Seen answers guys give to certain questions.....been dumped more than once.....insecurity rising....
2007-01-29 14:39:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes there is...Now finding that guy takes some work...
2007-01-29 15:08:49 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
For a long time I thought there wasn't - I was ready to give up on the whole dating thing. Then it hit me - there ARE men out there that want more than sex and the reason why I was even asking the question (and you too) is that I was looking in all the WRONG places. If you feel that you are coming across too many undesireable guys, then you are looking in the wrong place. Think about it like this - if you walk into a store wanting a nice dress and you keep seeing dresses you don't like or don't fit or are not your style, guess what? You're in the wrong store!!
Now I can't tell you where to find the right guy. You have to find out first - and this is important - what YOU want. Not what your friends want you to want, not what movies and TV tell you what to want, not what pop stars tell you to want, but what you really want in a guy. It is also important to understand that a lot of people know what they DON'T want, but don't know what they ACTUALLY want. You have to figure that out too. That may take a little time, but well worth the soul searching. Once you realise what you want, what you REALLY want out of a guy, then you will know where to find that guy, and many more like him.
I promise you, I went through the same thing and once I figured out what I really wanted in a guy, I started meeting wonderful guys LEFT and RIGHT.
I hope this helps - good luck to you!!
2007-01-29 15:14:49 · answer #2 · answered by lanibear55 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! It's may be hard to find but if you really want to find Love than it is worth looking.
You need to find a guy that you are actually compatible with. Someone you have common intersts in, and don't kiss him until it feels right, don't just kiss because you think that's what is suppose to happen next.
I waited a month and a half before a kissed my boyfriend because i wans't sure of his intentions. We've been dating 6 months now and he always reminds me of how amazing our first kiss was! (because I made him wait... it was better).
Good Luck!
2007-01-29 14:46:13 · answer #3 · answered by Kat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is. they're hard to find, but they're hiding in plain sight. most of them have very few friends. mostly because they're more sensitive, and are shunned from most of the high-school male population because of expressing their feelings.
so look for the dude sitting alone.
because i garentee you he won't ever think of hurting you.
just don't hurt them because they're probably just barely pulling through already, and using them might throw them over the edge. (AKA suicidal thoughts, and maybe as far as suicide)
so PLEASE be nice, don't hurt the lonely person.
hope you find a great guy, and have a blast.
2007-01-29 15:05:22 · answer #4 · answered by Stargazer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex is good but i always look for alot more than just sex in a relationship cause sex its everything. i believe that communication is a real big part before everything else
2007-01-29 14:46:21 · answer #5 · answered by daniel a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no and if you find one hang on to him and dont let him ever go and if anouther gurl steps in the way and tries to brake you two up then brake her face
KAYTIE=)
2007-01-29 14:45:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Suprisingly yes, you just have to find that guy
2007-01-29 14:49:15 · answer #7 · answered by Addie J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YUP! its hard to find them cus when girls find them they dont let them go. my boyfriend is that type of guy.
2007-01-29 14:47:22 · answer #8 · answered by warlord_chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope
2007-01-29 14:44:51 · answer #9 · answered by cierra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋