Family & Relationships - 28 January 2007

I feel absolutely nothing for my husband. Even in the bedroom, I've tried and tried, but I can't feel anything for him anymore. All I see is a big selfish overgrown baby who needs a mommy and not a wife. I have two children with him, but I can't stand him anymore. We fight all of the time, and when he can see that I am happy on the rare occasion I am, he acts so meanly to make sure that my day is ruined. The only time I can feel anything sexual for him is when I'm drunk. And that's because I'm not in my mind. What can I do? I just hate having to fake it. I've even thought of an affair just to feel like I'm appreciated in some way, not just a one minute vessel.

2007-01-28 14:08:08 · 30 answers · asked by Alone In This World 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Im in middle school and my best friend(12) is going out with a highschool drop out(16) going out with him is really hurting her reputation.shes a nice girl good grades excelent athelete and shes really pretty.i usually go 2 her for advise.theres this grl in my school shes extremely jellious bcoz she cant get a date for her life. after her 1st date wih her boyfriend she missed school for about 3 days and the jelious girl started a rumor that my bestfrend was pregnate.she even texted my bestfriend saying that im starting a bunch of rumors when she came back 2 school every1 was laughing at her while she was walking down the hallz.and i ws the only 1 defending her.but sumhow the skool councelor found out so every girl in my grade had 2 go 2 an assemboly where the principal had 2 talk to us afterwards my best friend and i had to hav a private conversation with the skool councelor shes convenced i started alot of rumors and everyone in our skool is laughing or making fun of her what do i do

2007-01-28 14:08:02 · 6 answers · asked by Nikki DV 1 in Friends

ok i like this girl from school..althogh we didnt talk before i wanted to make and send her a heart shaped pizza for valentines day because i work at a pizza place ^^
and maybe a card that says something nice
is this a good idea? is there other better ones?

2007-01-28 14:07:38 · 12 answers · asked by Regular Guy 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 17 years old still in high school never had a gf before.

2007-01-28 14:07:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-28 14:06:39 · 15 answers · asked by blacvaniila 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My mom was a person who felt that no house was big enough.
I asked my wife about it and she said that all wome feel that way about houses. A house can never be too big! Even if it had 50 bedrooms and a 10 car garage. Women always envy, wished they lived in, the bigger house...

If that is true? Why is that? After a while the house would be TOO BIG for anyone unless it was a hotel!!

2007-01-28 14:05:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I've tried everything everyone's told me, I've been outgoing, friendly, patient, I talk to people in classes,joined clubs, I say hi to people every chance I get, I plan my day around bumping into people I know to have a chat, pretty much anything anyone can think of. I was alone in high school, my mom, the school coundelor and everyone told me it would get better when i moved to a new city to go to university, but it didn't. I meet new people all the time and even have a few regular friends but i always get forgotten about. I don't get invetied to parties (don't tell me thier not imprtant because they are) Í sit in my apartment on weekends. Every move I make is trying to find someone to be with but that doesn't happen often. I act relaxed and pretend I'm not lonely and desperate when I do have people around but they still lose interest. I have hobbies and talk to people with the same hobbies (music). Should I just give up? Is there anything left to try? 'm tired of being patient

2007-01-28 14:05:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

How would you feel if your husband-wife or boyfriend-girlfriend,
went to see a Private Investigator to do a backround check on you, Before they dated or married you ?

2007-01-28 14:03:19 · 7 answers · asked by 520 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

asked me to get milk for our three year old. He told me to keep the change when I got it, so I did. A few minutes later he demanded it back, and when I asked him why, he just said he needed it. He's a very miserly jacka55 most of the time, and I alone care for our two children including buying them enough clothing and shoes, along with toys and what not. So I figured he could put forth something since he never cooks, never cleans, never even helps with the children. Just sits on his a55 watching his movies. He decided he didn't want to take no for an answer, and dumped my purse out looking through it. It wasn't there because I keep my wallet in my coat pocket. He then turned around, looked at me, and said that he hated me. He was drunk, remember, and he usually is honest when he's drunk. I said to him "What about the other day when you were drunk and said you loved me". He said "I hate you. You're a ***** and a theif". I've never stolen from him in my life. What's up?

2007-01-28 14:02:50 · 32 answers · asked by Alone In This World 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Why can women be so ignorantly glib?
I was at a party in college and some girl I was flirting with, after we spoke for a while, took it upon herself to tell me I had no balls because I was drinking a nip. And she was a couple of years older than me too, you'd think she'd be more mature.

Anyways, she did what most women do when they insult people, she hid it behind a coy smile and "apologized". Then later on in the night, I was leaving and she saw this girl on the steps crying. She asked if she was ok, and then in a real sarcastic tone said

"You should talk to this guy over here, he's with the social squad"......Then I went right up to her as she was leaving and said "Oh, so you're saying you think im a nice guy?" Then she replied not looking at me like she was annoyed "At times" then I told her "Im drinking beer by the way now, just so you know. Have a good evening".

Ladies who want to come at me for standing up to that ***** can save it. I was not the one out of line here. They can find some other way to bum 2 points.

2007-01-28 14:02:29 · 7 answers · asked by heymanchase 1 in Singles & Dating

ok, i have a bf of 7 months and i love him! but be4 i even dated him i met this guy who i dated we broke up and we was just frineds this other guy still calls me and talks to me sayin he loves me and still calls me babe! i fill so bad for doing this and even talking to him but i still love him but, i also love my bf more thin anything! in the world do u think its bad that im talking to this other guy even know we r just frineds??

2007-01-28 14:01:20 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend loves when i act dumb (i dont do it on purpose) but he finds humor in it as every other boy would. How will i know if i really did sound that stupid and he is just lying...is there signs hell make with his face i should watch for...also what are signs that he is MADLY fallen in love with me? how does he show it?

2007-01-28 14:00:47 · 4 answers · asked by loversarereal5 1 in Singles & Dating

My dad refuses to meet my boyfriend now because the first time he met him was at 3 am in my room while my boyfriend was in his boxers. It's not just that but theres an age difference..not a huge one, about 3 years, but since I'm barely 16 he thinks of it as huge. I'm in love with this guy now. It's been almost 3 months we've been together and both of us would do anything to make the relationship work. Any tips for getting my dad to like my boyfriend??

2007-01-28 14:00:35 · 8 answers · asked by todayisallyagot 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm 5 ft. 5, 130 pounds, dark, curly hair, pale skin with rosy cheeks, freckles near my nose, brown eyes, long lashes, intelligent with a great sense of humor. How do i compare to other women?

2007-01-28 14:00:35 · 16 answers · asked by DivaHawk 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-28 14:00:28 · 6 answers · asked by GuNthEr'S_girl►♦♠ 2 in Singles & Dating

well, i've been friends with this girl (well let's calll her) monica since i was like 10 years old (im only 14 now btw) and last year in gr 8, i started hanging out with another group; in it, a girl named bonnie and a girl named clarissa. in gr. 7, monica kinda made fun of bonnie about her clothes and stuff and i never really liked it. this year in gr. 9, monica's hangin out with bonnie and im more with clarissa. which is really weird cuz monica's being a real hypocrite. i gotta say that bonnie's more "girly" and stuff this year and more brand name-ish and now their really good friends. im hangin out more with clarissa and we're really good freinds too and we know whats going on with our friendship (meaning me, clarissa, bonnie and monica) and we dont wanna be freinds with just each other, but with monica and bonnie too. is there anything i can do?

2007-01-28 14:00:02 · 6 answers · asked by monkeypie6 2 in Friends

2007-01-28 13:59:29 · 18 answers · asked by rat_leg danny 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-28 13:59:09 · 12 answers · asked by Katie 1 in Singles & Dating

Hypothetically, of course.

(yo = year old)

2007-01-28 13:58:57 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-28 13:58:14 · 11 answers · asked by shar71vette 5 in Weddings

i never loved my boyfriend i've just been dating him because my family likes him. he is a very nice person and he is always there for me but he is more like homie than a hubbie if u know wut im saying. we've been together 3 years and he really loves me with all of his heart. but i only like him.

2007-01-28 13:58:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

WHY?

2007-01-28 13:57:36 · 17 answers · asked by Mr. Nice Guy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I never really paid this guy at school any attention but recently i have noticed that i see him alot more than usual and everytime i see him his eyes light up and he has the brightest smile on his face, and he looks me up and down but he hasn't made a move yet what does this mean?

2007-01-28 13:56:45 · 4 answers · asked by milkchoclate1989 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-28 13:56:29 · 3 answers · asked by hedgehopper93@sbcglobal.net 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-28 13:56:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im assain and i have long hair

2007-01-28 13:55:58 · 16 answers · asked by sabrina l 1 in Singles & Dating

Is a 32 yr old mother of three, dating an 18 yr old wrong? He will be out of high school in may.

2007-01-28 13:55:29 · 25 answers · asked by Pardonne Moi? 2 in Singles & Dating

My parents support me with whatever I do, at least that is what they say. They sometimes say they do, but I can hear them talking in the other room and I have my doubts. I want to go to college for singing, but they won't take it seriously. They deleted my emails to sign up for this theatre club and I try to tell them but I can't work up the courage. I either want to go to college for singing or acting. What should I do?

2007-01-28 13:53:39 · 17 answers · asked by NONAME 2 in Family

2007-01-28 13:53:03 · 39 answers · asked by hot single mom 4 in Singles & Dating

how do i make sure we'll be able to make it,financially?

2007-01-28 13:53:00 · 57 answers · asked by Klc<3 1 in Marriage & Divorce