I feel very Doubtful at times with my Girlfriend and I have no idea why. I feel doubt when she brings up she wants to hang out with friends (sometimes). I feel doubt when she wants to go back to her hometown and meet some old friends and see old places (sometimes). I feel doubt when she's with me in another city and her mom wants to talk to her, she phones and they talk like best friends, In a way I wish she talked to me like (sometimes). I just feel doubtful when she wants to do her own things. I know I sound so clingy but I try my hardest to get rid of the feeling, that's why i wrote "(sometimes)" because it's every now and then I feel doubtful and it depends on my mood. that "(sometimes)" is when I feel understanding. Damn Yahoo Answers, I can't type exactly everything for you to understand but I tried. Is there anything anybody can say about this? Anything?! I do have Faith, Hope, and Trust in her but I just feel Doubtful sometimes, I don't even understand myself sometimes.
2007-01-30 14:43:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are in love... and deep, so what if you are the jealous type? you love her and that's all that matters! don't overreact when she wants to do something on her own, let her know you care every day, that you couldn't ever feel it less, that you will only love her more each day.
2007-01-30 14:57:53 · answer #1 · answered by Exhibit A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie thats the whole point to a relationship....there is always doubt in everything, but when the feeling of doubt goes away, you have her and she has you and that's really all that matters. My boyfriend lives 6 hours away when he's in college, so i definitely know that feeling of doubt. Why not try to get involved in what she likes to do. Ask to go with her when she wants to visit home, even just once, or ask if you can go out with her and her friends once just so you know that it's okay, and you have no reason to have any doubt about anything. You are allowed to talk to her about this too. I know if my boyfriend ever had doubts i would surely do everything possible to make sure his doubts were at ease. I wish you the best of luck!
2007-01-30 14:50:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think we all have doubtful feelings sometimes and it is quite normal. The one thing you need to recognize is that she is your girlfriend by choice and if she wanted to be with someone else, she would be. Just enjoy the time you have with her and don't be so concerned about something that you have no control of. Good luck
2007-02-07 14:51:56 · answer #3 · answered by Jan C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you need to talk to your girlfriend more and not be so blah towards her, like you need to tell her how you feel. Unless you know she is cheating on you then you need to stop worrying so much about it and be happy when she is spending time with you. This is what I think about why you do what you do, it's just my opinion. Your very insecure and afraid of rejection I believe. Each time she is doing something that does not involve you, you begin to feel like she is not into you, probably because you are self centred to begin with and controlling.
2007-01-30 14:52:57 · answer #4 · answered by christinedaae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know im only another girl saying this but you should talk to her. when i first started going out wit my b/f i had some doubts but now i dont. its just a stage youll get through it soon
GOOD LUCK!!!
2007-02-07 14:15:08 · answer #5 · answered by Vikki[Rawhr] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋