Hello I'm just wondering why most if not all women hate nice caring, emotional, and sensitive guys? it seems to be true to me because almost every woman I have met in my life played me or cheated on me in some way. I swear i'm just about to give up totally. the only type of guy women want is the bad boy type and everytime they find a true gentleman they crap on them anyway they can, I'm not saying every woman in the world is like this, but my lord I've not met one that is not yet? I mean i'm a nice gentleman of a guy you'd like me if you got to know me, but its odd cause I have not found a good hearted women yet to be in a relationship with and I'm in my mid 20s? someone please tell me there are some good hearted woman out in this world, cause I have yet to believe that, if there is such a thing as a good hearted woman where could I find one? people has always told I look in the wrong places, perhaps they are right? but then again what are the right places to find a good woman? help me
2007-01-29 14:41:40 · 8 answers · asked by Shyguy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well that would be me... but I'm taken hehe :)
I do care for good guys, caring, romantic and emotionals... those are the one who worth something and even more because there just aren't that many the way you are! so you really are unique and special and don't think the opposite...
I could tell you the same... I thought guys only wanted wild outgoing girls who didnt give a damn in emotional matters... but it didnt make me want to loose my essence I stayed truth to myself and I knew the right one would come and would appreciate the person I am.. and so it happened.
Maybe the thing is you are looking for that girl in the wrong place... maybe you are going for girls who are just shallow and just care for physical stuff...
Just give it time and please don't change!!! there are not many as you out there :) you'll see the one will come soon
2007-01-29 14:49:59 · answer #1 · answered by Aija 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't like sensitive guys. They need to be manly. Usually when many woman act upon a man, the same old question seems sexist, like most or all women are treating men this way. We are equal, but not the same. Kinda confusing but it's good advice. Trust me you'll find that women, love takes time, time is love.
2007-01-29 14:46:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are women that want nice guys, I know because I married one of the nicest, most caring and sensitive men I've ever meant. I wish I could tell you where to find someone who would appreciate you, unfortunately I can only tell you where you won't find one. Just don't give up and enjoy the hunt.
2007-01-29 14:49:30 · answer #3 · answered by Just Me 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont say that...most women are afraid to be in a loving true relationship because they have been done wrong...so they go out and see all males that same way as their ex...women love hard and when a guy comes and take that joy by hurting us we will make everyother guys life a living hell...I mean I am living proof of being done wrong and not wanting to get back into a full committed relationship status with a guy...I was afraid that he would hurt me...but now I have put the hurt and the bad parts of relationships behind me... women need to be 150 percent sure that you are not going to hurt them...yes it is going to take time to find that right one..it is not going to be a simple test..but when you do I am sure you know she is the right one for you...another thing is are you finding these ladies that are not too sure with what they want out of a relationship? you have to find that women that knows from your first converstation what she wants...not some umm uhhhhhh none of that...she is not sure of her self...be patient and that lady will walk in your life and you will be happy
2007-01-29 14:52:11 · answer #4 · answered by chanel_mitchell06 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Women don't hate "nice guys", they just don't want them as their mate. Women want strong, confident, masculine men. Most women will never admit this, but deep down, they want a man who's a challenge to them, and who is in control of himself and his situations.
What women don't want are little emotional, sensitive, wussy boys who they can walk all over and who give in to her every whim. Be a man, dammit. There goes a saying, "keep doing what you've always done, and you will keep getting what you've always gotten." So if you keep behaving the way you have been around women, which is like a WUSS, then they're gonna keep "crapping" on you.
I'm not trying to be mean or make fun of you or anything, but I know exactly what you're dealing with. I could go on and on about this subject but I don't need a bunch of women flaming me for my ideas. If you want to know more then contact me.
2007-01-29 15:00:16 · answer #5 · answered by Alan K 2 · 5⤊ 2⤋
When women, want to settle down, then they will want the nice guy, becuase they will finally realize that they cannot change a bad boy....So hang in there, and maybe look else where for women..you could be looking in all the wrong places.
2007-01-29 14:47:40 · answer #6 · answered by Mechelle C 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
aww hun
there are lots of good hearted women
mayb YOU like the bad girl type and thats y ur not gettin treated right ...them damn bitches....it will b ok
u kno wat just try not to look so hard u kno i bet she is right in front of ur face and u dont even realize it b/c ur to busy worrying about ur past....
u say ur in ur late 20's so go out n party!!
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2007-01-29 14:50:50 · answer #7 · answered by trina 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
cause in the end, were liars, but don't worry, your niceness will get you far in life. All the best.
2007-01-29 14:48:04 · answer #8 · answered by Genesis 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋