Family & Relationships - 29 January 2007

i saw this girl and was really hott and i wanted to talk to her but i just didnt have the nerve to, even tho i would never see her again i just wanted to say hi or something, im 13 and she was in my grade at a baskitball game.

2007-01-29 13:35:26 · 6 answers · asked by taylor_kent2010 2 in Singles & Dating

I wanna know how do I get a guy to think "man I wish I had her back" I know it sounds conceited, I just want my boyfriend to want me, like he used too...

2007-01-29 13:35:04 · 1 answers · asked by Iwannaknow 2 in Singles & Dating

my friend is bi,she thinks we should have sex,ive never did that.tell me what to do im confused.

2007-01-29 13:34:32 · 4 answers · asked by angie w 1 in Singles & Dating

I want another life. i'm very sick, i feel like throwing up half the time, i get dizzy spells and my chest tightness, my mum tells me that there's nothing i can do, she doesn't think it's anything, she calls me a complainer. She pushed me when i was trying to get in teh car, i want another family, then i have school problems. There's an ex friend of mine, she told me off a few weeks ago, she tried to say sorry, but after she would say sorry, she would say something else mean which would make me not forgive her. She got her mum in on it, her mum is trying to make me be friend with her, i thought it would all be over, she was supposed to move away during the summer, but i found out today that she isn't moving anymore, instead she's going to be going to my school, she's going out with my ex boyfriend, which makes me upset because i still have strong feelings for him, i don't know what to do now, she told me that she loves him more, but she never will. What do I do?

2007-01-29 13:34:16 · 3 answers · asked by Kayla B 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

There has only been one other time and that was for a few months before I met the man and after 4 years or so he died. I need to love someone I guess but who will return the same emotion. I just think maybe I shouldn't be like this.

2007-01-29 13:32:55 · 2 answers · asked by ENCHANTRESS ROSE 2 in Friends

i have been going out with by boy friend for 5months and every time we have achance to kiss every thing goes wrong like there wasnt time plase help me. and there isn' t a place that we could do it either

2007-01-29 13:32:19 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm in love with the perfect guy. He makes me laugh like nobody else does, he makes me smile, he treats me good, we share secrets.....Everything. But he's taken. I don't want to mess up his wonderful relationship with my friend. But I like the feeling I have. What do I do? ESPECIALLY because he asked me to go to a movie with him....alone. Oh, and he's 2 years older than me. I don't want to lose our friendship, but my feelings for him may become a problem. What to do??????? :|

2007-01-29 13:31:52 · 26 answers · asked by B 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Gift certificates are always a safe bet, but not too much fun. I don't want to go the "too mean" route about turning 40 as he's recently been through a lot of negative stuff (seriously ill parent, job issues, etc.).
Any guys out there have suggestions? Preferably of the legal and under $500 sort? lol

2007-01-29 13:31:41 · 7 answers · asked by zoni_tonya 3 in Family

2007-01-29 13:31:21 · 6 answers · asked by cubislowhigh 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok so this really cute guy I know might like me. He is only in one of my classes but I sometimes see him in 6th period. Whenever we are in the hallway alone together he seems to attempt to start a conversation but he seems to not be very good at it. Also the other day when I went to visit one of my friend that is in his 6th period class he stopped me and asked me what the password was. Everytime I tried to get past him he blocked me and eventually one of his friends pushed me into him. He is also basically the Brad Pitt of my class, if you know what I mean. So does he like me or is he just a typical guy?

P.S. Also once on a field trip to a play his friend (the same one who pushed me into him) was sitting next to him and I was sitting next to my friends. His friend asked if I wanted to trade seats with him but I passed bc i thought it might show my interest.

Oh and we're both 14.

2007-01-29 13:30:32 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i just want to know what a good present for V-Day would be for my boyfriend we have been together for about 2 months so i need to know what to get for a new relationship.

2007-01-29 13:28:54 · 22 answers · asked by Haitian Chick 1 in Singles & Dating

How would you feel about that? He isn't being cheap, he just simply thinks that the diamond deal is superficial and that a simple reflection of your union and love is more appropriate. How would you feel about it?

2007-01-29 13:28:39 · 25 answers · asked by fslcaptain737 4 in Singles & Dating

My parents have been at each other for as long as I can remember. My father verbally abuses my mother, although he no longer does so physically. My mother used to fight back, but now, she has taken to blaming me. I've always thought my father a victim of abuse by my grandfather and my mother a victim of my father.

I always tried to be a "good kid" to now worry my parents: no dating, no drugs, no partying, no sex, etc. But one thing that has been difficult for me is to not talk back. I just find it so unfair that I always have to keep my mouth shut. It doesn't matter that I hold my tongue most of the time. It just takes one time that I rebel for my parents to make me feel like the worst kid in the world. And the fact is, I'm no longer a kid. I'm an adult. My father always says I have an attitude problem and that I'm not "mature" or "wise".

Am I being rebellious? Do I need to seek help about my attitude? What can I do to make things better?

2007-01-29 13:28:19 · 25 answers · asked by Books and Cleverness 1 in Family

I rubbed by butt against his desk to mark it, I bugged his phone, and I had him arrested for a crime that took place two states away although he was home (I know he was home because I planted video cameras in his home while he was away.)

10 points to the most original and wittiest answer.

2007-01-29 13:28:06 · 6 answers · asked by Laughing Libra 6 in Singles & Dating

What are some things that girls may do absent mindedly that just really ticks a guy off?

2007-01-29 13:27:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the girl asks the guy out? i like this guy i wanna ask him out on valentines day, im not sure if he likes me. hes way more popular then me so i wouldnt think someone like him would like me but he acts like it. dont say im too young to think about this stuff, but iv never asked out a guy b4, all my bf asked me out.
what should i do????

2007-01-29 13:27:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

New boyfriend, not sure if im aloud to have one? im 15 1/2 he just turned 17 last month so theres not that much age difference
we like each other alot. We have been dating a week and my parents hang around the school alot so im pretty sure they will find out soon being maybe tonight ahhhh. I want to tell them but im to scared im not sure if they will let me have a boyfriend. They kinda know the guy they know who he is and i think they would think he is the best guy in the school(small school 30 kids in highschool). So what do i do

2007-01-29 13:27:45 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I noticed that many women who are seek black man do so because they have this perception that they are getting a certain "type" of guy. They assume that all black men eat friend chicken, love rap music, play basket ball, etc.... I'm a black male and I have been rejected by man women based on the fact that they say I lack "blackness". I'm not into hip hop but I love to have fun. Does that count for anything?

2007-01-29 13:27:32 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My sister, a sophemore in High school, has been getting really bad grades. At home she does what my parents tell here, clean her room, etc. (ordinary chores) She does however act strange sometimes, specially with me, she gets mad for no reason. I got a her password from her myspace account and found out many bad things she does at school explaning her bad grades, fighting for guys and other stuff. My parents have done so many things to try to help her get back on track for school so she has a future but she still gets the low grades and does stuff at school. They ask her what they can do to help her yet she does not take advantage of it.I try to help my sister but its no use. Im currently in college and dont spend much time with her, just on the weekends. I have brought her to some of my engineering classes so she gets an idea of how college is and how important it is for her future. Still she does stuff behind our backs at school and still failing classes. What can we do to help her ?

2007-01-29 13:27:07 · 3 answers · asked by spb 2 in Family

Ok This girl I like ALOT, Im not sure if she likes me. I flirt with her a lot. she puts her hand on my chest and sholder when i talk to her somtimes, and I make her laugh . Does she like me. PLZ HELP!!

2007-01-29 13:26:59 · 3 answers · asked by Calvin K. 1 in Singles & Dating

well heres the story

i have been talkin to this guy i met through my best friend (she goes to school wit him) and we used to talk all the time on im and the phone and every thing but now he wont even talk to me at all he will be signed in to im and ill say hi but he wont say anything or return my emails or anything and i have no clue why i really like him alot and he wont even talk to me i dont think i did anything to make him mad at me and every time i send him something asking why he wont talk to me he just replys (if he does anyway) i dont no
can anyone give me a reason why he wont talk to me i really dont no and it is gettin on my nerves alot oh and did i mention i really like him to
please some one give me something to go on

thanks

lifelessgirl23

:*(

2007-01-29 13:26:49 · 4 answers · asked by skeletalgrlforeverwaiting 3 in Singles & Dating

I would like to know if in a family of conniving, plotting, and secrets (like the family in "the lion in winter" by, james goldman) could possibly also posses unconditional love for each other?
thanx.

2007-01-29 13:26:37 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my ex and I agreed to split the costs of 2 operations our kids needed that are elective surgery (not covered under ins) prior to getting divorced.

We have split custody of 2 kids.

Well about a year ago, the child living with her went in for the surgery and of course I was asked to pay my share. No problem.

Now, the child that lives with me is due for his surgery and she is now refusing to pay her share, claiming we never agreed to this and our divorce decree doesn't state such (well of course it doesn't, it was already agreed to). It just states general health care obligations.

I have her agreement of splitting the costs in an old email she sent....will that hold up as proof if this needs to go to arbitration...which seems like it is.

2007-01-29 13:26:30 · 6 answers · asked by Tyrone S 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am about 5'5", long, straight, light brown hair about midway down my back. I have ice blue eyes with pale skin (hint of pink) with a lot of freckles. I have a round/oval shaped face with straight white teeth and a big smile. I have a moderate shape with muscular legs. I love to be outside and I don't mind getting dirty. What do you think?

2007-01-29 13:26:25 · 26 answers · asked by sar s 1 in Singles & Dating

we had a baby and our sex life isn't all that...i need to spice things up...do you have any ideas???

2007-01-29 13:26:17 · 11 answers · asked by shanana032002 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i'm 14 and i had been going out w/ him for 6 months. we were really into each other. but, today, he broke up with me, he said he liked someone else. we use to talk for hours on end. he use to tell me how wonderful i was and how he loved me. but then, it's like, POOF!!!!! and he dumps me. i'm really sad, i've had to hold back tears. but worse part is...he broke up w/ me over e-mail. i don't want to diss him, he's too nice for me to do that, but how can i get over him? he was my first boyfriend and maybe it could be easier if he hadn't have been, but he was. if you can chomprehend any of this please tell how i can get over him and move on. it's so hard.

thanks.

2007-01-29 13:25:29 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-29 13:25:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-29 13:24:37 · 12 answers · asked by Alberto B 1 in Singles & Dating

i went to the mall with my friends today and they stole stuff like over 2000 dollers worth of stuff from all different stores and they took secerity tags of of stuff what should i do should i still go to the mall with them or no could i still get in trouble for being with them what should i do when it happens again they dont stop when i say no how can i stop them i can not believe they did this i would never

p.s. we are 13

p.s.s anyyyyyyyy sugustions would be great

2007-01-29 13:23:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'm 20 and as I was about to move out my dad left to live with his girlfriend. My mother asked me not to move out yet and to stay with her until she felt better. It's 8 months later and my mother is unhappy every day, wants to be unhappy and gets mad that I'm not wallowing with her. On top of that, she told me I can't have contact with my dad (if I do I'm betraying her and I'm not loyal), but still wants to use me as a go-between bargaining chip. My dad seems to genuinely want what's best for me, but has lied in past and has betrayed my trust. I don't want either to be hurt or mad, and I don't want to burn bridges. Nor do I want to be manipulated. I just want to be fair and nonjudgemental. I think it's time I move out, but how do I do so without hurting my mother, and how do I keep in contact with both without ending up without any parent at all? And how do I deal with unreasonable adults who are acting like children.

2007-01-29 13:23:29 · 9 answers · asked by Annaonymous 1 in Marriage & Divorce