2007-01-29 14:51:21 · 21 answers · asked by sally m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Depends on the girl.
Either way works for me.
Even though you're more likely to get it when it just happens.
Also, it's more romantic when it just happens
2007-01-29 14:55:52 · answer #1 · answered by Addie J 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If a guy ask for sex flat out....it means he just wants sex! having sex with a guy should come naturally especially if its someone who really love or cares. I wouldn't be with someone who just wants sex and ask for it bluntly. I'd rather be with someone who I love and cares to come naturally with sex from first based to the last!
2007-01-29 22:57:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just let it happen naturally. if someone asks for sex flat out then someone ends up being hurt emotionally later
2007-01-29 22:59:05 · answer #3 · answered by Dont get Infected 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends
2007-01-29 22:53:39 · answer #4 · answered by zen522 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It should happen naturally, if both parties want it there's no need to ask.
2007-01-29 22:54:47 · answer #5 · answered by Just Me 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont ask, DO.
no raping please start with a kiss and continue she will let you know with body language or by telling you if she;s ready or not. if you kiss and try to move your hand from her back to her butt and she stops you then definetly not going to happen, dont apologize it is only expected of a man to want sex, simply let her know you are intrested in sex and of it's not gonna happen now that your willing to wait if she is, but to tell you NOW if she is intrested in sex in the future so no one gets hurt or missled
2007-01-29 23:01:11 · answer #6 · answered by Daniel S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi again Sally,
Dont be embarrassed this happened to me too.
Anyways to the sex issue, it appears you're curious about sex. Download this song S.E.X. by Lyfe Jennings, listen to it then consider losing your virginity.
My point is sweetie, if your hesitant, dont have sex with him, its simple, use your hand, and its natural.
2007-01-29 22:55:15 · answer #7 · answered by Genesis 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
umm..it should def. happen nat. i think it is rude and disrespectful of a guy just to flat out ask you..he should make it the best thing between ya'll
2007-01-29 22:57:42 · answer #8 · answered by mandapanda 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be blunt be real so not one feelings will get hurt in the end....i mean if that is all he wants doesnt he want the girl to be on the same page with her...i mean there is nothing wrong with friends and benifits but it is something wrong when a girl is trying to build a serious relationship not knowing that ole boy doesn't want that
2007-01-29 22:54:44 · answer #9 · answered by chanel_mitchell06 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi,
if you want to be known as a jerk then go for it. if you plain to date someone then let it happen naturally.
2007-01-29 22:58:18 · answer #10 · answered by Sonya K 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋