about your performance then take control in the bedroom. and dont be afraid to experiment to try to take her by surprise. women like that. have fun;)
2007-01-30 22:11:45 · answer #9 · answered by evil Hesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats the problem? if you have concerns you can both be checked for stds and use condoms
go for it - or send her to me!!!!
2007-01-30 22:08:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Avoid her like you already know you should - she is a walking STD.
2007-01-30 22:08:56 · answer #11 · answered by sparrow 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋