Family & Relationships - 29 January 2007

I like this guy, and he's only in my chorus class, Thats it. In our School, we have a blue and a Red Team. I'm on the Red team, and he is on the blue team. I'm madly in love with him, BUt I don't know him very well but I want to know him, I think he looks at me every now and then, he seems as quiet as me, please help me?

2007-01-29 14:45:02 · 3 answers · asked by Dreamer 4 in Singles & Dating

me and this guy have become best friends over the last 5 months or so and he is always telling me " oh this one girl has such a tight butt" and im ugly and stuff. but he always wants to hang out and when i tell him i want to live with my dad he goes crazy and is like " no no u can't leave me here" when its not like he doesn't have friends. he has like 2x as many friends as i do. so...does he like me or is he just messin with me? plz help

2007-01-29 14:44:26 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am in a custody battle at the moment with my ex-husband. A few months ago, I found out that he had signed over his parental rights to a daughter (that he knew about from the start). Today, I found out that he also has another child (a son) that he was told about and has refused to acknowledge. About one month ago, he adopted the son of his new wife (married about 1 1/2 years). How should I or could I handle this situation? Leave it alone? Talk to an attorney? I'm torn, because I don't want to hurt my child, but I hate for him to grow up thinking the world of a father that treats his other biological children this way. Help!!!

2007-01-29 14:44:07 · 10 answers · asked by Wendy D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Lately i feel so empty, and i want a girlfreind to make me happy.

I think its cause im too ugly, but maybe its my attitude. I need some serius tips, theres single girls around but they dont seem interested.

and heres my pic, tell me if its cause im ugly. http://img256.imageshack.us/my.php?image=picture0112pw.jpg

thanks

2007-01-29 14:43:57 · 4 answers · asked by wickerpark 2 in Singles & Dating

posted this question before but I did not get good answers. I know this guy for about 4 months and each months passes, our relationship gets stronger. The questions is what kind of relationship that I have with this guy? We call each other everyday, he comes to my apartment at least once a week and he stays for hours. Nothing happened between us, we just talk, eat, and listen to music. We sometimes hang out with others friends but he does not show that he is interested in me. The question is, how come that he spends hours in my place and he is not interested? I'm so confused and I don't know how to deal with it. I need an answer from someone who knows what he is talking about. And oh, I am a good looking woman, and he told me so before. This guy is not shy at all, by the way. He is very confident and charismatic.

2007-01-29 14:43:01 · 7 answers · asked by Laila 1 in Singles & Dating

We want to let him know we grieve for the death of his friend and pray for his recovery. Words seem inadequate right now.

2007-01-29 14:42:23 · 24 answers · asked by David K 1 in Friends

I'm in middle school and have a boyfriend that I really love but there are like 3 or 4 other guys who have a crush on me that I really don't like they are perverts and they are stupid and ugly. So how do I get rid of the boys crushing on me but not my boy friend?And how do I show my boyfrined that I really love him?

2007-01-29 14:42:20 · 12 answers · asked by Rach 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm married but separated. My husband and I split because he just isn't serious enough for me. He won't pay the bills like he's suppose to. But he is an outstanding father. Our children are 1 & 2 yrs. old. We take turns every other week for custody. For instance, he has them all this week. Though he takes them to school everyday and I pick them up everyday. And I really don't like not being able to put my daughters to bed everynight. But at the same time, I can't be w/someone who isn't responsible. He listens more to his family than the family he and I created. I've lost so much weight over this. I'm dieting too, but I think much of my weight loss is due to stress. So my question is, Should I get back w/him for the kids and just deal with it? Or do I just continue being separated from him?

2007-01-29 14:42:06 · 16 answers · asked by TRULEY MADLY DEEPLEY 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Hello I'm just wondering why most if not all women hate nice caring, emotional, and sensitive guys? it seems to be true to me because almost every woman I have met in my life played me or cheated on me in some way. I swear i'm just about to give up totally. the only type of guy women want is the bad boy type and everytime they find a true gentleman they crap on them anyway they can, I'm not saying every woman in the world is like this, but my lord I've not met one that is not yet? I mean i'm a nice gentleman of a guy you'd like me if you got to know me, but its odd cause I have not found a good hearted women yet to be in a relationship with and I'm in my mid 20s? someone please tell me there are some good hearted woman out in this world, cause I have yet to believe that, if there is such a thing as a good hearted woman where could I find one? people has always told I look in the wrong places, perhaps they are right? but then again what are the right places to find a good woman? help me

2007-01-29 14:41:40 · 8 answers · asked by Shyguy 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-29 14:41:13 · 14 answers · asked by DazzleMe 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't know what to write in the note, I like him and I'm really scared this whole note thing will go up in smokes like it did with my last crush. I kinda know him and I think he might like me, what would a guy want to hear in a note if you didn't know the girl that much? Please don't say any sexual stuff, call her, because I'm not really old enough only like 14.

2007-01-29 14:40:01 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 23 and my Boyfriend is 19. My family is in Iowa and I am in California. I gave up my job for him and my car. I was stressed out in my new job. So I took it out on him. Now he took all of his stuff. He called the nieghbors and talked to them for 30 min. They came over to tell me that he wasn't happy. Now I'm stuck having to leave my job again and travel in a uhaul back to my family. Everything that is happening to me sucks. I love him I do but maybe he was to young for me?

2007-01-29 14:39:35 · 1 answers · asked by amandamc32183 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Theres this girl I know were just friends but then she starts holding my hand and looking into my eyes, saying we should get together, etc. I cant tell whether she is serious or not. Should I ask her out?

2007-01-29 14:39:33 · 3 answers · asked by .......... 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-29 14:39:29 · 4 answers · asked by Adam 1 in Singles & Dating

Seen answers guys give to certain questions.....been dumped more than once.....insecurity rising....

2007-01-29 14:39:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My bf and I got 2gether after he was dumped by a girl he really loved.Theyd dated 1year.She was seeing another guy & wanted to be with him. A few wks later we started dating &did so for 3 months.He was talking to other ppl the 1st month and I was not,but then he stopped,but we werent really exclusive but neither of us were seeing any1else.Then his ex-gf was dumped by her new guy &told him she wanted him back &he basically ignored me for 2 days until I got him to admit the situation to me &he said he had to see if there was something still there between them &that he was sorry &drove out to see her (they were a state apart).I was heartbroken bc hed just told me that wk that he was in love with me.He didnt say it was over but for me to be patient &see what happened.It didnt work 4 them &2 days later he called me and we have been 2gether ever since(1yr now). We are now getting married & I still feel like the 2nd choice. I trust him 100% &they dont talk nemore but how can I get over this?

2007-01-29 14:38:43 · 3 answers · asked by HayleyD 3 in Singles & Dating

I went w/ a group of frds to six flags and I met a guy who came with us. he was shy. I put my number in his phone and found pics of me in his phone, i asked him about it and he said he "just felt like it". he would always playfully bump into me or sit next to my friend. he offered to walk back to the car to get my purse. after six flags he had to go home to chico and called me the next day and said he had fun and wanted to say goodbye. he called me the next day to say hi, he called me when we went to LA to see if i made it safe. he called me when my friend and i stopped being friends, and he called when i was mad to see if if i felt better, he clld when i had a minor headache. his frnds says he liks me but he has a on/off gf. he tells me prsnl scrts of his and listens to mine. he told me im hot but i dont know how he meant it. he calls me alot, & says im his #1 wife and jokes about being jealous of other guys, he says on a scale of 1-10 i am a 15 but his gf is 16...does he liek me?!

2007-01-29 14:38:42 · 1 answers · asked by morena0kizzez 2 in Singles & Dating

What kind of help can a father get who has 2 children. By two different mothers when it comes to child support. The courts has made it to where this father has to pay out 2000.00 a month in child support. He makes aound 19.00 an hour but after the taxes are taken out and the child support he doesn't have money to pay his bills. He doesn't have much a car payment, insurance, rent, electric, Food. He's layed off for the winter and that is his payments they will go up higher than this once he gets called back to work. This is what he has to pay on the unemployment which isn't even close to 19.00 per hour. Can anyone give me some ideas for assistance. Right now he feels he has about 3 options. Go to Jail, Give his rights up to his children, or Suicide. I need help for this person whose lost and needing answers.

2007-01-29 14:37:54 · 20 answers · asked by Guess Who 3 in Marriage & Divorce

one night me and my guy friend were talking about sex and how i was a virgin. he was not a virgin but he was talking about how so many guys respect that i haven't given it up yet. he even said "wait for the one you really like..and it's not going to be me." i knew it was going to be him though,and the next night it just happened naturally and it was amazing. is this bad by any means that he said that stuff the night before? was he just insecure thinking it wasn't going to be him?

2007-01-29 14:37:11 · 26 answers · asked by sally m 1 in Singles & Dating

I want out of a relationship but it seems to be at the worst possible time. We both have bought each other(birthday) gifts, which we are yet to exchange, there is a big dance coming up and she plans on me taking her, also V-day is coming up. What is the easiet way to end this? I care about her still so i want to make it as easy on her as possible.

2007-01-29 14:36:49 · 20 answers · asked by Nicholas C 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-29 14:36:10 · 41 answers · asked by SHy Guy 1 in Singles & Dating

some loves u like a gf or a bf???

2007-01-29 14:35:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

how can u tell when a guys joking or serious for example when a guy says " hey sexy" or "i like you" or stuff like that but are kind of joking around ?

guys when u say stuff like that do u mean it ?

2007-01-29 14:35:32 · 2 answers · asked by N 4 in Singles & Dating

Men...what is the one thing your wife can do that would make you NEVER consider cheating or having an affair???

2007-01-29 14:35:05 · 16 answers · asked by can u ♥ moi? 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i need to get back at this 13 year old boy...hes very bad/mean hes done some BAD things...whats a good way to get back at him!>? help me!

2007-01-29 14:34:00 · 16 answers · asked by hannah1 2 in Friends

My bf broke up with me a few months ago. Although we are remaining contact as friends, i still feel wierded out. This girl whom i will call B -he became friends with over the summer, B would call him and they would hang out with a group of people. Her friend liked my bf at the time. The girl that liked him, i know he dosn't like . Although while we were still dating, he still hung out with B and her friend regardless of my feelings. Even after we were broken up he claimed he didn't like B in that way, however he still hangs out with her. Tonight i spoke with him on the phone and he told me he hung out with B and the friend again. He said he likes B because she is cool but dosn't like the friend. I don't know , although im broken up with him, i feel that if he ever did anything with B or dated B -i feel i would have had the biggest slap in the face. My ex and i dated about a year. On the other hand i think if he liked B , he would have asked her out by now...i hope i dont get the slap.

2007-01-29 14:33:32 · 4 answers · asked by hersheybar99 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex and I fight a lot, he doesn't get the kids when he should, but he now wants to claim one on taxes, but he was behind on support, can he get me for contempt of court if I already filed and claimed them both?

2007-01-29 14:32:39 · 10 answers · asked by sf43812 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This guy asked me if i wanted to go to his b-day, his parents will only let him invite 2-3 ppl and he asked me and his best friend. he asked what where the odds of me coming and i said it depended on some things, which i listed. i dont know if he is justing asking me as a friend or as a date. at his party i will meet his parents and sister (yikes) and i think i would be a little out of place, because i dont know anyone but him at his party, and i dont get friends all that easy. is this a date, and should i bring a friend (which he said i could if i wanted to) hes a good friend, and i dont want to mess it up. what would it say to him if i brought along a friend? if i didnt?

2007-01-29 14:32:14 · 6 answers · asked by Candy!!!!!!!!! 4 in Singles & Dating

My friend has liked this guy for about a year now. She's a grade younger than him and I, and she never talks to him. There're about a million other guys she likes, but he's more her main interest.

I'm friends with him. I've also fancied him for a while now, although I have to admit my friend had [and announced] that she had her eye on him first. And because of this I never told her that I liked him. Instead I tried to push her to be friends with him and get to know him better, but the two of them have gone nowhere since last year.

About two weeks ago I found out that he liked me. And although I heavily considered how my friend would feel, I decided to ask him to the dance [that was a few days ago]. He said yes.

And as a side note, she had already told me she was trying to choose between asking these two guys to the dance, and the main guy's name wasn't mentioned.

I explained this to my friend today because I wanted to be considerate instead of just walking into the dance [which is in about two weeks] and surprising her. She said that she was upset, but that she was okay with it. When I came home from school, I went on her MySpace and found that I had been taken off her top 24, when just yesterday I was number 5. [Trust me, she's a MySpace nut, so it's safe to take that as a personal offense.]

So I know she's mad at me, but I'm fairly sure that she'll get over it in a few days. But did I do that wrong thing?

2007-01-29 14:31:47 · 20 answers · asked by abcdefgh 2 in Singles & Dating

if you know where shannon stokes is tell her to contact timtowall at yahoo. com. just by my email address you will know if you know me. any one with other ideas of finding shannon let me know.

2007-01-29 14:31:35 · 5 answers · asked by timtowall 1 in Marriage & Divorce