If you knew that your boyfriend/girlfriend had a low sex drive when you were dating them but you was truly in love with that person would u still marry him/her.Knowing men the answer will probably be no...I dont think any relationship can last with 2 different sex drives..agree or disagree
2007-01-29 13:58:25 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if you are in love you should marry him-- let him know there's other ways of pleasing your drive...make sure he knows that
2007-01-29 14:05:26 · answer #1 · answered by gabby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what you call a low sex drive but another way to look at this situation is to consider that there are allot of reasons that contribute to a low sex drive and they are fixable. It may not be that having a low sex drive is "just the way you are". Wouldn't you want a greater sex drive if it were possible? For example, some of the reasons that contribute to a low sex drive are: parents fed so much negative talk about sex when you were growing up. Fear of not being able to perform up to mates expectations. Had been molested. Fear of giving in to the opposite sex. Still haven't fully detached from mom and/or dad. Low self-esteem . A good counselor can help you determine if there are psychological reasons for the low sex drive and show you how to get past those issues. Hope this helps. :)
2007-01-29 14:25:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, that's a hard one to anwser. How old are the two of you? Maybe the sex drive is low cuz they have to much going on in life or maybe the sex isn't that great but still loves the person. Maybe they need to have it more spicey in the bedroom or esle where. For some women the sex drive doesn't come until the 30's. For the guys it is in the teens and then it drops later in life. I would try to see if you can talk about it and try to get some help!
2007-01-29 14:12:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very hard and really causes a lot of problems. Some may say it's just sex, but in the end it ends up being such a hassle. I was the one with the low sex drive and my ex and I would constantly fight about it. I think it makes it a lot easier if you both have similar sex drives, but if you are both considerate and work at it, it could possibly work out.
2007-01-29 14:47:29 · answer #4 · answered by cinnamon1083 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sexual campatibility is an important part of a relationship, for sure. I would stay with someone with a low sex drive if we had a strong healthy relationship overall. But, it would not be without complication at times. There is a lot to compromise on in relationships so this aspect could very well be one of them. Probably both partners would need to meet in the middle on that one.
2007-01-29 14:12:58 · answer #5 · answered by JustTalking 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will never, ever, ever, last with 2 different sex drives!!! You may try and compromise but in the end, forget it. People will tell you that love will take the place of sex.... yeah, tell that to the one that has the higher sex drive!! Been there, seen that... either make yourself change (impossible) or leave on good terms!! GOOD LUCK!!
2007-01-29 14:22:26 · answer #6 · answered by Ang 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If sex is that important, then no but you marry for love. So who knows because there is no real romance out there anymore. Don't get married if the whole sex thing is the issue because if you can't work it out before you get married then why head straight for a divorce? Save your money and put it towards some sex therapy.
2007-01-29 14:17:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dis-agree...there is a lot more you can do besides having sex all the time....If you truly love each other you will find those different things that make you both happy...sometimes just a breakfast in bed, or a little cologne, or getting a small gift and surprising them. There are soooo many different things you can do and still be so very,very happy...
2007-01-29 14:08:50 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Minnie Mouse♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am convinced that my husband is a sex addict...since it seems to be on his mind 24/7.....and according to him I have a low sex drive ....pretty much because I do not have it on my mind 24/7 lol. Did our marriage last?....well next June we will have 29 years in. So I guess I would have to disagree.
2007-01-29 14:06:57 · answer #9 · answered by catywhumpass 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly respected and loved your partner you could.
I think it would be easier if the man had the low sex drive otherwise there would be alot of fights
2007-01-29 14:05:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-28 04:20:06 · answer #11 · answered by carol 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋