one night me and my guy friend were talking about sex and how i was a virgin. he was not a virgin but he was talking about how so many guys respect that i haven't given it up yet. he even said "wait for the one you really like..and it's not going to be me." i knew it was going to be him though,and the next night it just happened naturally and it was amazing. is this bad by any means that he said that stuff the night before? was he just insecure thinking it wasn't going to be him?
2007-01-29 14:37:11 · 26 answers · asked by sally m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He knew you were prime fo rthe taking....you feel hook, line and sinker.
2007-01-29 14:40:38 · answer #1 · answered by Greed...Is Good 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Another tough question.
It sounds to me like it was a move to gain your confidence and manipulate you into allowing it to happen. It is a good thing that you felt the way you did about it. He may really care about you and in which case it was truly love. You know him better than any of us here. Only time will be able to tell. At this point, enjoy the moment and hope for the best.
Good luck!
2007-01-29 22:56:11 · answer #2 · answered by MYSTICHROME 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sadly you've fallen victim to one of the oldest tricks in the Dating Game book. Guy denies his interest, you try harder and guy gets what he wanted all along. Can't go back to being a virgin but please don't take a one way trip down lover's lane to be another hoochie looking for love in all the wrong places.
2007-01-29 22:47:44 · answer #3 · answered by ralegas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is something you felt in your heart that you are ready for, with no regrets, how could that be considered bad? Just be very careful, men will say whatever it takes to get you into bed, and if it is your choice to sleep with them, without feeling any regrets for the intimate moment, then you have done the right thing for yourself.
2007-01-29 22:47:42 · answer #4 · answered by tiger 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that answer can only come from his action. if he was playing you, then you will know soon but if he is a true man and what he said he really beleived, then what happen could be a good thing. OR maybe it happen because it was what you wanted. look deep inside and see if it was you or he who made it happen before your next step, that could save you a lot of pain.
2007-01-29 22:52:52 · answer #5 · answered by timtowall 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he was trying to sound like he wasn't counting on being the one, but it was a disguise to hide his real feelings. he wanted to be the first one and he was. at least it's someone who already had a good connection with. it's not wrong that he said that. he could have said it for alot of reasons: nervous, excited, happy-etc. he just didn't know how to react, because he felt that you wanted him to be the one, and he felt the same way. it was probably just a weird moment for him.
2007-01-29 22:48:06 · answer #6 · answered by gracy808 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You knew it was going to be him. He knew it too. He played you like a fiddle.
Is there anything wrong with it? It doesn't sound to me like you have any regrets about what happened. I'd say that's as good an answer as anyone else could give you.
2007-01-29 22:43:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You just said it was amazing. Why would you ask if it's bad? No you're not a slut or a whore. I think that's what you're really asking. You're a normal girl who lost her virginity.
2007-01-29 22:44:11 · answer #8 · answered by Alan K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say ask him. If you guyz can talk about sex in the first place you should be confertable enough with him to ask him. Maybe he wanted to but wasnt secure enough to tell you. And it must have been what you wanted to.
2007-01-29 22:43:23 · answer #9 · answered by Chusa_Loca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you played right into his hand. It's not bad if that's what you wanted, just hope you don't end up getting hurt
2007-01-29 22:41:06 · answer #10 · answered by Just Me 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no it was not bad,he probably figured you weren't thinking of him.lol
the question is does he still respect you?his comment was guys would respect that" you must have been ready or you wouldn't have gone that far and you obviously have alot of trust in him.
but i do hope it was safe sex.lol
2007-01-29 22:45:15 · answer #11 · answered by smiley 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋