2007-01-28 07:33:51 · 51 answers · asked by bob 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hmmm...if I'm so complicated maybe it will take a real man to make me become uncomplicated huh?....could you be that man? and could you meet the challenge lol.
2007-01-31 03:56:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie, we have lots of complicated stuff in our heads and hearts. We have a million years of evolution, telling us we should be mothers and nesters and nurturors. And we have 2007 that tells us we can and should be anything we want to be and have it all. We need to be work savy, home loving, child rearling, man attending, and self building...all while keeping up what we look like and what we should be feeling. And they even tell us what to feel. Who are they?? the media, our families, our friends, our selves. So, yes, I guess, we really aren't too sure about what and who we really are sometimes.
But....it is hard for guys too. Don't cry. Be strong. Be brave. Be fearless. Be a man. And in the end, what does all that mean too?
Our heads are so turned around that we don't know what to think anymore, what to believe about who we should be. It's a real mess emotionally for both men and women.
I know you are asking this question because one of us have confused you. I am sorry dear. We do that a lot. But....men confuse us too a lot. It is just the way life is really.
Even as you get older, it doesn't get easier. Just the things that confuse both sexes change.
The best thing to be in all this tangle is wise and gentle and compassionate. The right woman will be the same with you dear.
2007-01-28 08:27:22 · answer #2 · answered by the witch 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Let me shed some light here.....
Women are designed to become mothers. Not only do we have a whole load of hormones kicking around our blood stream, which make us happy one minute and ready to kill the next, but we also have that instinct to bear children and have that "sixth sense" in order to raise those children and care for others around us. We also have ambition and a drive to be equal to men and at the same time be swept off our feet and romanced into a fairytale. We're human beings, not perfect but always trying to be.... of course we're complicated!!
I don't think it's a matter of not understanding ourselves though, I don't think many women (including myself) can truly understand the potential of a woman.
Note: Men are just as complicated, just in different ways. Which is why women don't understand men and men don't understand women.
2007-01-28 08:36:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
We are complicated because, we can be! And you are right, half the time we don't even understand ourselves! But that's usually after spending some time in a so-called relationship! LOL
2007-01-28 07:38:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women aren't half as complicated as men try to make them out to be. It is simply because men have a low listening threshold and can't cope with the fact that women are just plain more intelligent and superior to men that is the problem.
2007-01-28 07:42:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm not complicated . I want to be in a relationship where we both want the same things , love eachother the same and think that being with eachother far better than being out on the raz with the guys . What is complicated is finding someone who wants the same as me !!
2007-01-28 07:41:24 · answer #6 · answered by dmama81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are not complicated, men are the ones that dont have the heart to understand how we feel. When men are down, women are the ones to be always there for them whilst they will be mourning like babies. but if a womann says yhey have a problem men dont have the heart to actually understand how they really feel deep inside.
Try and teach yourself to have this compassion for other people when they are ill, if you find that it doesnt touch you then it means that you have a problem in understanding how people are.
2007-01-28 07:53:31 · answer #7 · answered by spo 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why are MEN so complicated ? I think that they don't even understand themselves half the time?
no one said it was gonna be easy....keep trying!!!
2007-01-28 09:05:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Isn't that the fun of it all? How boring would life be if we understood everyone? I love complicated men, it is wonderful that they have variations of personality. By the way I have not figured myself out yet and I like that too.
2007-01-28 07:41:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are complicated. We dont understand ourselves half of the time because we "over think" too much on situations and then we become confused. The guys job is to just nod, listen, pretend to care, and that avoids all arguments...lol
2007-01-28 07:41:50 · answer #10 · answered by Jujuchi 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋