even if the guy is not a virgin, but the girl is?
2007-01-29 14:46:37 · 16 answers · asked by sally m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, it should & it will. Don't push it. & it doesn't matter who's the virgin or not.
2007-01-29 14:48:53 · answer #1 · answered by texas tornado 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and no. You do have to do some serious thinking about a few things before you take the plunge....You need to decide how you feel about one another, birthcontrol and protection from STD's is VERY important and needs serious attention, Where, and when is also important espeically if it is a first time for one or both people involved.
Your first time is supposed to be very special and should be with someone you really love...don't be afraid to wait until you are married. You only get to do the first time once.
2007-01-29 22:54:53 · answer #2 · answered by Barbiq 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is a way to show how much you care about the person you are with. If either one of you isn't ready, then it wont be enjoyable. And trust me, you want your first time to be as comfortable as possible. Sex should happen naturally because there shouldn't be any pressure to be pushed into it. If the person you are with really cares about you, they will wait as long as it takes until you are comfortable.
If they don't, then they are not worth your time. Don't push yourself to do something that you're not ready for. You will regret it.
2007-01-29 22:52:01 · answer #3 · answered by Charleen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex iz a very natural thing, so yes, sex should happen naturally. Just be careful and dont do it too often with too many partners, you can easily catch something even easier get a bad reputation. Be careful and have fun
2007-01-29 22:55:49 · answer #4 · answered by Mr.XXX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex should happen naturally after marriage...
That's what God says.
You think I don't want to have sex?
Yeah well... I do. I'm in my early 20s and I am a virgin and VERY PROUD of that.
I have a boyfriend of almost a year that I am completely in love with. We talk about marriage and how I want to wait till our wedding day to have sex. He truly does love me... he respects me. That's when you KNOW you have a great guy. That's when you KNOW he's in love with you... when he has absolutely no problem in waiting. Actions speak louder than words...
2007-01-29 22:49:13 · answer #5 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
there should always be comunication about it .. if you havent talked about it before then you probably shouldn't do it .. a girl could end up getting caught up in the moment then regretting it later .. so talk to her about it first and see how she feels then when the time is right she'll let you know
2007-01-29 22:52:18 · answer #6 · answered by valerieeeann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Sally
Sex is natural honey, its only not natural if you're using a vibrator or another foreign object.
Have fun ;)
2007-01-29 22:49:39 · answer #7 · answered by Genesis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if she is sure she is ready... and yes, let it happen naturally.
2007-01-29 22:50:07 · answer #8 · answered by David L 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, after you get married. Not until.
2007-01-29 22:51:05 · answer #9 · answered by Seldom Seen 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
only if you have the man tested for ual disease first. if not, it could be a disaster for the virgin.
2007-01-29 22:54:13 · answer #10 · answered by angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋