ok.so here's the problem.last november,i told this guy i like at college how i felt abt him & he replied with a "i would have said yes,but i'm not looking for a relationship right now.but we can still be friends".now it's february,valentine's day is fast approaching,& i still like him.we don't talk much,mostly because we don't have any classes together & don't meet each other much except at school.plus it's his b'day 5 days after valentine's day.
the question is:
1)should i send him a rose through our school valentine's day program or not?
2)i'm planning to give him a card i made myself for his b'day.is this wise?
thanks a lot guys :^)
2007-01-28 07:23:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
prettyme-this wasn't the question you should have answered.next time,check the q
2007-01-28 07:29:58 · update #1
Yes to both in my opinion. Even though he is probably more interested in his studies right now than a relationship I'm certain he will appreciate the fact that you are thinking of him on both these important dates. Best of luck and perhaps he'll find you to be the one to have a relationship with when he is ready, if you're still interested by then.
2007-01-28 07:31:39 · answer #1 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you heard the saying,"He's just not that into you"? What he said is a polite way of saying he is not interested in you.1- No rose 2-birthday card ok but nothing you wouldn't send another girl(nothing romantic).
2007-01-28 15:31:33 · answer #2 · answered by dog8it 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, i would say go ahead and send him something. But dont overdo it though... he might not be after a realtinship for a good reason, he may still be hurting, etc, so dont go overboard. Send him something really simple, like your rose.
umm, the birthday card thing, i would buy one, you wouldn't want him to get the wrong ideas, etc, so i would buy one. At least he'll know you took the effort to buy one for him.
2007-01-28 15:31:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anfieldgirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would just send him a rose. it's still romantic but wont seem too overdooey. if you know what i mean. making a card makes it seem like .. all you do is think about it. kinda stalkerishy
2007-01-28 15:30:12 · answer #4 · answered by m i c h e l l e 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no don't do any thing like that it's not wise and the magic words are HE IS NOT INTO YOU (I'm sorry if that is rude but it's the truth)
2007-01-28 15:32:44 · answer #5 · answered by me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's not interested in you. if he was, he would be dating you!!!
2007-01-28 15:27:22 · answer #6 · answered by prettyme 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋