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ok, i have a bf of 7 months and i love him! but be4 i even dated him i met this guy who i dated we broke up and we was just frineds this other guy still calls me and talks to me sayin he loves me and still calls me babe! i fill so bad for doing this and even talking to him but i still love him but, i also love my bf more thin anything! in the world do u think its bad that im talking to this other guy even know we r just frineds??

2007-01-28 14:01:20 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

22 answers

You need to tell the other guy that you can only be friends and he needs to stop with the I love you bit

2007-01-28 14:06:29 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0 0

y o u c a n t r i d e 2 h o r s e s w i t h o n e a s s

2007-01-28 22:06:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

i think, as a third party outsider, that u need to think about ur relationship with both of them. if ur just friends with the one being called babe and other affectionate stuff like that isn't really friend stuff, and if u love you're bf so much and the other guy is just a friend why are u feeling so guilty? that should be a sign that something is wrong here.
but thats just me.

2007-01-28 22:07:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

It is bad if you are allowing him to call you babe and tell you that he loves you. These are not the ways people who are just friends act. You need to tell him to cut that part of your conversations out. How would you feel if your boyfriend behaved this way with a female friend whom he also dated? The main thing is if you feel bad at all, it shouldn't be happening.

2007-01-28 22:06:26 · answer #4 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 0 0

Yes and i dont think i would call it just friends if he's calling you babe and saying he loves you. Looks like he wants to be more then friends with you. Put it this way, would you like it if your bf was doing this to you? If you wouldn't then that answers your question.

2007-01-28 22:08:59 · answer #5 · answered by hurikaneivan21 1 · 0 0

You shouldn't talk to the other guy if you have a boyfriend. You are emotionally cheating on your boyfriend.

However, I would question how you could "love" two seperate guys so easily. Maybe you need to learn to distinguish between being attracted to someone and being emotionally involved with someone.

2007-01-28 22:08:13 · answer #6 · answered by Odvok 2 · 0 0

i hate to burst your bubble, but guys and girls can NOT be friends. this guy is still talking to you because he feels he still has a chance with you. it's not fair to your current boyfriend if you're still talking to a guy you used to love. i suggest stop talkin to the other guy, because he will present problems with you and your bf if he's in the picture.

think about who you care about more, and who makes you happiest. this is the person you should be with.

2007-01-28 22:08:08 · answer #7 · answered by robyoung3484 5 · 0 0

well u need 2 decide betweent the 2 of them. which 1 would u rather b with more

2007-01-28 22:21:29 · answer #8 · answered by confused_dazed 2 · 0 0

You can still talk to this other guy but don't say things that your boyfriend wouldn't be comfortable hearing if he was listening to your calls.

2007-01-28 22:04:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

no, as long as you dont cheat on your bf with him then theres nothing wrong with just talking.

If your bf has a problem with it then tell him when he stops talking to other girls then youll stop talking to guys.

2007-01-28 22:05:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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