Family & Relationships - 29 January 2007

My boyfriend and I broke up about a month ago. But after about a week and we started talking and trying to work things out. We still are trying to work things out. I do truly think he is the one for me. No matter how much I want to move on I can't. We have had problems in the past but I am willing to look past that. He confessed his feelings to me first. Like how much he cared and loved me. But everytime he told me I hesistated on saying it back. He knew I cared I just couldn't say that I was in love with him. I now that I think I am I know I messed up! I have been so hurt before so it's hard for me to put my trust in people! I let the last boy get away but if I let him get away I will never forgive myself. I have been telling for the past week now how much I love him and want to be with him. I even told him that I think he is my soulmate!! Is there anything else I can do to show him that I want to be with him. He still cares. What can I do? I really need lots of advice from the males

2007-01-29 14:56:26 · 5 answers · asked by msaquarius 2 in Singles & Dating

ok so my bf and i are doing well, but when we are making out and stuff, i dont know where to put my hands, how fast to go, or exactly what he wants me to do. . . any honest advice for me? i dont want to make him uncomfortable, i just want to make sure i do things right...

2007-01-29 14:56:24 · 10 answers · asked by Deegs 2 in Singles & Dating

i've had three different girls on dates, and the date goes fine, but when we start talking about personal stuff, and it comes up that i have a daughter full time. Then bam, they start going backwards. One told me that she wants to go through having a first child with someone who hasn't went through it yet, like it would be better. I don't get it!

2007-01-29 14:56:13 · 13 answers · asked by BLAINE 2 in Singles & Dating

Can they tell me that I can't go places and that I have to be home at a certain time legally?
I don't party or anything..it's little things, like seeing a movie.

I am an adult now.

2007-01-29 14:56:06 · 23 answers · asked by morethanitseems 2 in Family

I ask cuz I am at odds about what to do beyond cooking her dinner and flowers .

2007-01-29 14:55:53 · 4 answers · asked by lordwhitewolf_m 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-29 14:55:25 · 22 answers · asked by triestobekind 1 in Singles & Dating

My friends mom died yesterday and my friends birthday is in a little more than two week. How can I help give her a happy birthday? She hasn't had a birthday party since she was little and she was actually going to celebrate this year and now. Yeah. So what can I do?

2007-01-29 14:54:35 · 8 answers · asked by Liz 2 in Family

Without being tested, how can you know you and your girl unconditionally love each other? Could a dream prove it?

2007-01-29 14:53:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Even if she is really nice, if you wasn't interested, you'd tell her to stop, wouldn't you?

What if it doesn't go away and she somehow tries everyday, usually at the end of class when she says bye to him and tries to give a light touch on the back too?

2007-01-29 14:52:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-29 14:51:33 · 54 answers · asked by Evelyn F 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-29 14:51:21 · 21 answers · asked by sally m 1 in Singles & Dating

Son and wife are soon to be divorced. Daughter-in-law says I can go to child's daycare and take her for an hr. or 2 then return her back to day same day. She said I was on the list at daycare all along since break-up. I have been trying for 3 weeks now to take her for outing, the mom always has an excuse not to now. Last week I asked to do it agian, she said she would tell the daycare, and she didn't ,so I didn't see g/baby .I went to daycare today to aquaint myself, and they told me I was not listed to ever take her anywhere, but even if she does list me, they naturally need a written consent to take her. Why did she lie to me all this time saying I was on the list there, and I wasn't? Am I being punished for the break-up and divorce? I pray for all this to have a been a night-mare, but it really is happening...

2007-01-29 14:50:48 · 15 answers · asked by stives51 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok well me and this girl were never together but well she cheated on her b/f with me and and we are still messing around and we have liked each other since before she got with her boyfriend but we didnt tell each other.and now i feel like im madly i love with her, and i have tried to stop talking to her because of fights that we have had(like her choosing her b/f over me eventhough i knew she would pick him)and i feel like im her b itch because she come with me then she goes with him and it feels horrible and not to long ago i told her that we should leave each other alone and i didnt speak to her for a week and yesterday i saw her at a party and i ignored her at first but the whole time i felt like crying and i missed her so much! and i kept on looking at her..until she approached me and we talked and kissed..and today i saw her again and she was supposed to stay for a party but she left(she ditched me) and i found out she left me for her b/f..what should i do? how do i get over her!?

2007-01-29 14:50:31 · 2 answers · asked by pixie7 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am 27 yrs old and I never want to have s*x.I have always been this way,will I ever change,what can I do?Im not totally again'st it,I enjoyed it before,it's just seems like somethings wrong with me.Hope I didn't offend anyone.Thanks!

2007-01-29 14:50:22 · 7 answers · asked by 8th wonder 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-29 14:50:13 · 5 answers · asked by Any 1 in Friends

Today I gave a guy friend a hug (actually HE hugged me) and I saw at the corner of my eye that this guy (I kind of like) was staring at us. Is he jealous?

2007-01-29 14:50:02 · 9 answers · asked by asdfjkl; 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-29 14:49:54 · 9 answers · asked by Nikki 4 in Friends

I went to school... yes yes very fun.
1st period- read
2nd period- chilled
3rd period- gym... someone jacked money from a lot of people
4th period- chilled
5th period- little work
6th period- some math crap

overall and ok day

tell me about yours?

2007-01-29 14:49:39 · 9 answers · asked by [quarantine] 3 in Singles & Dating

My grandfather is from Louisiana and he told me how his sister married a man when she was thirteen. But that was years ago.

2007-01-29 14:49:26 · 7 answers · asked by daydream♥believer 4 in Marriage & Divorce

*sighs*....ok im reaaaalllly depressed i think. but then again im not sure. i hate my father...he a total a**hole. my mom is so busy trying to get a job she has no time to talk to me. and when she does have time she ignores me and only says bad things to me. i find myself crying over the stupidist things. i dont have very many friends that talk to me anymore because i am getting homeschooled right now. my brother hates me i think. the only time he acts nice to me is when im playing video games with him and i think that is pretty damn shallow if you ask me. im not happy with myself. i spend hours trying to figure out what is wrong with me and then i end up just even more upset. im worried about my mom's situation with our house because we owe money and we almost got it taken away about a couple of weeks ago. i dont want to go to a counselor about my problems because the only one my mom will let me see is the one she goes to and i absolutely HATE her because she is sooo fake. please help

2007-01-29 14:49:04 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

what are the things you did? and what was the big let down, that made you think twice?

2007-01-29 14:48:36 · 14 answers · asked by OnionSkin 3 in Singles & Dating

I just met this guy and he took of his shirt and pants. (met him yesterday) He wants to have . Should I? Yes he is hot...

2007-01-29 14:48:32 · 11 answers · asked by Carmel T 1 in Singles & Dating

so my parents are getting divorced (finally).
But i am glad.
I don't love my dad..i don't LIKE him. he has never done anything badly wrong.
He is just a nasty person. Constantly argues with everyone. Moans. He must be right all of the time. he can give out insults but not take them. You know the type.
I am sick of having him in my life. I can't remember one single memory where i am having fun with him around.

i want nothing more to do with him. Is this wrong? How would you feel if your kid wanted nothing to do with you?

I mean i don't know how i feel. i feel guilty of course.. on one side - i don't want to hurt his feelings. But on the other hand - i don't like him. i don't want to spend time with him. i get the feeling he doesn't like me anyway.

How do i tell him that i don't want to go stay with him or meet up with him or anything..

Or should i just put up with it?

i am behind in a lot of coursework. with many other probs. This stress is just making me worse

2007-01-29 14:48:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I personally think maybe 10 years, although love can really be at any age.

2007-01-29 14:47:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I hear this all the time and I want to know if its a myth or true, what do you think?

2007-01-29 14:47:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay my hubbie is deployed and the love of my life. The other week his mama told him a lie about me that i told something she said in confidence. So my husband ask me I said no. He didn't give me a chance to say anything. He just said wacth what i say! Now his uncle pass away and the miltary want send him home. He said he is tired of negative things in his life. His mama and her issues and me asking lots of questions. I only ask out of concern cause he is fed up! He is tired of being broke and said by me asking questions about how he feels that is annoying! That hurts it seems like i am taking the blame for everything. I am a housewife for now. We just moved so i am looking for work. I take care of the house and kids while he's away. I calls him family and check on them. I been a good faithful wife? Then he think he is always right and don't listen to my feelings and say it is not all about me! I just feel is mama started this because we been doing fine!

2007-01-29 14:46:48 · 11 answers · asked by God's chosen 3 in Marriage & Divorce

even if the guy is not a virgin, but the girl is?

2007-01-29 14:46:37 · 16 answers · asked by sally m 1 in Singles & Dating

It took me forever to figure out the avatar. I know, I know.... welcome to the 21st century.

2007-01-29 14:46:18 · 1 answers · asked by texas tornado 4 in Marriage & Divorce

The dirty = $ex

2007-01-29 14:45:56 · 8 answers · asked by Addie J 1 in Singles & Dating

OK ..... i am planning a wedding! The date is March 31st of this year! Dont ask why its so close! Anyway i want to make my own invites and i need help with the wording!! I dont know what it is supposed to say on the inside! Please Help!! I am going crazy!

2007-01-29 14:45:13 · 15 answers · asked by HaZeLeYeZ 2 in Weddings