Family & Relationships - 30 January 2007

My husband (seperated) thinks I cheated with this guy that I went on a date with...but I didn't...I have an instant message from the guy that proofes that we are just friends, and I even explained to the guy that I just need a friend, but am not ready for a relationship...
should I show this IM message to my husband to proofe it to him...or will it just make him even more angry ??? I just want him to believe me...cause I still love him...

2007-01-30 13:50:49 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm Trying to Forget You!.!


It's hard!!!!!
I'm trying to forget you,
when you still want to be with me.
I think I will never be able to do it.

Remembering the things that we both went through: happiness, sadness and everything that we both shared.

Your memories are still in my heart,
and you are one of the most wonderful things that in the past I had.

Why is it hard?

When the only thing that is in my memory is you
Why I can not take this image out of my mind?
When I'm trying to forget you.
Maybe is our destiny to be like this, but separated.
You still thinking of me when,
I'm trying to forget you!!!!!!!!!!.

2007-01-30 13:50:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

at my school, we're only aloud to hold hands. but me and my bf kiss(only like a peck on the lips) I'm sorry, but some of us can't help it that we're in love.......hugging isn't even aloud but I still do it. Tell me what you think!

2007-01-30 13:50:06 · 6 answers · asked by tadpole 2 in Singles & Dating

he broke up with me for another girl a few weeks ago and now wants to date me again what should i do??????????

2007-01-30 13:49:54 · 4 answers · asked by sexygurl1307 1 in Singles & Dating

My attorney is filing that my residence be changed to the kid's primary residence. It looks like it will happen what does that involve compared to where I have joint physical custody but not primary residence now?

2007-01-30 13:48:56 · 5 answers · asked by paco 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I want a boyfriend on V-day but Im scared to get one.

2 Reasons:
1.Too much rumor spreading
2. He might not like me and it will hurt my feelings

Should I get one or wait a while??

2007-01-30 13:48:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok, i have been going out with a this guy and for almost 2 weeks without breaking up. we went out b4 for 3 weeks but broke up between those times (4). so today in the bus ride home, some of my friends asked "do you 2 go out?" he said no. that got me pissed. idk if i should break up with him. SO many of my friends that know tell me he tells them he 'loves' me so much. my love 4 him kindoff left after the 4th break up. also it is close to valentine's day. I'm also having some feelings for one of my closest friend.....

HELP!!!!!! :[

2007-01-30 13:47:50 · 1 answers · asked by Eve 2 in Singles & Dating

Even if those numbers are skewed, it can't be argued that a hell of a lot of them are. I don't get it. What with internet dating, singles ads and love connections advertised everywhere, it's obvious that people of both genders are looking for love, companionship, commitment. So why the staggering divorce rate? Why is there almost a guarantee that a new relationship will fail, backed by the fact that so many that are veteran are doomed and falling apart?
I am beginning to think that people want "new" more than stable. Just a thought, as I can't assign any other explanation to the situation.

2007-01-30 13:47:33 · 11 answers · asked by 123 2 in Singles & Dating

Lets see--i met Fernando 5 months ago and we started dating a month later. We are exclusive and i trust him completely. We talk on the phone at least 5 hours a day-- we don't really chat anymore but i have seen him with webcam and he sends me pictures and gifts over the mail. I think i've fallen in love with him...and he's coming next month so we can finally meet. I've seriously never trusted someone so much and i know he loves me...you know?! so if you think i'm crazy... don't be mean...but what do you think?!

2007-01-30 13:47:16 · 8 answers · asked by celina m 2 in Singles & Dating

Do you think it's creepy how my boyfriend saw our future daughter as an angel in his dreams and then woke up with his ribs hurting? Or how about how creepy it is when I see my future son looking at me and talking to me? Do you think it's creepy? Or how about when my boyfriend got scared to death in one dream scared of me dying and woke up crying..Is this normal, or are we two powerful soulmates? We keep on having "visions" of our marriage and family..Is this creepy or natural or super-natural?

2007-01-30 13:47:04 · 6 answers · asked by tren 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-30 13:46:54 · 16 answers · asked by R10- Barca4Ever 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm 33 thankfully at the end of a divorce...10 years, four children (in 5 years) getting "joint" custody. The divorce has been going on for more than 2 years... very long story. At any rate, although I'm doing things backwards a bit... I'm finally ready to live a life for me. Regaining my financial independence, surrounding myself w/ positive people..etc. I'm highly educated (MBA in Economics,speak Japanese) yet have sacrificed my career to stay home w/my children, now 9,7,5,and 4. I'm okay w/that. Problem is I just met (at Starbucks) a really, really nice man, really nice. We spontaneously talked for two hours, and just got along about so many things, but I think he thinks I'm just a regular single girl. I don't look my age, and I have a lot of energy, and even most people who know me can't believe that I have four children. What do I do? He wants to go skiing/ or hiking or something fun this weekend. (Good for me, as I won't have the kids) What do I do...and say ?HELP

2007-01-30 13:45:21 · 32 answers · asked by abc 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my bf and i have been together since he was 14 and i was 15 (he's like 10 months younger then me) but anyways we are planning on getting married in july and he will be almost 19 ( 1 more month,august) and i will be turning 20 in the fall. we had talked about getting married since we were 14 and 15 it's like we just knew we were supossed to be together! so i just want your advice as to what you think, do you think us being 19 and 20 is too young to get married? ...thanks...

2007-01-30 13:45:20 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So i have this plan...for over the summer. My friends and i were talking about how much we missed our childhood. And i came up with this idea to play all these kids games over the summer at a local park.

-My plan is to play: Capture the flag - both teams are going to have different colored shirts on right..and instead of tagging people...we would use balloons filled with water

-We were also going to play 4-square, parachute, tug of war, a big game of basketball and dodge ball.-

--i haven't really told my friends about this yet....
I'm kind-of embarrassed and feel they might think it's stupid. If you were 18 and a freshman in college would you think this was a stupid idea? Do you think it's a stupid idea? Tell me what you think before i go and tell them....about it

Would you do this at 18? Should i get rid of any of my ideas? OPINIONS PLEASE!

All i would like to know if you think
-4-square
-tug of war
-parachute
-capture the flag
-basketball
are they to immature of games to play?

2007-01-30 13:45:06 · 5 answers · asked by Jackie Knows Best 1 in Family

We've been dating for about 3 months and at first I wanted to be bf/gf but he just wanted to keep it casual. So we've been sleeping together now for the last 3 months but it seems like he is starting to like me more. Like sometimes he emails me like 5 times a day. He drove 2 hours to come to my house. Before he left he wanted to make sure we had another date planned, and he said "I'm really enjoying this." We were just cuddling and looking into each other's eyes. He is extremely affectionate, even when he is not turned on and it is not about sex, and he tries really hard to please me. Do you think he might be falling for me? What are some signs?

2007-01-30 13:45:05 · 4 answers · asked by bellyyo62 1 in Singles & Dating

i do

2007-01-30 13:44:03 · 10 answers · asked by lindsay 2 in Family

I left a ques last week asking for advice regarding my cousin being a victim of rape..it took place 6 months ago and she didnt say anythin untill last week because of his threats. i told her to go the police and repor tthis..she was in there for 2 hours.they took the report ..turned out they even had a mugshot of the guy. they asked her if she still have the clothes but she threw em away..other than that there is no evidence.. the detective has said the first thing that needed to be done was for her to see a therapist cuz of her condition...she even try to kill her self..and once shes better .they could put this guy away..the detective said the only way to do this is that my cousin will call him again and ask him y he did that...and if he says something like " he wont do it again" or " he was sorry" that is a confession and enough to arrest him.. i just want to know if there is any other way to prosicute this man..obivously he commited this crime 6 moths ago but how do we prove it?

2007-01-30 13:43:38 · 6 answers · asked by wayne w 1 in Singles & Dating

I work with this guy and everytime he comes over and talks to me he touches a part of the zipper on his pants, like he's making sure the fly is up. But he does it so much that he has to know his fly is up. What does this mean guys???

2007-01-30 13:43:06 · 7 answers · asked by leanne_13212000 1 in Singles & Dating

How can I find a girlfriend in Boston ?!
Why I wanna find a girlfriend?! Basically because I need somebody to share with my feelings and I want to be with somebody I love and trust. I want to take rid off loneliness.
But I think you should know that I been in Boston for more than 1 year, and I'm not American. but I'm kinda smart because I learnd the language in a short period time.

I am 18 years old..

Thanks for giving me your time..

2007-01-30 13:42:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so theres this really cute guy that i've been crushing on for like the past 3 months btu i dont know if he notices me or when i see him if i should talk to him and if i do talk to him i dont know what to say some one please help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-01-30 13:42:35 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This girl i really want to be with said she's not ready for a realtionship and would tell me when she is. I just found out from her friend 2 months later that she i just was not her type and she had no intentions of telling me when she was. Everything was great and now its all over. I feel like crap cause i just knew she was perfect. She's a nice girl and didn't want to hurt my feelings. I tried to give her a valentines day card and she rejected...i got mad and said you win i won't bother you...i just lost it. i was trying to hard and she lost interest from one date and a few outtings.

2007-01-30 13:42:31 · 5 answers · asked by Q 2 in Singles & Dating

and now she won't speak to me at all. I think she has an attorney and is ready to file for divorce. How do I make her change her mind?

2007-01-30 13:42:16 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Lets say that you(males) were adopted at 6 months, and you have always known it. You are 39 years old, and its 1998. You go to your Uncle and Aunt's house to visit, and in front of my Adoptive dad(who knows about your real Parents) and your sister, your Aunt mentions a brother that you knew nothing about, thinking that you had known. How would you feel to learn about this brother? Would you feel as I do?
I have felt a little hurt since 1998. Now, to this day, I wonder who (Ricky) is, where he could be. Is this a normal reaction? Sincere honest answers, please.

2007-01-30 13:41:37 · 18 answers · asked by jeraboam2004 1 in Family

How old were you before you let it go (lost virginity)? was it at the right time, or do you regret it?

2007-01-30 13:41:27 · 13 answers · asked by tren 1 in Singles & Dating

my husbands aunt lost her 3kids , they have been in foster care for the past 2 years. she lost them because of too much party and drugs. me and her do not get along we dont even speak because she is very voulgar well the kids are being placed in adoption and i would like to get them. my thing is i allready have two kids and with them it will total 5 financiay i can do it but it seems it will be a fam problem becuase no one is very fond of me bcause i am very out spoken i tell it like it is. well i have been feeling kind of sad that these kids are being bounced around like a ball from home to home and i want to offer the stability and the sence of security, a future a stable home,and a loving mom and dad . you think i should proceed? and if so should i let the mom be in the picture, my plan is if i do get them it would be only limited interaction for the reason that i want these kids to adapt to me and to keep them away from harm.

2007-01-30 13:41:19 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok,me and my friend jenn r rilly close and 6 mos ago her dad died from canser and i was there for her and now that we r both in high school and she has some new friends and a mouth after her dad her mom started dating a nother guy she dont call or come over and her 2 bothers and sister moved out i wont to help her but her phone is off and she is never home i dont know what to do can u help please

2007-01-30 13:41:16 · 3 answers · asked by ~MRS.KANEHL~ 1 in Friends

Me just being a curious person, I had to ask. I read in my sociology text about the concerns and problems of high schools. Here is what they were:

A mere 50 years ago, the concern in public schools consisted of
1. Students not doing their homework
2. Spitballs
3. Leaving the lights on
4. Running in the halls.

Now the top concerns of schools are

1. Gangs
2. Drugs
3. Date Rape
4. Violence in school.

As a parent, what is your reactions toward these statistics?

2007-01-30 13:41:10 · 9 answers · asked by Namaste 3 in Family

my friend who is only 13 says she wants to kill herself and she already "cutts"...and i dont think it is just an empty threat... i know it may be a cry for help but i think it is serious...does any one have any advice or past experience with something like this?
please i dont want to lose her

2007-01-30 13:41:03 · 4 answers · asked by 2confused 1 in Friends

this debt is from a bad business deal and his last divorce its about 25k.i can pay it off but i feel its unfair for him to ask me since this happened all before he met me.men can u tell me would u ask your gf to pay off one of your debts?

2007-01-30 13:40:32 · 22 answers · asked by heather4netty 1 in Weddings

2007-01-30 13:40:29 · 13 answers · asked by hannpt 1 in Marriage & Divorce