Family & Relationships - 28 January 2007

recently i posted a question about what i should do about my ex- husband cheating on me? Well i just found out last week that his girlfriend is only 19 years old not 20 . she won't even be 20 until next year sick isn't it? that means she was in first grade when my first daughter was born we have to children together and i don't want my children to have any thing to do with this girl is that normal? my ex is 31 years old and it is creepy to know that he is dating a child. they have been toghether for two months now. I accidentally found he has a my space account and she is in his profile they started dating her on november 1 and on november 19 he told her that he loved her, how can he even know what love is when he was in a relationship for the last 10 years with me there is no way possible that he loves her. when i found out that he told her that he loved her i had a hard time to dealing with it . Is there any one out there that can give me some advice?

2007-01-28 07:38:47 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Do guys prefer a girl that is really pretty but reserved. For example, a drop dead gorgeous girl, but not very friendly. You see her ditting ans she doesn't smile, just sits there very dignified letting you bask in her beauty (almost intimidating). Or a not as pretty girl with a wonderful easy-going personality and really easy to talk to.She's not ugly, but she not exactly a beauty oueen either. Just kinda average. She's really spunky, fun,etc........ Now I'm not saying that one girl is better than the other, I would just like to know who you would go to at a first glance.

2007-01-28 07:37:12 · 11 answers · asked by Doc 2 in Singles & Dating

We've been dating for about 3 months now and in the beginning of our relationship he used to put his hand on my thigh and lightly rub it and now he doesn't anymore. Every day we just hold hands instead but I would love for him to do that again occasionally. I think it would be akward to tell him that though because we never really talk about the things we do, such as that.
Any advice?

Best answer 10 pts!

2007-01-28 07:35:39 · 5 answers · asked by sparkzxx 4 in Singles & Dating

My marriage is going well, so far. I was wondering when and if the 'high' of being married goes down a little bit.
Is it possible to keep the fun of the early months of marriage for many years or does it always fade? What can you do to keep the spark alive?
My hubby and I communicate well, we are close and laugh with each other, give each other affection, show kindness, respect each other's opinion (even if it differs) and lots of little surprises (I love doing that).
But the early mystery, excitement and thrill has faded a little, for both of us, when we think back to our honeymoon and compare it. And this, within a year!
How does it go after few more years? Does it get boring? Who gets bored faster, the man or the woman? Can it still maintain itself over time? Or is that expecting too much?

2007-01-28 07:34:26 · 9 answers · asked by RealChic 3 in Marriage & Divorce

now I dont know what to do. ? My moms still making me babysit tonight..

I stopped crying im still really sad but what do i say when people come up to me and are like "im so sorry.."

What do I wear to her funeral. ? (im 12...)

How the heck do i deal with this?

What about at school. ?

2007-01-28 07:33:58 · 34 answers · asked by Sarah 2 in Family

2007-01-28 07:33:51 · 51 answers · asked by bob 2 in Singles & Dating

whats a period like when a girl does it miky wont tell me my frend so please answer

2007-01-28 07:32:57 · 22 answers · asked by killingthought 1 in Singles & Dating

There's this guy i really like he is 36 i'm 23 i really like him i have told him that but he does not have the time for a relationship. What am i supposed to do? I just met this guy over the internet. I really like him alot. Tho it seems strange becauase he is so much oler then i. Why do i like him? Why can't i control that?

2007-01-28 07:32:45 · 6 answers · asked by angels192002 2 in Singles & Dating

cuuz this guy at my school made fun of my art work..i asked him out he said he wanted to get to know me more..sooo yeahh..hes toaddally cutee

2007-01-28 07:31:57 · 5 answers · asked by Kylie 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my ex boyfriend were together for almost two months...he was pretty serious with his ex (together 4 1 1/2 years). We've been apart for almost 3 weeks. During the second week of us being apart, we quit talking altogether. But this previous week, I made small talk for a couple of minutes and now he's acting like we're together again. We held hands at lunch, and some other little things that were just between us when we were together. But he hasn't asked me back out....Is he trying to be close without commitment...or why do you think he's acting like this?

2007-01-28 07:31:24 · 1 answers · asked by Lucky Lady 2 in Singles & Dating

hi my gf finished with me 2 weeks ago after 6 weeks only cos of an argument at work, i sent her flowers the next day to say sorry. since then she wont get back wth me, wen ever i ask her she says she dont know...so yesterday she told me that she likes me and still fancies me and has feelings for me but wants to be friends. is there a change of me getting back with her i like her tooo much. i asked her today saying "hun why wont you get back with me ? is it cos u found another guy, or is it cos of all the arguments or is it cos u dont like or fancy me anymore??? or is it cos u used me as a rebound after ur long relationship from ur ex ?" she replied saying

"no u wasnt the rebound at all, ive told u dat 4 now i dont feel i can give u anyfin more than friends, n i dnt know why it is just how i feel"

what do i do ? what does the text mean ?? do u fink i have a chance and what you reckon i should reply to that text ?

2007-01-28 07:30:47 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay my parents recently separated, mom met the landlord at work and they started talking and she found out he had an apartment open. So after a few weeks of knowing him, she started to trust him enough to move into one of his apartments.(It's one big house with three apartments) He's really friendly and nice to us, and he helped us move in and fix up the apartment. He and my mom talk a lot and he invited us to breakfast this morning at his mother's house. We went and when I told my boyfriend he got mad at me. He says the guy's a "child molester"? Does he have a right to be mad at me?? What should I tell him?

2007-01-28 07:29:23 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-28 07:29:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

As in, decide they want a day, then change it to a different month (like 8 months later) and back and forth constantly? :( :-s

2007-01-28 07:29:10 · 6 answers · asked by samurai-wannabe 2 in Weddings

I like this boy in my grade. We are in 6th grade. He likes me because he looks at me and smiles. I really like him and my aunt knows him and his mom because his mom works with my aunt. My aunt even says that he is cute. WHat should I do. Please help me!!

2007-01-28 07:28:28 · 6 answers · asked by beccabo22 1 in Singles & Dating

I like a boy, and he moved away. After he mover away, I have greater feelings for him and i think hes straight, but i gave him a bj three times and at first he denied me and i got through him and when i was doin my thing, he was like ignoring me, i know where he lives and its been 2 years, so what should i do if i think i love him???

2007-01-28 07:27:40 · 6 answers · asked by blazegoth 1 in Singles & Dating

aren't potential long term material are they?

2007-01-28 07:27:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-28 07:26:50 · 23 answers · asked by CarZ 1 in Singles & Dating

Her bf strung her along,she waited a couple of months for him because he said he was having family problems,dumped her over the phone,and recently she realized he used her all along when she found out he was seeing two other women from work and has moved one of them in. She has been really ill since this whole thing happened and has been on antidepressants. She cant believe the way he's treated her,he has been boasting at work about all the women he's had. She told me she is planning on killing him,she said she doesnt know how yet but she isnt going to let him get away with what he's done,i told her to leave it and that he's not worth it but she wont listen. I told her to just punch him or something if she wants revenge but she said she will never be happy until he's dead,what should i do?

2007-01-28 07:26:48 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

mmmh???

2007-01-28 07:26:14 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I wonder how well playing dumb will work but what if the goal is limited to the bed. Tempting as it feels how does one resist in a good-natured way when the odds to get away clean are quite lean?

2007-01-28 07:26:05 · 5 answers · asked by abhishek s 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-28 07:26:01 · 6 answers · asked by uofmcrazyfan 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-28 07:25:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

He is a couple of years older than me. We have always been close and can talk about anything. I love him so much and we have a special bond. Even though our hobbies and ideas are really different we are still close. He is going to get married soon and I am scared things will change. I feel upset. We always talk about childhood and we agree on one thing, wouldnt it be great if we could be kids forever. He knows how I feel and he assures me we will still be best buds but I cant help feeling like this. I'm not close with anybody but him. I cant make friends easily and i'm ok with that because I dont want any. Its the way I am. What should I do? I know I'm going to be called selfish bla bla bla.

2007-01-28 07:25:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My friend (whose a girl) is really pretty...probably the prettiest girl in the school...but she's really shy (so she's never had a boyfriend before...and shes 16 years old)...and she likes this guy...but the guy is really shy too....so its hard to say if the guy likes her or not...how would you be able to tell???

2007-01-28 07:25:07 · 4 answers · asked by poetic_lala 5 in Singles & Dating

What do you think now? has that changed any views? Im far to happy to split up from my hubby, sorry, i should have made it more clear, but you have all helped, i will continue my research. Thankyou.

2007-01-28 07:24:38 · 8 answers · asked by paula25catt 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years, 2 years of this has been long-distance. We see each other about once a month. He told me last week that we need to do something about this distance so we agreed that in the next 6 months we both will do our best to move closer to each other. He is looking for a job near my city. I was happy with this news. He told me on Saturday that he is coming to see me in 2 weeks as I've been telling him how much I miss him and how much I want to see him. He called me on Saturday and we had a nice chat. This morning when I woke up, there was a message from him "I want you"!. I told him I want him too. He then replied and told me that he is getting upset with the distance and is fed up of not being able to have sex whenever he wants. He said he is so tired of this. What should I do? I did not react to it as I am not quite sure what to do? He has been down lately about everything, job, our distance situation.

2007-01-28 07:24:20 · 5 answers · asked by violet b 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hi, my gf and I have been togheter for almost 2 years, and living together since day 1. we move all over the states and outside too, we get along at the beginning but then we kind of freak out, we were way too inmatures. Now she's back in the States but b4 she went back she broke up with me, she just couldn't handle my insecurities anymore (but we both have them at quite exactly the same amount). I accepted I was a stupid and that I hurt her without intention or knowledge. We gave each other so many chances b4, but I feel that I never deserve one more than this time. I have change since I realize how stupid and inmature I was, she has change too, for good. So, now it seems a perfect time for us to start over. I love her, she's the only one I want a family with, she moves my world. I know she has feeling for me too, and I understand she doesnt want to waist more time in a relationship that wasnt working out fine. I'm giving her time and respecting her requests and decisitions. Will she?

2007-01-28 07:23:54 · 5 answers · asked by V+ 1 in Singles & Dating

ok.so here's the problem.last november,i told this guy i like at college how i felt abt him & he replied with a "i would have said yes,but i'm not looking for a relationship right now.but we can still be friends".now it's february,valentine's day is fast approaching,& i still like him.we don't talk much,mostly because we don't have any classes together & don't meet each other much except at school.plus it's his b'day 5 days after valentine's day.

the question is:
1)should i send him a rose through our school valentine's day program or not?
2)i'm planning to give him a card i made myself for his b'day.is this wise?

thanks a lot guys :^)

2007-01-28 07:23:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-28 07:23:21 · 30 answers · asked by Emily 3 in Marriage & Divorce