My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years, 2 years of this has been long-distance. We see each other about once a month. He told me last week that we need to do something about this distance so we agreed that in the next 6 months we both will do our best to move closer to each other. He is looking for a job near my city. I was happy with this news. He told me on Saturday that he is coming to see me in 2 weeks as I've been telling him how much I miss him and how much I want to see him. He called me on Saturday and we had a nice chat. This morning when I woke up, there was a message from him "I want you"!. I told him I want him too. He then replied and told me that he is getting upset with the distance and is fed up of not being able to have sex whenever he wants. He said he is so tired of this. What should I do? I did not react to it as I am not quite sure what to do? He has been down lately about everything, job, our distance situation.
2007-01-28 07:24:20 · 5 answers · asked by violet b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well , i'm sorry to say that money comes into it . distance is down to money , so someone will have to move , be brave and make this decision , jobs are easier to come by than great relationships , so take my advice and get living together
2007-01-28 22:07:55 · answer #1 · answered by woodchip1960 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 years is a long time to have a distance relationship, it will be difficult for the pair of you. All you can do is be understanding and supportive for him until you can move closer. Perhaps if you prefer him to come to you, you could look for a job for him in your city, perhaps someone you know could give him a start. It sounds as if he is getting a little depressed it is usually a sign when they complain about everything in their lives. Maybe he is due a holiday from work which he could spend with you? I assume you are both being faithful to each other and it is an exclusive relationship? If so then maybe it is time to make a commitment to each other? If you are due a holiday maybe it would be nice for you to go to him and spend time looking for a job for you there if you want to make the move? This would at least give him some encouragement that the situation wont be forever and he can see that you are trying to make things better? I wish you both the very best of luck, if nothing else - love will find a way!
2007-01-28 16:48:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What goes around comes around.
Work like you don't need the money.
Love like you've never been hurt.
Dance like nobody's watching.
Sing like nobody's listening.
Live like it's Heaven on Earth.
May there always be work for your hands to do;
May your purse always hold a coin or two;
May the sun always shine on your windowpane;
May a rainbow be certain to follow each rain;
May the hand of a friend always be near you;
May God fill your heart with gladness to cheer you
2007-01-28 15:27:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should both follow your hearts, not your wallets, it sounds like you have a very good relationship, 'don't lose it ' !! xx
2007-01-31 22:32:23 · answer #4 · answered by Sierra One 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start getting to gether every 2 weeks.
2007-01-28 16:38:27 · answer #5 · answered by D B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋