i need something...maybe medicine...or someone who is just as lonely as me and will talk to me about anything.

Question

*sighs*....ok im reaaaalllly depressed i think. but then again im not sure. i hate my father...he a total a**hole. my mom is so busy trying to get a job she has no time to talk to me. and when she does have time she ignores me and only says bad things to me. i find myself crying over the stupidist things. i dont have very many friends that talk to me anymore because i am getting homeschooled right now. my brother hates me i think. the only time he acts nice to me is when im playing video games with him and i think that is pretty damn shallow if you ask me. im not happy with myself. i spend hours trying to figure out what is wrong with me and then i end up just even more upset. im worried about my mom's situation with our house because we owe money and we almost got it taken away about a couple of weeks ago. i dont want to go to a counselor about my problems because the only one my mom will let me see is the one she goes to and i absolutely HATE her because she is sooo fake. please help

Answer 1

so u need friends right.. let me be one of your frined.. right.. dont feel lonely.. even the word lonely ... is not a single letter.. its with set of alphabets.. we are humans.. v can do any thing of our wish.. dont feel depressed.. if u can share to me your feelings.. i wil try to help u out.. better mail me to [e-mail] (if u wish).. feel confident.. let me know about you.. wat u are doing.. your family.. your sorroundings.. etc.. cheers.. be happy.. after we are humans.. we have a short life.. but v must make it long.. its simple.. laugh.. u are smiling right..

Answer 2

I am sorry to hear that u feel this way. U really need to talk to someone, becuz u sound as if ur on the verge of a nervous breakdown. I don't think that there is anything wrong with u just that right now u r not happy with ur life. It is not going to change if u just sit around and continue to be depressed. U have to learn to love urself and feel good about urself before anyone else will. Take some time and just do things for urself. When u were born, were u born with friends? No! So what if u don't have any or that many, start opening up to people. Just like u opened up on answers. Lift ur head high, u do have a lot to be thankful. For instance, u woke up to see another day. What about those that weren't fortunate enough to see their next day? When u think ur situation is bad there is always others that r worst than u r. Make the best of ur life and start making changes, this is 2007 which means this is ur year.

Answer 3

Don't spend so much time trying to figure out what is wrong with you. Try to spend sometime thinking about what is right with you because I know that there are probably a lot of good things about you.

What are your dreams and hopes? What are somethings that you enjoy? What kind of music do you like?

Try to focus a little on the beautiful things in life because life does have some wonderful things to offer if you just take the time to notice and enjoy them.

If you have a good friend, try to spend some time with them talking or just having fun.

The next time you try to talk to your mother, ask her how is she doing and if there is anything you can do to help out around the house. If she is worried about losing her home and finding a job, she is probably under a lot of stress. Try to let her know that you are there for her, and maybe this will improve your relationship with you mom.

Whatever you do, try not to get too depressed, and try to enjoy the goods things in your life so that the bad things will not overwhelm you.

Answer 4

I don't think you need medicine. What you need is a good friend you can talk to. The Internet is a good place to find them, but please be careful. People aren't always what they claim to be.

Sometimes, when a girl is in your shoes, a boy approaches her, says just the right things, and ends up getting her pregnant. Don't add to your problems, by ending up as a single mother. Get your life straightened out first. Then get married. Then have the baby.

If you would like to talk to someone on the phone, call the National Runaway Switchboard, at 1-800-RUNAWAY. That's 1-800-786-2929.

Answer 5

I'm really sorry you are so sad. It sound like you have a lot of things going on in your life working against you. Can I make a suggestion? Instead of spending hours trying to figure out what's wrong with you, think OUTSIDE of you to others. If we go inward we just get more and more tangled up in a downward spiral of self doubt and what ifs and rarely figure it all out anyway. Jesus loves you unconditionally, He will help you love others and become the strong person you want to be. I'm praying for you to have faith as small as a mustard seed....

Answer 6

I'm sorry....Life is so depressing sometimes. Please understand that we all feel alone, even when we are not. We all feel no one cares when deep down people do. It's a shame that "real life" takes over in adults sometimes, and we forget those we should be taking care of the most. parents make mistakes. your mom is focusing on job hunting becaure without money, you have no food/home etc. She hasn't forgetten about you. She cares enough to home school right? Please, take care of yourself. Those teenage years are tough, if you get through them you can make it through anything. Escape: write, draw, walk, help. Find somewhere or someone you can focus your thoughts on and maybe things will look brighter. There are plenty of places to volunteer for, help others it has always helped me.

take care of yourself, things will look better soon.

Answer 7

You really need someone to talk to. Email me if you want, but how about a school counselor? A teacher? And how old are you? you sound very depressed and you need to get some counseling soon. If nothing else, see if there is a social service office near you. They have couselors who are trained to talk with you and help you. Don't wait too long.

Answer 8

How old are you and why are you being home-schooled? If it isn't for behavior problems, why don't you sit down with both parents and tell them you want to go to a public school so you can learn to develop friendships and relationships. If they don't listen, I would like for you to go see a minister in your neighborhood or community and talk to him about how sad you feel about your life. It will help, I promise.

Answer 9

the internet is a start, read a book, take a walk, join a club, volunteer. Life's too short to be depressed!

Answer 10

You sound so young to have all these problems, these are supposed to be the best years of your life, although I know sometimes it doesnt seem like it, If you need someone to talk to you can email me at [e-mail].