haha ok well in movies, strangers go up to a person they like in their school or whatever and ask them out and the other person says yes...
how often does this actually happen? how many people would actually say no?
2007-01-30 14:51:51 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i've said no several times.
2007-01-30 14:55:32 · answer #1 · answered by bittersweet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...I do it all the time? Seriously, one time I was on a plane ride from Dulles to Japan, there was a hot girl sitting to the left of me(I was in middle aisle she had aisle on the other side)...So during the plane ride I wrote on a piece of paper..."I can tell you're very bored by this plane ride..anyways whats the deal you're totally hot" and then we just started having this conversation with paper and pen until when we got off the plane I had her number, email and address...Wow, was that hard? Sometimes you just gotta take chances. I can sit around and tell you alot of times..that this has happened, I went up to a girl one day she had class with me and I asked her if she would let me buy her a cup of coffee one day and she said yes..Listen, I've been rejected..plenty of times..At a club if I asked 10 girls to dance half might say no.. But it's the other half that might say yes..and then maybe you might..just maybe get to take that one home..don't worry about your ego getting bruised..time heals all wounds, whats the worst of asking someone something..the worst thing they can say is NO..wow..Once you start and build your confidence up you'll definantly be a player in no time!
2007-01-30 23:01:00 · answer #2 · answered by pokeralchemist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all know movies can be a little far-fetched. But if you want to ask someone out...they may say no, which isn't what would happen in the movies. But with no question comes no answer.
2007-01-30 22:58:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens often, I would say on a daily basis several times a day. Movies always make things look easier than they are in real life. 50/50 chance I'd say
2007-01-30 22:55:34 · answer #4 · answered by christinedaae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's pot luck I guess!! Movies are only to show people what they want to see but in reality it never ends up turning out that way that is why they say life is full of unexpected things and if they don't happen you will never know the true meaning of life!!
2007-01-30 22:55:33 · answer #5 · answered by pqr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask and find out. About 30% will say yes. If they like you, 100% will say yes.
2007-01-30 22:55:20 · answer #6 · answered by A Military Veteran 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life ain't like the movies or sit coms. It works like that 'cause it's fiction. The problem with today's society is that they DO think life works like that and that all problems can be solved in 30 minutes or less.
2007-01-30 22:59:28 · answer #7 · answered by Voice_Of_Reason 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends on how you carry yourself in school and how your appearance is..High School teens are shallow, it 's all about the appearance and how your popularity is in the school, so If this does not describe you I suggest you watch GREASE and shape up Buddy before you ask anyone out!!!
2007-01-30 22:56:17 · answer #8 · answered by gee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it actually does happen, get to know the person and talk to them on aim, myspace ect. Then start talking to them in person, then look confident and ask them out!
2007-01-30 22:57:05 · answer #9 · answered by CaLiFoRnIA GirL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Body Language happens before the question. Just remember no doesn't mean no. It means maybe. Hell no means no.
2007-01-30 23:27:57 · answer #10 · answered by Ravishing Rick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would, and have said no. you only say yes if you either know the person or he's really really hot. otherwise it's just creepy.
2007-01-30 23:00:59 · answer #11 · answered by pinwheelbandit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋