there's this guy who i was "talking to" but after months of a lot of "stuff" that happened he ended up going out with my friend (we're not friends anymore) and while they were going out i didn't really talk to him anymore and then he contacted me two weeks ago(like seven months later) and told me he was sorry about the whole "that friend of mine and him" thing that we had gone through (they're broken up now) and now that he's back in my life all those feelings have come back...and i thought i had moved on... we've been talking and on saturday we went to the movies but he's leaving for the marines in a couple of months and i dont know how he feels about me. and i think im falling in love with him but i dont know if i should tell him before he leaves...any advice would help
2007-01-29 13:57:20 · 13 answers · asked by Lefty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Lefty-
It sounds like he is playing you. Since he is leaving, I would warn him not to let the door hit him on his way out. Good riddance. Find someone who will not mess around between you and a friend. Sounds like he went to you only after things didn't work out between him and your former friend. You are better off without him.
2007-01-29 14:05:11 · answer #1 · answered by Lady J 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I say don't tell him. Ask yourself this..He is only back in your life because things didn't work out with the other girl. In addition he is leaving so of course he wants to have some sort of something before he goes. I would just wait until he comes back and see what happens..
2007-01-29 22:06:20 · answer #2 · answered by DLo 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know the things that we regret the most are..." what if..."
Not knowing is going to be murder on you, believe me. Tell him exactly how you feel and sometimes you just have to put your heart out there to be loved or to be broken. These feelings may not be new but perhaps just stored away for this exact moment. It sounds to me like you two were meant to be....you know the old saying if you love something, let it go; If it comes back it was meant to be.
You have that scenario so go for broke and let your feelings be known. Chances are good that he has some feelings for you.
2007-01-29 22:04:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well just be care how you express yourself because you probably want to know how he is feeling about yo right now. you probably dont want to get to attached because he is going to the marine you will in up doind a long distance thing that doesnt really work out. for the first couple of month he is at boot camp he will barely get to talk to you. so just be care and keep in mond the future.
2007-01-29 22:04:39 · answer #4 · answered by OB the Wolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its not a good fact to think that after breaking up with his gf that badly a friend of yours he will come back to you as if nothing happened after all the time both of you didn't talk to one another. anyway going back to your question,.. In my opinion I think you must tell him what you feel before he might left you forever. It is better to be a stupid for sometime than to regret your wiseness for a lifetime....
2007-01-29 22:14:01 · answer #5 · answered by tara l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let things happen and tell him how you feel. Things can either go up or stay the same from there but it'll be good to get it off your chest.
2007-01-29 22:03:17 · answer #6 · answered by devilishangelgirl10 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do not go there - he is jsut looking for a connection here on earth while he goes into the military world
2007-01-29 22:04:45 · answer #7 · answered by Bob 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't want to keep thinking what could have happened, So my advice would be to tell him.
2007-01-29 22:03:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell Him
2007-01-29 22:02:31 · answer #9 · answered by Meghan H 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let things happen. Guys don't usually want to hear about your feelings.
2007-01-29 22:01:05 · answer #10 · answered by infinitenothing_com 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋