Hi, my gf and I have been togheter for almost 2 years, and living together since day 1. we move all over the states and outside too, we get along at the beginning but then we kind of freak out, we were way too inmatures. Now she's back in the States but b4 she went back she broke up with me, she just couldn't handle my insecurities anymore (but we both have them at quite exactly the same amount). I accepted I was a stupid and that I hurt her without intention or knowledge. We gave each other so many chances b4, but I feel that I never deserve one more than this time. I have change since I realize how stupid and inmature I was, she has change too, for good. So, now it seems a perfect time for us to start over. I love her, she's the only one I want a family with, she moves my world. I know she has feeling for me too, and I understand she doesnt want to waist more time in a relationship that wasnt working out fine. I'm giving her time and respecting her requests and decisitions. Will she?
2007-01-28 07:23:54 · 5 answers · asked by V+ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just keep in touch and be a friend distantly since you still have feelings for her. Maybe she'll change her mind maybe not but you can always hope. Have you shown her how you've changed, prove to her by when you would've said/done something immature, act mature about it. For example if she finds a boyfriend or is dating other people instead of being jealous say you glad she's happy and getting to know other people even though you will be jealous a bit.
2007-01-28 07:31:10 · answer #1 · answered by hearts99992000 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you two had a ridiculously crazy past together....speaking from personal experience, I too have followed around an ex bf and lived outside with him....but once the girl has moved on, she's moved on....
If you love her let her get on with her life and don't waste your time resenting her or yourself for things you cannot go back and undo......I was walked out on by my travellin partner....and at first I thought my world was going to crumble, but after some time passed I was grateful it was over and done with.....then when he tried to contact me almost 3 years later, I changed my number and never look back....
2007-01-28 07:32:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say this buddy. But it might be best if you moved on if she turns you down. By all means give it a shot and see what her response is. If she's not willing to give it a shot, move on and find someone else. Hope that helps. Take care.
2007-01-28 07:29:50 · answer #3 · answered by Dominic John 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, life is far to short.
2007-01-28 07:27:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her and ask her
2007-01-28 07:27:17 · answer #5 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋