Family & Relationships - 29 January 2007

2007-01-29 14:00:02 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

and if so did you ever get called back?

2007-01-29 13:59:39 · 8 answers · asked by elliepenelly 3 in Singles & Dating

We discovered a few years ago my 14 year old sister's attraction for women. However, I was the only one in the family bothered by this. My mother scolded me harshly when I brought it up with her in private. "Do you have a problem with your sister's sexuality?" she would say. Lesbian sleep-overs were allowed in the homeand my mother would turn a blind - eye to drugs being used. My mother allowed her daughter to spend all her time with people far older than her, and some even older than me, and this led to her being "raped" a year or so ago. But this didn't create any response from my mother still. Then she began dating a 19 year old and again I tried to draw the line but failed.

This relationship is probably illegal (however, I live in Canada and I am not sure), so what can I do to stop this? How do I get my once Christian mother to see how sick this is?

2007-01-29 13:59:33 · 10 answers · asked by concerned_son 1 in Family

The Four Sunnyvale; Sunny Sunnyvale; Friends for Life; Once in (a) Sunnyvale

--Which title do you like best? Or give me your OWN suggestions!--And let me know how you like the plot. Sound interesting? Will you read the scripts? Any suggestions?

Characters:
John (Lead-Guy)
Rachel (Lead-Girl)
Dennis (Supporting-Guy)
Stephanie (Supporting-Girl)
Roger (Secondary-Character)
Debbie (Secondary-Character)
Jacob (Second-Character)

Plotline/Getting to Know the Characters:
Set in a small town in California called Sunnyvale, the lives of John, Rachel, Dennis, and Roger unfold as they attend high school at Sunnyvale High. John and Rachel have been best friends since junior high and started dating in the middle of their freshman years. Currently still together, John and Rachel are now starting their sophomore years. Roger and Dennis are in the same grade. You can say Dennis, John, and Rachel are inseparable. In fact, they've been nicknamed, "The Three Musketeers." But Rachel and John and Dennis and John still have plenty of time alone together as girlfriend and boyfriend and best buds, respectively. John and Dennis met beginning of their freshman years. John and Roger met a few months into freshman year in their Driver's Ed. class. However, despite John and Roger being good friends, Dennis and Rachel dislike him. And their dislike for Roger has in a way built a bond between them, as something they only have in common apart from John; something that they only talk about and share when John isn't there.
John is 16 years old; he's 5'9 and 165 lbs. He's a swimmer--as he is on the Swimming Team at Sunnyvale High--and a skateboarder. He has a slim/sender-ish body, one gets from keeping an active lifestyle. He is toned---arms, stomach, etc---but not in a really, really muscular way. He also enjoys photophraphy, and is taking a Photography class this school year. He makes the grade with a 3.0 GPA average, with A's, B's, and sometimes some C's. John is shy while meeting new people, but his friends---and girlfriend---knows his true, fun personality of being outgoing, funny, goofy sometimes, etc. He is also a bit of a loner, with the exception of Dennis, Roger, and Rachel. John was born in Texas, moved to California shortly after, then PA, and now/then back to California. John's ethnicity is caucasian.
Rachel is also 16 years old; she's 5'6" and 115 lbs. She's a chearleader for the Football Team, plays on the Vollyball Team (All at Sunnyvale High, of course.), swims, etc. She's a straight-A student with a GPA of 4.0. She definitely seems like a 'social butterfly', and puts on that "act" for her so-called popular friends, only letting really her boyfriend John see the real her deep down inside, as he's been able to do since day one. Rachel was born and raised a 'Cali' Girl.' Rachel's ethnicity is Latina.
Dennis being 16 years old, on the Football Team, 6'2", 200 lbs. He's a big guy, but not totally muscular. He does have some fat on his bones. Unusually, he is a bit of a loner like John, which is how their friendship/bond started. He is very, very shy, and awful---or was---at talking to girls. Hanging out with John has helped Dennis be more confident in himself, more outgoing too, thus helping him be better with the ladies. However, he has yet to have a girlfriend. A few dates here and there though. Dennis was born in California and has been there since. He's almost all Irish---and some German.
Stephanie is 16 years old, 5'4", 110 lbs. She's a chearleader too, kind of bubbly, gets along and talks to and makes friends with everyone---popular or not. Except she doesn't go to Sunnyvale High; she doesn't even live in California. And she doesn't know Roger, Dennis, or Rachel. She doesn't even know John in person---just online from chatting on messenger. They met about 2 1/2 month prior during the summer after freshman year. She does have a boyfriend, Jason, of about four months. Her and John talk quite often, as penpals. Stephanie is Mexican and lives in noneotherthan, South Carolina.
Roger is African-American (black), is 5'8", and 185 lbs. He is into graphic design and building websites; doesn't play any sports, but does exercise. He has many friends too and his very popular. He's lived in California his whole life, except for six months when he was living with his mom in New York (His parents are divorced.). He's had girlfriends, but not currently.
Debbie & Jacob are the parents of John. They've been married for twenty years. And in the early '90s, Jacob cheated on Debbie with another woman. They separated for a year and a half and then got back together.
They all have their permits, except for Dennis. Rachel and Stephanie are the only ones with their own cars (Parents gave them cars after they bought new ones.). Roger and John borrow their own parent's cars.

2007-01-29 13:59:23 · 1 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

If you knew that your boyfriend/girlfriend had a low sex drive when you were dating them but you was truly in love with that person would u still marry him/her.Knowing men the answer will probably be no...I dont think any relationship can last with 2 different sex drives..agree or disagree

2007-01-29 13:58:25 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-29 13:58:23 · 4 answers · asked by yayi´s 1 in Family

2007-01-29 13:57:46 · 3 answers · asked by DazzleMe 2 in Singles & Dating

there's this guy who i was "talking to" but after months of a lot of "stuff" that happened he ended up going out with my friend (we're not friends anymore) and while they were going out i didn't really talk to him anymore and then he contacted me two weeks ago(like seven months later) and told me he was sorry about the whole "that friend of mine and him" thing that we had gone through (they're broken up now) and now that he's back in my life all those feelings have come back...and i thought i had moved on... we've been talking and on saturday we went to the movies but he's leaving for the marines in a couple of months and i dont know how he feels about me. and i think im falling in love with him but i dont know if i should tell him before he leaves...any advice would help

2007-01-29 13:57:20 · 13 answers · asked by Lefty 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-29 13:56:57 · 15 answers · asked by Raff 1 in Singles & Dating

i have to add that she was never a mom.. she lost custody of me when i was 13 because she was so terrible and still now she does even know my children much and there 8,7,2 .... she has asked me to get a loan in my name because she cant get one .. what would you do ? plus , if she cant pay her bills now how will she pay this loan? i know you should always help others but does this qualify as over the edge ,, im a slay at home mom with three boys and i dont need to have to pay a loan for her because she didnt make the payment............be honest plz

2007-01-29 13:56:41 · 32 answers · asked by t_ibrahim 5 in Marriage & Divorce

There is this guy at my school who I think is really hot, and cute and stuff like that. The problem is he is more popular than me, how can I get him to notice me just a little? He knows my name and stuff but that's it pretty much. Help please.

2007-01-29 13:56:22 · 6 answers · asked by cheerleadergal56 2 in Singles & Dating

ok today i was kinda upset and i was frowning and the boy i tottaly love said this to me:Don't ever frown because you never know who might be in love with your smile =] does he mean hes inlove with my smile?

2007-01-29 13:56:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-29 13:55:36 · 10 answers · asked by Ruyi L 1 in Weddings

WHy do these guy all fall 4 my friend i mean i have a way bigger butt than her but she has a bigger brest than me and were both pretty so why her.

2007-01-29 13:55:30 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 21 years old with two daughters 2 1/2 and 4 months. My husband recently told me that he wanted me to dress sexier. At first I was excited...until I found out what he meant sexy to be. He means mini-skirts and semi see through shirts. I have never dressed 'girly' before and I think that he and I may be on different ends of the extremes. His being kind of slutty and mine being too conservative. I don't want to give my girls the wrong impression either that it's good to market your body to the other sex. I just don't know where to draw the line. I would like to look 'prettier', but I don't want to be a slut. Anyone have any suggestions of what is too much and/or what is acceptable?

2007-01-29 13:55:27 · 2 answers · asked by A W 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

hellp fast

2007-01-29 13:55:18 · 16 answers · asked by ME 2 in Friends

lol ok this is gunna b kinda long...well idk maybe not. ok me and this new girl hav been hanging out and we both liked the same guy. but,,,the guy said he liked me so i was like yayyyy! but then the next week he was like damn im fallin for ur bestfriend too..so it broke my heart...but then he apologized ta me and i was like ohh ok...den now he like me like more than ever..he says that he loves me and stuff and that he dont like my friend no more...im like ohh ok. Today, my friend posted a bulletin on mysapce sayin "he broke my heart" and i felt bad cuz shes been rlly down these past few days cuz of him..so she imed me and i was like awww im sooo soorry...and den she was like ohh its ok dont worry bout it..and now my problem comes: friends or boyfriends? which comes first? like dont get me wrong i like the guy and he obviously likes me..but my best friend has been there for me...so now big dillema..anyone wanna help?? please i really need it lol, but i ask all my friends but no good!!!!

2007-01-29 13:54:58 · 1 answers · asked by Ally 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-29 13:54:52 · 2 answers · asked by whome76 1 in Singles & Dating

lunch in school. She could get free medical and free lunches for her kid's in school. I asked her why did she not get the free lunches for her kid's ? She told me if i don't buy them to stay out of it. What the problem is she's always at my door when she need money. What do u think?

2007-01-29 13:53:52 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

a 14 yr old boy

2007-01-29 13:53:36 · 6 answers · asked by catrinawithac 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Especially when the guy in question seemed so keen on romance... and slowly but surely faded away, not returning phone calls and simply cowering away from me, no explanation at all? How can a man look at a girl in the eye and say he believes the relationship might work if we both put some effort into it and a week later simply dissapear from your life? Sex had not been denied, just not had yet, but the plan was there for the weekend... But not even then... so what gives? How do I get over what seemed to be "the one"?

2007-01-29 13:52:54 · 4 answers · asked by veevintage 2 in Singles & Dating

this girl im in love with is with another guy adn b4 we dated and she dumped me and started goin out wit this guy. she says she doesnt know who she loves more me or this guy. im not sure if i shuld give up or keep tryin and today she gto pissed off at me fro some reason she thought i took somethin of hers but i didnt and she wont talk to me and im not sure wut i did wut shuld i do first to find out y shes mad and i need some help as to wut i shuld do. i love her and all but i cant take watchin her with another guy. and she kissed me bhind her bfs bac and thats y im not sure wut i shuld do PLEASE HELP!!

2007-01-29 13:52:38 · 2 answers · asked by soccer playa 1 in Singles & Dating

He is miserable with her but he is scared if he leaves her he won't find anyone else...he is only 23. I want to help him but I don't know how to.

2007-01-29 13:51:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

It seems that women dont respond to my profile becausee i have listed that i am divorced, with three children. The children arent living with me but i see them on a regular basis. Is it decietful to leave that fact out and wait untill the relationship has progressed to tell them, willthat increase my chances of finding someone?

2007-01-29 13:51:50 · 18 answers · asked by manncat 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-29 13:51:09 · 4 answers · asked by zeek 1 in Singles & Dating

and no i don't mean no...wat if he/she was ur best frewnd...u don't want to hurt them...

2007-01-29 13:50:17 · 68 answers · asked by kandy 1 in Friends

2007-01-29 13:50:04 · 14 answers · asked by goddess 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My thanks to all of our troops that are serving in the United States Armed Forces and to all the ones who have served in the past. I know there was a great sacrifice made so we can have and enjoy our freedom.Does anyone else have the same feelings,speakup and tell us about it!

2007-01-29 13:49:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So i have this plan...for over the summer. My friends and i were talking about how much we missed our childhood. And i came up with this idea to play all these kids games over the summer at a local park.

-My plan is to play: Capture the flag - both teams are going to have different colored shirts on right..and instead of tagging people...we would use paint. Fill water balloons and such with paint....and that would show if you got tagged.

-We were also going to play 4-square, parachute, tug of war, a big game of basketball and dodge ball.-

--i haven't really told my friends about this yet....
I'm kind-of embarrassed and feel they might think it's stupid. If you were 18 and a freshman in college would you think this was a stupid idea? Do you think it's a stupid idea? Tell me what you think before i go and tell them....about it

Would you do this at 18? Should i get rid of any of my ideas? OPINIONS PLEASE!

2007-01-29 13:48:49 · 33 answers · asked by Jackie Knows Best 1 in Friends

2007-01-29 13:48:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating