2007-01-29 13:56:57 · 15 answers · asked by Raff 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hmmm.. sounds like you like more than one piece of pie. Seriously, it sounds to me you are not ready to make any commitment with either of the two girls... Til you know for sure who you like and want in your life, Just keep it casual and when you are ready to choose do so without hurting both of them, in the mean time either you play honest with both or you stay away from both.
2007-01-29 14:06:12 · answer #1 · answered by Mari-Mari 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you have to figure out what you like most about each girl...you need to get a pros and cons list and check out which one is more compatible for you...another thing you have to keep in mind is did you already try to talk with one of the girls? If your answer is yes, than you need to check and see how the both girls feel about dating or talking to one of their friends…I mean of course don’t bring it up as you…but more like talk about the subject and see what they have to say. The reason why I say this is because some friends have a code of conduct and if one dates or like one male than the other friend should not try to go after him if things did not work out...do you understand where I am coming from?
2007-01-29 14:07:30 · answer #2 · answered by chanel_mitchell06 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
might sound sexist but dont concente your efforts in only one, the fact of the matter is women have intrest level detectors if you dont look intrested then you have a better chance.
why? women get hit on more times a day than you can imagine, so if instead of saying a compliment you tell her she has a messy hair and you joke about how yours looks better and make a flowing hair gesture with your head she might get the idea that at least your not trying to hit on her and might give you a chance.
PREDICTABLE IS BORING.
hit on both at the same time without being obvius, not because your a player but because if you concentrate all your energies on 1 girl she WILL notice and pitty you and find you predictable and read again PREDICTABLE IS BORING.
2007-01-29 14:09:16 · answer #3 · answered by Daniel S 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that you are a cheater, and a two timer. The best advice I could give you, and it is the best for the three of you's, is that you stay away from them. That way you won't have girl trouble and you don't have to worry about choosing which one.
2007-01-29 14:06:35 · answer #4 · answered by greenary 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, you don't get both! Sounds like you might need to grow up a little bit first....just be friends witht hem both -if you can't do that, do the decent thing and keep away!
2007-01-29 14:00:46 · answer #5 · answered by rose_merrick 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Decide who you have stronger feelings for, and if you can't decide, write out a list for both on both their good and bad qualities, and if that doesn't fullfill you, spend a little bit of time with each of them and decide who you have stronger feelings for that way.
2007-01-29 14:12:11 · answer #6 · answered by Honey B 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Spend time together just hanging out, as you get to know them better (and they get to know you) it will be easier to make a decision.
2007-01-29 14:03:11 · answer #7 · answered by coppersmith 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you play your cards right you can have both of them. You need to hang out with both of them at all times and win their trust and before you know it they will be fighting over your freindship and your love.
2007-01-29 14:05:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
go out with both girls at the same time. who knows,you might get a great story out of it. good luck keep us all informed
2007-01-29 14:03:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
in love...its usually one or the other... u probably mite not like that but thats how it is... pick one that intrests u... one that u can get along with.... the one that u'll be actually talking to... any one thast ur "perfect" one
^hope i helped
2007-01-29 14:03:12 · answer #10 · answered by bijal 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋